and if the world burns and parallel universes are real at least I know I’m still somewhere drinking tea with you in childlike innocence
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and if the world burns and parallel universes are real at least I know I’m still somewhere drinking tea with you in childlike innocence
My Bath Routine Saved My Life - This Has Nothing To Do With Products.
Life doesn’t have to be like this. As your designated 24-year-old female attempting to navigate her 20s, let me tell you — I’ve been there.
Throughout the years, after multiple trials and errors, I can’t shake the idea that I may have found the cheat code to making the most mundane life slightly magical. I used to be a girl who would sleep, eat, and doomscroll every day, finding little to no enjoyment in anything and holding onto an impressive amount of resentment toward wellness influencers.
I couldn’t wrap my head around how people managed to get out of bed every day — let alone hold a 20-step skincare routine, run a 5k, and wash it down with a green ginger concoction. I was more of a “can I squeeze a nap in before my appointment in 50 minutes?” kind of girl. I didn’t enjoy healthy habits because I simply didn’t enjoy life.
But then something changed.
After years of therapy, a few scary experiences, and trying to survive the real-life horror film disguised as growing up, I reached a point where I was just… fed up. It clicked that if something didn’t change, I couldn’t live like this forever. So I crawled out of bed and started slowly. A few years on, I can honestly look back and say those small rituals and habits that I implemented changed my life.
When I was going through a horrible time, I for some reason found myself gravitating towards the bath. I’m not talking an “everything shower.” I mean a three-hour, bottle of wine, scream-crying to Taylor Swift in insane heat kind of bath. For some reason, this was therapeutic to me.
Albeit unhealthy due to the copious amounts of red wine consumed, it did start to become the highlight of my day.
I think this is where my obsession with romanticising life began. What used to be a 15-minute wash-and-go moment turned into an hour of soul music in candlelight, taking my time to wash my hair twice and even moisturise my face after. Hailey Bieber is quaking, I know.
From here, I realised I could make almost any task slightly more beautiful. My therapist told me, “If you have to do a task, you may as well enjoy it,” and a little cartoon lightbulb lit up in my brain. Maybe I was losing my mind — or maybe the wellness influencers were actually making sense.
Treat your baths as your solace
Hygiene can be hard, especially when you’re struggling with your mental health. Instead of seeing it as a task, I began to see bathing as a spa for myself — they became somewhere I could hide and decompress after a bustling, confusing day.
Baths are free, natural healers. They combine physical, psychological, and sensory factors that nurture your body and mind. There was something about the simplicity of it that felt addictive and restorative.
Warm water physically activates your parasympathetic nervous system and signals your body that it’s finally safe to relax. It slows your heart rate, lowers stress hormones, and shifts you into “rest and digest” mode — the same state as meditation.
I found that a bath became a warm hug at the end of an overwhelming ordeal. I’d hit the water, take a deep breath, and think: “Thank fuck that’s over — I’m safe now.” And I believed it. It felt like physically washing the bad juju and vibes of the day off my body.
Then came the candles
The overhead light in my bathroom was a harsh cool white, that kind of hurt my head if I looked at it too long. Goodbye squinting eyes — hello, three little helpers.
One candle on the cabinet.
One on the windowsill.
One… delicately balanced on the toilet seat.
Not glamorous, but effective.
I am a firm “no big light” advocate. Ambiance is one of the most important things in the world to me. If the room’s cosy, I’m cosy. If it isn’t, I’m not going — and you may proceed without me.
Candlelight has a low, gentle wavelength that encourages melatonin production and calms the nervous system. I used to come out of there with heavy eyes ready to get cosy in bed and rub my feet together, drifting off into the sunset.
Music made it magical
My life revolves around music — whether I’m lip syncing in the mirror, imagining music videos, or listening to the same album 50 times. Naturally, music became a huge part of my ritual. This really became about me listening to songs that I was feeling in that moment, allowing myself to let go, relax & really feel my emotions deeply and intuitively.
I’d create playlists for the month and play them on repeat in the bath. It became a way to melt away the day’s heaviness and process emotions through sound. I’d leave that bath feeling just a little lighter.
And anyway — crying doesn’t count if you’re in the bath, surely.
Small comforts became sacred
As my devotion to my ritual grew, I added more little pleasures:
a fizzy drink (with ice) in a fancy cup, fruit, bath bombs, essential oils — anything with a tiny dopamine hit.
I never rushed myself. I carved out time every day just for the bath. Sometimes 45 minutes, sometimes three hours — I didn’t care. I stayed in that little tub until I knew I was taking the piss, or until my heart stopped hurting even just slightly.
Taking time for me, with me was beautiful. It was the most patient and loving thing I’ve ever done for myself.
Maybe I’m just a Pisces, or maybe I’m onto something.
Try it and let me know.
Court x
friends can be just as toxic as ex-lovers, but nobody ever talks about it.
-until now.
there is beauty in everything. it depends if you’re willing to find it.
- advice from someone who is recovering from depression
how heartbreaking to grieve the loss of someone who is still alive, how gut wrenching to love someone who no longer exists...
-I fell in love with you were, not who you are now
I don’t know if I should run in the other direction or straight for your arms again
a song I wrote; walls
I never set out to hurt you... but the thought of you and her burned my heart like the alcohol that burned my throat. I had to close our story because the pages I had written had been ripped out like my heart in my chest and given to different lovers of yours. I knew I wasn't your only but at least I was one. My vision doubled like the figures of how many other girls you set an eye on when I only had eyes for you. Sitting in a bar,the only thing familiar was the feeling of alcohol rushing to my head. Catching glimpses of familiar faces, and glimpses of you in every single person there, double takes and double vodkas but none of them brought me to you. I had told myself prior that nobody would ever get to hurt me like that again, so I decided to return the favour. The alcohol kept coming, round after round with a boy whispering in my ear and oh my god did I wish it was your voice. I felt like I had been shot, but I numbed it with another kind. His mouth on mine, my heart beating, my vision blurring and for a split second I tasted your lips. I wish I just stayed home.
- payback hurts too
don't cheat on people. because when it's 3am and she can't sleep and the thought of you and her enters her mind like a tsunami the water will run down her cheeks. Questions circulating in her head like vultures. Why wasn't I enough? Why wasn't I enough? Was I ever...enough? Pain. Locked up in her chest with no way out, the agony is trapped and eats away at the inside of her heart like acid in an attempt to escape. She will close her eyes, wipe her tear stained cheeks and breathe in to try and calm herself down because she doesn't want to hurt anymore, it's too painful to think about, but as she drags in the air into her lungs she can almost swear she can taste her perfume. You may think her bed is empty on your side but she lies awake with her own thoughts, they don't let her sleep. A thought is all it takes to send her spiralling back to square one. She was too in love with you and you knew it. You knew she'd take you back. But it's the third time, and she's ran out of excuses to tell her friends why you still come to her house and lie tangled up in bed with her on Saturdays. It's the third time. Her friends won't listen to her when she tells them how hurt she is because "it's her own fault for staying". But the lies taste so good off your tongue. She loves you with all her heart...but it breaks every night.
-she is me.
They always say “that that’s the way it is” and “you’ll get over it”. Maybe you will get over it, maybe you’ll get over my absence…but will I get over yours? You were everything to me, my best friend, my diary, my safe place. The person I could run to and suddenly the miserable day I had wouldn’t matter because we’d be singing together so loudly that I couldn’t even hear my thoughts… I skip the songs now. The 3am phone call when I couldn’t sleep and my thoughts were filling my lungs like a flood travelling up into my throat,almost like I could vomit them straight back up again every time I tried to swallow and suppress them…now the only comfort I find is my tear stained pillow. The continuous laughter from a joke 10 minutes ago that wasn’t even mildly funny but we thought that it was hilarious…sighs replace our giggles now. The smile across the room when something made me nervous and I’d look at you, you’d reassure me with that smile…you don’t look at me anymore. The eye contact when someone asked if I was okay and I muttered I’m fine under my breath, because you didn’t need to ask and I didn’t need to say…it’s been months of “I’m fine.”,I stare at the ground now. The sleepovers when that morning I didn’t even want to leave my bed, the inside jokes that made me laugh when I didn’t even want to smile,the plans for the future we made when I didn’t even see one for myself. Because you felt like home, you were my best friend. You were my happiness. But what was I to you? Stepping stones. Something you walked over as you stood above me,used so you could get over your obstacles and reach the side where the grass is always greener. I didn’t mind helping you along though, but then you walked on the stepping stones to the side that had more to offer, the side that offered alcohol for you to drink, boys for you to love, and better people for you to trust and laugh with, I don’t blame you though, but you never came back. You left me stuck in the middle, the water got deeper and deeper and it was surrounding me and no matter how strong I stood it kept washing over me leaving me gasping for air and choking on the water,along with the lies you fed me. But here you were laughing, creating new memories with thousands of others while I was left in the ocean with no one else but myself. I don’t know if I can forgive you. I miss you quite terribly but my stepping stone days are done because I have now realised that nobody will ever deserve to feel like they’re not worthy of love. But when you get tired and the grass loses its vibrant colour and starts to rot and you want to just come home, it’s too late because there will be no access to the side that was never good enough for you. Because when you burn bridges you may rebuild them after a lot of work and effort. But you can never rebuild stepping stones.
I miss you quite terribly.
we are young, we play our music loud,drink until we can’t stand, we sneak out, get grounded, fail tests, run wild, we make friendships that only last a month, lie about where we are, cry in the bathroom, try new things, sleep for hours, binge eat, go through lovers like we go through our expensive clothes. we are young,we are the corrupted youth. we are the hated generation,but they forget who raised us.
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maybe he doesn't hit you...
maybe he doesn't hit you but he reminds you every day how worthless you are until you start to believe it yourself maybe he doesn't hit you but he controls what you wear,who you talk to and what you do daily maybe he doesn't hit you but every time you threaten to leave him he threatens to kill himself so you'll stay maybe he doesn't hit you but he'll make you feel guilty for the things he's done maybe he doesn't hit you but you feel as if you have to have sex with him so he will show you affection maybe he doesn't hit you but he doesn't like it when you overdress or wear too much makeup because he's positive you're going out to impress guys maybe he doesn't hit you but being with him makes your friendships suffer Maybe he doesn't hit you but you can't go anywhere without him knowing precise details. Maybe he doesn't hit you..but maybe he destroys you mentally.
music is medication for the soul
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friends who don't defend you in your absence aren't your friends.
took me too long to realise this