A Hidey Hole

call me Que (or don't, idgaf) All Pronouns (please) I like talking to/at people

[donotfollowrnbeingmoved]

IMPROTANT NOTICE, I'M MOVING AWAY FROMT THIS BLOG, PLEASE DO NOT FOLLOW IT ANY MORE I WILL LINK A NEW ONE SOON

[koiagain]

im going to fix my entire life

[fruitcakebro]

When?

[koiagain]

Like Um. later

[writingdose]

this used to be a common knowledge

via AO3Tikli 2022

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

"The trannies should be able to piss in whatever toilet they want and change their bodies however they want. Why is it my business if some chick has a dick or a guy has a pie? I'm not a trannie or a fag so I don't care, just give 'em the medicine they need."

"This is an LGBT safe space. Of COURSE I fully support individuals who identify as transgender and their right to self-determination! I just think that transitioning is a very serious choice and should be heavily regulated. And there could be a lot of harm in exposing cis children to such topics, so we should be really careful about when it is appropriate to mention trans issues or have too much trans visibility."

One of the above statements is Problematic and the other is slightly annoying. If we disagree on which is which then working together for a better future is going to get really fucking difficult.

[june-egbert-official]

Someone who says they don't care if dudes wear dresses and makeup is a better ally than someone who says they're a safe space for women and non-binary people. I am not joking.

[donotfollowrnbeingmoved]

sometimes you just gotta have a little bit of a "hate everyone and not be able to see the floor and can't sit still long enough to enjoy anything but still be exhausted all the same" kinda time, and then you do laundry and reorganize your clothes and make a donation pile, and you're room's still messy and everything hurts because you were standing too long, but you're more relieved because at least all your clothes are reorganized again and that's gotta count for something right?

[william-s-churros]

i think i saw a movie like this once

[maidslime]

Ok I needed to know the story and

Guy makes a really stupid decision and gets in a car accident -> no real damage from accident but insurance goes up -> starts beating himself up over his stupid decision -> gets depressed -> starts to realize he's single and had crash been worse he'd die alone -> realizes he's never had a relationship or even a crush and starts wondering what he'd want out of a relationship -> starts to realize he doesn't really like girls so he thinks he must be gay -> realizes he likes girls and boys about the same amount, so he must be bi -> later realizes that "same amount" is none at all -> he's ace

[donotfollowrnbeingmoved]

Favorite letter?

H (specifically when capitalized)

[girlnephew]

[1dietcokeinacan]

[audliminal]

Thinking about the whole "there is no platonic explanation for this" thing and how it doesn't account for intense platonic situationships and anyways I think we should start saying "there is no casual explanation for this" bc really what we're talking about is the way the characters in question are Obsessed with each other

[donotfollowrnbeingmoved]

5 6 and 23 for the ask game :)

5! who are three people I'd like to meet? (dead or alive was unspecified so I included both lol)

Alexander Ovechkin the Greatest NHL Goal Scorer of All Time! He's just a very interesting dude, and he's got a very showman vibe in a sense, it'd be a blast!

Dead Grandfather. Never met him, my grandma and uncle tell me I look just like him and my original due date was on/near his birthday I think.

Charley Darkey Parkhurst. He was a stagecoach driver during the gold rush era, known for being a little rough around the edges. It wasn't until he died that it was discovered that he was AFAB.

6! would I rather stay in one place or always be moving?

i would rather always be moving. i'm not someone to sit still and i think traveling would be fun especially because i haven't done a lot of that

23! what's a hobby i tried but didn't stick with?

makeup. i was restricted from doing it for a while, and i was gonna be really ambitious with it, but it ended up falling short. on rare occasions i'll bring out the makeup bag, but generally speaking, it's never something i stuck with!

[starloving-186]

ask game!

making an ask game purely out of boredom

if you had to dye your hair, what colour would you pick?

in an emergency, who would you call?

favourite scent and why?

who is a role model in your life, real or fictional?

three people you wish you could meet?

would you rather be permanently moving/on the road, or live in the same place for your whole life?

describe a dream you had recently

favourite accessory you own?

how would you survive an apocalypse or at least attempt to?

dream pet?

song you listened to in childhood?

how do you show affection (this can be platonic or romantic)?

favourite film?

piece of media that left a lasting impact on you?

any “paranormal” or unexplainable experiences?

favourite type of chocolate?

drink of choice?

a compliment you’ve received?

best gift you’ve gotten?

dream car?

describe a nightmare you’ve had?

favourite time of day/night?

a hobby you tried but didn’t stick with?

movie or tv show you want to watch?

dream room?

share one outlook you have on life?

a favourite lyric?

favourite way to spend time alone?

share an adventure you went on?

what are your opinions on the person asking?

[donotfollowrnbeingmoved]

my most fanfic moment ever was at a tiny concert. i went outside for some fresh air and started taking pictures and then the lead singer for the band i was there to see walked out, tilted his head at me, and asked what i was doing. i told him i was doing a little photography and he nodded before lighting up a smoke. i sat there awkwardly in silence for a bit and my photo was crap, but it's been embedded in my memory for a while. after that, nothing happened.

[natalieironside]

Shout out to trans women who aren’t computer scientists or musicians or avant-garde artists or whatever.

Shout-out to tgirls who work at Taco Bell. Thank u queen, society would collapse without you

[snkrfnd]

Over twenty years ago my big brother got me a job at a Taco Bell in the St. Louis suburbs-West County. He warned me that it was the “gay Taco Bell”, but since I was coming from the “gay Howard Johnson’s” I wasn’t shocked. It turns out it was the black trans women Taco Bell complete with black trans women in management. And they’d worked out an arrangement with the local teen Narcotics Anonymous group so that twice a week we would shut down the drive thru and the dining room and exclusively serve 60+ teens in various stages of recovery. And many of the women I worked with were in various stages of being out or transitioning and they were from all generations from teens to over 50. One woman I worked with had a regular corporate job presenting as a man 9-5 Mon-Fri and then came to Taco Bell and worked 6pm -2am Friday and Saturday night so she could be herself surrounded by other black transwomen in those stolen weekends. And we had customers come from all over the metro area because they knew they could be themselves in the dining room. I only worked there from 1999-2001 but for young me, this was a vital, formative experience. Some of the girls came from north city all the way out to the “gay Taco Bell” on Manchester in west county because they heard it was safe to work there. Like- I know times have changed but they haven’t changed much in 20 years. I’m still convinced that for lgbt youth, finding a job at your city’s version of the “gay Taco Bell” is key to survival.

[natalieironside]

Thank u for sharing this with us

[dark-spirit-tamamoland]

they're still terming random transfems as i type this i see which does make quite a statement doing this today specifically

[puppetstuffing]

watched three girls who reblogged its new blog mutual aidpost (made literally 15 minutes ago) already disappear from its notifs. transfems are not included in their pride :/

[puppetedlove]

:)

[puppetvictim]

:)

[tamamowand]

QUITE the statement to be nuking transfems at the current accelerated pace right at the start of pride month like this, isn't it

[quinnception]

This post is no more than two days old as of June 3rd, 2026. All of these blogs were nuked in two days or less.

[1v0ryqu1lls]

can’t decide what nails to do for my first week of work so yay pointless poll !!

What nails ??

ladybugs !

stars !

dots & stripes !

swirls !

plain black :(

Secret button for meeeee

Voting ended onJun 8

[monokuromatic]

School assignment was about playing with the formatting of text while writing so I did what I always do and made it about living with anxiety and depression baybeeeeeeee

Anyway now I have something to show people who are blessed enough to not deal with this and maybe they’ll get it!!!!

[knighthearts]

happy pride month for it/its users, polyamorous people, xenogenders, non-transitioning trans people, and other "weird" identities. btw