Draconic-Neko

18+ Blog. Call me Nyx. I'm a Lynx Furry. They/Them, 30s, Australian. Enby catboi, Queer and disabled as fuck, Anti-capitalist. Cyberpunk writer. Interested in anything shiny enough.

[konoko]

i cannot wait to financially afford who i really am

[loredwy]

I cant believe this tweet is how I find out

[would-you-punt-them]

now all the things you guys have told me about american high schools are starting to make sense

[jeaninelatragedia]

holy shit.

[frustratedasatruar]

You're not really supposed to say it this way, because its considered crass, but here in the US children are culturally and legally considered essentially the property of their parents.

Note that its considered more crass to point this out than it is to treat children as property in the first place.

[bimbo-cuntboy]

tight tboy holes are meant to be gaped

[nyanbinary-perineum]

a romantic first kiss and your partner is the throbbing and very hot head of my cock 💜

[exclipsensfw]

cyberspace

[2wsx-deactivated20210711]

safety checks are so fucking cute and sweet and don't ruin the mood at all I stg. Nothing would make me feel more cared for than "fuck yeah, take it, slut. You like this, don't you? Really do you? You ok?" like "FUCK Yes I Love It!!! Thank you for caring :)"

[becherdireinen]

the universe has a plan for you, even if you can't see it yet.

[orpheuslament]

no one talks about how straight up painful it is to be the bigger person when deep in your soul you just want to be a huge bitch about it

[nyanbinary-perineum]

Anon is for 'horny but embarrassed/nervous about it', pass it on

[queencalico]

[narwhalsarefalling]

this was the image i was trying to send btw

[galladegamer]

[sunray-angel]

please stop touching the angel's halo the fingerprint smudges will cause read and write errors

[forestgreenandgray]

Hey do you know what rumination is?

Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.

Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.

Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.

I'll say it again:

Rumination is a compulsion.

Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.

I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.

And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.

Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.

Like this was genuinely life changing for me.

Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:

Defining Rumination

How to Stop Ruminating

ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination

What to Do When You're Triggered

[zizzywala]

Reblogging to read later since I have this problem and haven’t ever really been treated for it. I feel like it will help.

[paragontology]

Knocked up my workplace with my 40 hour long week and it gave birth to a beautiful baby paycheck

[socialpants]

There's an awful trend in reading that's this CinemaSins kind of rejection of abstract concepts and suspension of disbelief, that makes people say it's bad writing when authors use descriptions that aren't immediately one to one with physical reality.

Like it's bad when a "tattoo is undulating" (as opposed to... "drawn in a wave like pattern on the skin"?), or when hair is "wet wheat from a late Summer field" (as opposed to "sort of brownish light yellow that dries lighter, but is not actual wheat stalks growing on someone's head but kind of reminiscent of the color and texture"?), or when when ice cream tastes like midnight at the fair" (as opposed to "ice cream flavour bringing back memories of undefined ice cream flavours that are individually popular but always tied to a memory of late evening at the fair ground and probably smelling vaguely like popcorn and sugar"?).

Please. We have to get back to understanding abstract descriptions that evoke feelings and memories and mental images or things we haven't experienced yet. This hyper utilitarian way of reading and judging text is killing fiction. it's robbing you of experiencing things you haven't actually personally experienced.

[release-the-sheep]

just witnessed something devastating

guy on the subway with one ear pierced, little gold hoop. other guy on the subway very quickly and subtly googling "which one is the gay ear". it is not the gay ear. visible disappointment on his face as he puts his phone away.

[booksandchainmail]

is there anything as good as lying in a sunbeam

[gobusto]

telling the truth in a sunbeam #honesty

[computationalcalculator]

[2wsx-deactivated20210711]

safety checks are so fucking cute and sweet and don't ruin the mood at all I stg. Nothing would make me feel more cared for than "fuck yeah, take it, slut. You like this, don't you? Really do you? You ok?" like "FUCK Yes I Love It!!! Thank you for caring :)"