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[nansheonearth]

I know I say this all the time but seriously if you’re a radfem you need to gather with other radical women. It’s vital for you and them. Maybe you can only make it to one gathering, a festival, maybe start a meetup. Maybe it’ll only be 3 of you there, but it’s something and it really changes everything. You’re not alone and you don’t have to be. Connect. Gather.

Edit to add:

Add your location in a reblog/reply (not the tags, not everyone can see tags) and then scroll through the notes to find women to message in your area. (And then message them)

[oceanmirage]

Southeastern USA (dm for state)

[nansheonearth]

Signing on again for Boston. I drive to NY occasionally. And I try to get to Cali/Michigan/Maryland when I can for festivals

[edowayeye]

NY for school, TX otherwise!

[dragonesss1]

pedophile

[madphantom]

You know, there's this cliché that teenage boys always eat massive amounts, but teenage girls really aren't that different if they're not suppressed by diet culture and body shaming. Like, I was a teenage girl who frankly just stopped bothering to fit into mainstream beauty ideals at some point, and I would regularly make myself just one big massive pot of pasta and devour it completely. This wasn't even stress eating or anything, I just genuinely needed the energy because you know, I was a teenager and my body was developing. I feel like so many teenage girls think they need to eat as little as possible to be petite and pretty, but the truth is that your body is developing just as intensely as teenage boys' bodies. Eat more, please, your body needs it.

[pingintech]

THIS!!! ^^^ get you at least a lil panza or i will send pizzas to your house

[cozyradfem]

I wish to god every single post about womanhood and girlhood and breaking down stereotypes wouldnt be co opted by fucking TIMs like no David it doesnt go double for you, stfu. This is a post about how young girls who are told to starve themselves for patriarchal pedophile beauty standards deserve to eat like their male counterparts do. This has nothing to do with anime pornbrained men in twirly skirts.

[servin-terf-haha]

TIMs, and it's always the Ms not the boys, forcing their way into conversations about GIRLS on top of fetishizing the girl children they talk about is always fun :)

(it is not fun, I wish they would shut the fuck up)

[dragonesss1]

we both know what you are.

[madphantom]

You know, there's this cliché that teenage boys always eat massive amounts, but teenage girls really aren't that different if they're not suppressed by diet culture and body shaming. Like, I was a teenage girl who frankly just stopped bothering to fit into mainstream beauty ideals at some point, and I would regularly make myself just one big massive pot of pasta and devour it completely. This wasn't even stress eating or anything, I just genuinely needed the energy because you know, I was a teenager and my body was developing. I feel like so many teenage girls think they need to eat as little as possible to be petite and pretty, but the truth is that your body is developing just as intensely as teenage boys' bodies. Eat more, please, your body needs it.

[pingintech]

THIS!!! ^^^ get you at least a lil panza or i will send pizzas to your house

[cozyradfem]

I wish to god every single post about womanhood and girlhood and breaking down stereotypes wouldnt be co opted by fucking TIMs like no David it doesnt go double for you, stfu. This is a post about how young girls who are told to starve themselves for patriarchal pedophile beauty standards deserve to eat like their male counterparts do. This has nothing to do with anime pornbrained men in twirly skirts.

[servin-terf-haha]

TIMs, and it's always the Ms not the boys, forcing their way into conversations about GIRLS on top of fetishizing the girl children they talk about is always fun :)

(it is not fun, I wish they would shut the fuck up)

[dragonesss1]

we both know what you are.

[gnomebutch]

“I wasn’t gender socialized because I was bullied for being gnc as a child” it’s almost as if that’s one of the most direct examples of gendered socialization

[feral--bog--witch]

Its amazing that the ONLY time I showed any sort of 'gender dysphoria' it was when I hit kindergarten and got into 'society' as a little girl. My mum raised me and my siblings as gender neutral. Games, toys, and behaviours weren't gendered. We could do whatever we wanted and it didn't matter.

So when I hit kindergarten and teachers and people started telling me I wasn't allowed to rough house with the boys because I was a girl. That I should wear dresses because they made me look 'cute' and then when I did, they told me I wasn't allowed to run around and play because I was wearing a dress and it wasn't 'proper' as a girl. That I needed to be less rambunctious, that I wasn't allowed because I was a girl.

Yah, no fucking shit I told my mum I wanted to be a boy. I wasn't 'allowed' to do the things I wanted to do and had fun doing because everyone said I was a girl. She told me that my body was what it was and being a tomboy was perfectly fine. So I became a tomboy and everytime someone told me I couldn't do something because I was a girl I responded with 'Im a TOMBOY so I can!'.

EVERYTHING in society is designed to reinforce the gender binary. Its inescapable.

[dragonesss1]

I can't believe they let you out of jail

[radiant-spirit-guardians]

Anyway. Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems to me that the conversation around TIMs in women's sports never includes ballet. It is a sport, not just an art form. I can think of a few reasons.

It's extremely demanding and cut-throat, not inclusive at all, and requires a level of discipline most people can't fathom. It's a very sex segregated sport. I suppose you'd have to transition fairly young (as a toddler, possibly, which is not the kind of decision a kid should be entrusted with), spend some fifteen years training with other girls, pray puberty won't bring about serious changes, prey you won't get career ending injuries, go completely stealth, and hope for the best. The industry is abusive as hell. Eating disorders are common. Women are rejected all the time for things they cannot change about themselves. You're either cut for it or you're not, no nuance whatsoever. A very tiny percentage actually manage to join the bigger companies.

I can see how these issues make it damn near impossible for the average TIM to become a principal dancer. Are there any? I know a few have joined productions, but most didn't transition as kids and as such didn't get the years of training girls get.

And yet I don't see the usual suspects nailing rats to theatre doors and sending death threats to big dance companies. Huh.

[dragonesss1]

you get called annoying a lot don't you?

[p34ch-t34]

Asylum Nicole full color

[dragonesss1]

rape is good for you.

[distantsolacevictor]

i'm so tired of people excusing the fact that women somehow aren't responsible for patriarchy because they are. Yes, men are the main perpetrators but it only keeps happening because women continue to enable this type of behavior. How many times do you see mothers forcing their daughters/teenage girls to 'cover up' so that their male partner doesn't leave them for their daughter? Or what about all the times women force their toddlers into beauty pagents/dance shows where they're completely aware the main audience for this type of show is older men??? Not even to mention women who force beauty standards on their daughters, like making them shave their legs, put on makeup, extreme diets the moment they hit puberty and begin developing like a human being. There's so much more I could mention but that's at the top of my mind.

Obviously you can't deny that these beauty standards were set by men, but so many women participate and enable them. Stop blaming this on 'female socialization' and 'grooming by the patriarchy'. women today have ENDLESS many resources to learn how to not be abusive towards their daughters. These women have the option to get their daughters into a safer environment but they don't.

[biac-091299]

“The oppressor would not be so strong if he did not have accomplices among the oppressed.”

Simone de Beauvoir, The Ethics of Ambiguity

[dragonesss1]

Do you want feminists to get osteoporosis and piss their pants from rape deficiency??? misoggynys?!!?

[bikinibottomfemme]

pho in the bed tonight with my butch oh yeahhh

[dragonesss1]

I don't understand why you choose to be raped.

[pussyt0es-deactivated20201216]

reblog if you enjoy flippantly dehumanizing men and putting women on a pedastal with absolutely no criteria

[dragonesss1]

I'm sorry someone told you being raped was bad.

[pillarsalt]

[nansheonearth]

Including guards, officers, wardens, staff, etc

[aromancy]

Diversity win! The guards perpetuating the system of prison slavery that forces people to work for pennies as punishment for minor infractions all have vaginas!

[pathtodecay]

this person cannot fathom any reason to not have male guards in female prisons other than "diversity" and expects to be taken seriously in discussions about things like prison reform and gender. why don't you go back to playing with your toys and video games and let the adults handle this.

[aromancy]

@pathtodecay I'm going to block you on account of the whole radfem thing, but I'd like to say for the record that if you actually bothered to read my comments on this post you've thoughtlessly reblogged, you'd know that I don't think any of the abuses perpetrated by prison guards will be mitigated by changing the gender of the guards. Female prison guards can and WILL abuse female prisoners.

[pillarsalt]

@aromancy So because prison abolition is the goal, we should be happy with letting imprisoned women suffer through more brutality than necessary, instead of improving their situation even a bit? I hate to tell you this, but we live in a world where prisons exist, and they aren't going away any time soon.

Yes, power corrupts and corrupt people are drawn to power; yes, women prison guards can and will abuse prisoners. However, you are absolutely fucking delusional if you think female guards sexually assault imprisoned women at rates anywhere near male guards. Plus there is the fact that 86% of imprisoned women were victims of sexual assault at some point in their lives, and 99% of rape perpetrators are male. There's also the obvious fact that women can't impregnate other women. Forcing imprisoned women to be trapped with men is absolutely cruel. We can take realistic steps to improve their situations while still working toward the goal of abolition, why the hell wouldn't we?

[pillarsalt]

I'm not even going to acknowledge the rest of that text wall. On what fucking planet would it be not a big deal for imprisoned women to be raped less? Fucking obtuse, sadistic moron.

[womens-suffrage-revival-squad]

the acceptable amount for women to be raped is ZERO btw, just in case you needed the reminder.

[dragonesss1]

Do you want feminists to get osteoporosis and piss their pants from rape deficiency??? misoggynys?!!?

[satoryuga]

Honestly, it’s a fault of mine but I’m very sensitive and I cried a lot over this, even right now. I tried to report that blog days ago, but I was told in the report response it would remain because no violations were found. I sent another report today, but it feels helpless.

I don’t understand anything about what’s happening.. I was told often here before that I should block people who are rude to me or doing things that make me feel uncomfortable, but I did that so I’m being punished? There are people who go there and say they want me to be harmed, beaten or raped. To have my home address and have other information about myself shared online like it’s nothing… I’m seriously very much afraid, so much so that I can’t even go to my home and staying with my parents now. I think the people who can follow this person and send messages of encouragement are also very scary and evil people.

I’ve always kept quiet and never said rude things to anyone, despite the terrible messages that would come in every day on this website before I closed the message function. I’ve never been treated like this in any other gif sharing place I go to. Many sisters in my life told me not to interact with English speaking friends because if they find fault with you and make them angry, they’ll call you with misogyny like you’ve never seen before. “You will be attacked for being born a woman who dared to be happy” is what my gif Twitter friend told me.

I would like to keep posting gif here. Because gif here is a very different format from what I was used to, so I could be a little creative. By being here, I learned how to make subtitles in gif that I was able to present the entire scene of beautiful words for this place and my Korean gif sharing community.

There were people who were nice to me, and there were people I was happy when I saw their user ID interaction with my posts. It has an invisible link but I would like to believe that not everyone was waiting secretly for the opportunity to say that they hope for my rape and abuse. Likewise, I would like to believe that there are people who will not be friendly when someone agrees that I should be harmed.

I’d like to come in again for the Donbrothers this time and the time after until the end, but I’d like to say that I don’t want to interact with people who say terrible or disgusting things. Don’t force myself to endure it. I really don’t want to.

Even though I say I want to post again for the next episode, but I’m really so afraid, I might not have the strength to come in. My heart is so broken, all I can feel is betrayal and fear. It hurts so much. I don’t know if I can heal from this, so it’s best for me to remain with my family and stay away for a while so I can breathe again.

Thank you very much for everything up until now. I hope that this translation can be understood. My hands are shaking and I’ve crying over and over, so I might not have typed well enough for a coherent translation.

[dragonesss1]

Denying transsexual teens HRT because you have a fetish for seeing them disfigured is medical torture and if you can't understand that then my dick in your ass isn't rape and your severed head in a trashbag isn't murder. You can't consent to the alternative ):