i do be servin' terf, get it?

| my LGBT is Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Terf | radfem | non-binary is regressive bullshit | asexual but not a cultist | pro-ship but keep it away from kids and tag it properly |

[servin-terf-haha]

I do be servin' terf, what can I say?

My asks are always open bc I actually do like open conversation about topics of interest (trans cultism, gender cultism, and the occasional fandom discussion) but you're not entitled to a response if you come at me with some low-effort, low-IQ, hateful bullshit <3

Here are my top talking points so you know what to expect from me:

LGB without the TQ+ (yes, that's coming from an asexual woman)

trans women are men (and trans men are women)

lesbians are women loving women; they cannot have or like dick, by definition (and the inverse is true of gays and their lack of vaginas or non-existent interest in vaginas)

gender is either made up or the same as sex; it's the presentation and the treatment of the sexes that actually matters

non-binary is regressive bullshit

fighting for trans rights means you're essentially always fighting for men's rights, whether you like it or not

TERF is a made up word (bc feminism is and always will be about real women) but we're gonna own it bc fuck the men who tried to gaslight us into pacifying autogynophilic perverts in dresses

you can pry my fandom/alt Tumblr from my cold dead hands but there will still be some fandom or equestrian posts on here. The Hunger Games, Euphoria, House of the Dragon, Game of Thrones, and Smosh

Outside of fandom, I'm an IRL equestrian, barefoot trimmer, and antisocial asexual living her best life. Miss me with that 'you must be so miserable bc you dedicate a sliver of your life to a Tumblr defending women from the Trans Cult' bullshit.

Shoutout the Smosh fandom for already losing their cookies that I'm here. Plot twist, I don't need you permission to enjoy their content and you don't hear from me in actual fandom spaces so maybe stfu? <3

[radfemme-rage]

the EU parliament invited *the TALIBAN* to brussels, to have tea with them and discuss sending afghan refugees (i imagine there will at least be some women and girls) back to afghanistan.

let this serve as a reminder to every woman, no matter where you live, it’s not you today but it will be you tomorrow.

you may live in a “progressive” place, but your rights as a woman and girl will always be up for debate and trades with male and patriarchal female politicians in power.

[doginclusionaryradicalfeminism]

[misandristwoman]

You have to raise awareness of ‘men’s mental health’ so women can spot the signs of a suicidal man and run the fuck away. We all know how men love to kill their wives, girlfriends, children, exes, coworkers etc. when they’re planning on killing themselves.

A suicidal man is not a safe man.

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

Dw we mean other men too

[servin-terf-haha]

"Terf aren't bad bc they 'hate men,' they're bad bc when they say something shitty about 'men' they actually mean men."

These fucking Cultitst will never not sound like idiots with shoddy af defenses like this. Baby boy, I'll hold your hand when I say this, they're all men and they're 99x outta 100 also going to be pieces of shit <3

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

okay so by "terf" you mean a female homosexual who isn't willing to pretend that she sees you as a woman, and isn't willing to pretend to be attracted to you? so you hate actual lesbians? very progressive. hilarious as a man to go run to your man friends on the internet claiming to be scawed of the big bad super scawy lesbians who won't sleep with you, and then having them all pat you on your man back and tell you that lesbians actually WILL accept you. no, we won't! stay scared!

[its-terf-or-nothin]

“TERFs have made me really scared of cis lesbians” so you’re lesbophobic, just like the Trump supporters you claim you’re so different from and despise.

[servin-terf-haha]

"real lesbians have made me scared to try to force my way into their spaces despite being a whole ass man wanting to prey specifically on women who aren't interested" there, fixed it.

[1000-life-hacks]

[its-terf-or-nothin]

I also recommend Z-Library, Anna’s Archive and Oceanofpdf.

[feral--bog--witch]

This is something that I fully support! A lot of authors dislike it but Ive found several super great authors by reading their books for free. And guess what?

Me reading like 2 of their books for free has now had me buying all their books digitally and starting on physical copies. One I dont even read the summaries on new books, I just purchase the them.

So like go ahead and read them for free! Read all the books you can!

[its-terf-or-nothin]

If you read books for free it also prevents you from supporting authors you disagree with. I’ve dodged several bullets by choosing to read for free and assessing quality before buying anything.

[feral--bog--witch]

Absolutely! Another great reason to read for free!

[average-tim-post]

https://www.tumblr.com/mousidy/818685063943290880/saw-some-reposted-nonconsent-art-of-a-transfemme this is just insane. they're complaining about not being fetishized enough. female fears are male fantasies.

the uniquely male urge to pontificate about their taste in pornography…

[servin-terf-haha]

The uniquely male experience of *checks notes* wanting to see more porn of your blatant abuse just to prove you can be abused and definitely aren't almost exclusively (tho not entirely) the perpetrators...

fuck these men (but not how they want)

[honeyblankets]

one of the most despicable parts of male supremacy is the strategic refusal to acknowledge female oppression. you can never address a problem it nobody admits it exists. there is no guilty party if we ignore the problem.

you will watch the news and see story after story of a woman being killed by a man but no one will call it femicide. you will hear statistic after statistic about women being raped/assaulted/trafficked by men but no one will call it misogyny. you hear songs and watch shows where men are degrading and abusing women but nobody blinks. there’s a “male loneliness epidemic” narrative but not a “female suffering crisis” narrative.

[fearlessfeministcat]

When England loses in football domestic violence increases by 38%

When they win it increases by 26%

Fuck your world cup

Fuck your football

End male violence

Source womens aid

[its-terf-or-nothin]

Men: We aren’t emotional

Also men:

[gnomebutch]

“I wasn’t gender socialized because I was bullied for being gnc as a child” it’s almost as if that’s one of the most direct examples of gendered socialization

[feral--bog--witch]

Its amazing that the ONLY time I showed any sort of 'gender dysphoria' it was when I hit kindergarten and got into 'society' as a little girl. My mum raised me and my siblings as gender neutral. Games, toys, and behaviours weren't gendered. We could do whatever we wanted and it didn't matter.

So when I hit kindergarten and teachers and people started telling me I wasn't allowed to rough house with the boys because I was a girl. That I should wear dresses because they made me look 'cute' and then when I did, they told me I wasn't allowed to run around and play because I was wearing a dress and it wasn't 'proper' as a girl. That I needed to be less rambunctious, that I wasn't allowed because I was a girl.

Yah, no fucking shit I told my mum I wanted to be a boy. I wasn't 'allowed' to do the things I wanted to do and had fun doing because everyone said I was a girl. She told me that my body was what it was and being a tomboy was perfectly fine. So I became a tomboy and everytime someone told me I couldn't do something because I was a girl I responded with 'Im a TOMBOY so I can!'.

EVERYTHING in society is designed to reinforce the gender binary. Its inescapable.

[dragonesss1]

I can't believe they let you out of jail

[servin-terf-haha]

Blocked and reported this bot but I actually kinda love this one. How did they know??

[servin-terf-haha]

(On Anon because I’m too paranoid of potentially being harassed or something, sorry if this is too lengthy! I hesitated heavily on writing this :()

I used to identify as a trans man (very much closeted). I remember a while ago my sister went through my TikTok reblogs since I had reblogged a lot of Transmasc posts and she went and told our mother, who proceeded to sit down with me, start a conversation, and suddenly ask if I wanted to be a boy. I was hit with a bolt of "Wait what huh how why am I being asked this" all at once, I started shaking and told her no, started tearing up when the conversation continued.

She’s a supportive mother. But I think that was what made me realise I wasn’t any of that "Transmasc" stuff, I didn’t really want to be a boy. The only thing I wanted was the privilege that I saw men get and the masculinity. "Surely, If I want those I must be a transmasc! No other girl feels this way right…"

Soon after that, I started exploring my gender again, I thought I must be non-binary, or genderqueer, or Agender, or something like Librafem??? It took a bit but then I finally hit the "I’m not any of these, maybe I am just a tomboy…". I also thought I was Aroace.

I saw a terminology page on some random LGBTQIA+ Wiki, and saw "Trans-exclusive Radical Feminism" (or something along those lines). I looked through #Radfem on here for like a few minutes that day and stepped back since I thought if I looked at anymore posts I’d be "Transphobic"

I came to the realisation that I might actually be a lesbian, it makes sense, most of my crushes have been girls, whatever partner I saw in my potential future wasn’t a man, et-cetera.

But I still feared becoming "Transphobic", I agreed with some Radfem takes buti didn’t understand what "they had against Trans ‘women’". I figured out "Trans-inclusive Radical Feminism" exists and started believing I was that. A TIRF. Then I kept lurking on the Radfem side of Tumblr (your blog was one of those I read through while going through this), I felt something similar to light finally entering a bedroom that has been dark for a while.

I started agreeing with more Radfem takes, after a bit of lurking I finally understood what Radfems "had against Trans ‘women’". Then I started thinking I should stop, this isn’t a good thing to be thinking, Trans ‘women’ ARE Women. I was "Transphobic" and I thought this would make me a bad person. Like if one of those trans people knew me and knew what I was viewing they might see me as Satan.

I couldn’t stay away. I couldn’t just support Trans ‘women’ again, it felt wrong to call them women, girls, ladies, et-cetera, it felt wrong that anyone I could by could be one of them. I lurked more just to figure myself out, and i kept seeing how cruel trans ‘women’ would be to these ‘transphobes’, all those threats, trans ‘women’ are ‘women’, but they hate women who point out that aren’t.

I felt more guilt and at some point I even searched up something like "I think I’m becoming transphobic, how do I stop this?" Into Google in hopes of changing, in hopes of supporting them again. That maybe I was having a bad dream or a bad day. None of what showed up helped.

I did even MORE Lurking. And I think I might’ve ‘peaked’??? I’m not quite sure what to call it, but I think I’ve finally gotten away from the "I must be a transmasc if I want to be masculine!" Mentality. I think I’ve gotten away from the overall mentality I had before this all.

It’s been difficult and kinda frustrating??? But I think I’ve finally figured myself out.

Hi Anon! I'm so touched that you're here, that you wrote all of this out, and that I can be here to help in whatever absolutely not-a-therapist ways I can! <3

A few things:

your mom is fucking fantastic. Like tell her that. The way she handled your alleged transness is the bare minimum for a parent. She was ready to nurture and love you but still asked enough questions that you in your child/teen brain had to give it some thought. I've shared my opinions about it plenty but I cannot stand how the Cult has strong-armed parents into not being able to question their kids on these very serious issues. It's all just "you better offer full support of you're actively killing them" which is a load of horseshit! So absolutely the hugest props to your mom for how she handled that!

And absolutely huge props to you. I feels kinda 'sappy?' to call it work but you put in the work of figuring yourself out. It doesn't help that there's an entire cult trying to brainwash you and every other child, teen, and adult into joining in some capacity but you overcame that. I'm fortunate enough to never have once questioned my gender identity (had plenty of questions about my sexuality and my actual identity considering I'm adopted with literally no info on my bio-parents and I don't look like the typical people from that country, rip) so I can only imagine the stress through friends going through similar.

I'm so glad you're here! I want to make a joke about 'welcome to the dark side' but considering we're the side that doesn't support child mutilation, indoctrination, rape rhetoric, abuse of power, the patriarchy in general, etc, welcome to the Good Gals Club!

I think most of us agree that for any period of time, we struggled to allow ourselves to be RadFem/TERF/GenCrit because specifically of the push for "trans women" (men) to be included wholly, without question, and at a higher station than actual women. Once you get over that (or just interact with like 2-3 trans women, lmao) your eyes open up and all of that bullshit pressure washes away. Trans women do not help themselves. They cannot. If they were as helpless and delicate and respectful as they claimed, we'd probably have no issues. They wouldn't be women by any stretch of the imagination regardless but we could probably co-exist a lot easier. But, alas, "trans women" (men) always have to prove their born manliness through entitlement, arrogance, violence, horniness (not that women aren't horny but it's a very different breed), and stupidity.

I would like to say, lastly, I think it's lowkey funny that we both had to look on Google 'how to not be transphobic" in a desperate and sad attempt to fit in with the Cult. I was already peaked by then but I gave it one last shot in case there was actually some article or video that could disprove all of the Gender Critical stuff I was gobbling at the time (so basically looking to 're-prove' transness). And what did I personally find? Nothing more than entitled, bullying 'stop asking questions' from allegedly morally superior places pretending they had any authority. It was my last straw, honestly.

Thank you again for the ask and opening up at all! I'm so glad you did and that you're here! <3

[radmenace]

the ACLU be like

[feral-radfem]

*filmed child rape. They openly the support the decriminalization of viewing explicit images and videos of children under the guise of privacy within your own home. I can understand some of their questionable legal defenses from the perspective of how the law works however, this one it’s just to protect predators. Obscenity is not a protected speech within our constitution and the viewing, producing, and possession of child pornography is against the law for harm to children not as an issue of censorship. ALCU is trash, and no good they’ve done can redeem them from supporting child rape.

[radmenace]

Some examples of the ACLU defense of child porn:

1997– Reno v. American Civil Liberties Union was a landmark decision of the US Supreme Court unanimously ruling that anti-indecency provisions of the 1996 Communications Decency Act (CDA) violated the First Amendment’s guarantee of freedom of speech. (x)(x) The CDA imposed criminal sanctions on anyone who knowingly (A) uses an interactive computer service to send to a specific person or persons under 18 years of age, or (B) uses any interactive computer service to display in a manner available to a person under 18 years of age, any comment, request, suggestion, proposal, image, or other communication that, in context, depicts or describes, in terms patently offensive as measured by contemporary community standards, sexual or excretory activities or organs. (x)

2003– The American Civil Liberties Union today welcomed a federal appeals court ruling that a law meant to safeguard children against Internet pornography would block lawful and valuable speech for adults. (x)

2010– The ACLU of Delaware wrote: “The ACLU does not support pornography or child porn. However, we do oppose virtually all forms of censorship. Possessing certain books or films, even pornographic ones, should not make one a criminal. Once society starts censoring ‘bad or offensive’ ideas, it becomes very difficult to draw the line. As the saying goes, ‘one man’s art is another man’s pornography.’ As for child pornography, the ACLU supports the right of the government to prosecute the makers of child pornography for exploiting minors.” (x)

(This one isn’t pornography but is just a nice bonus) 2000– The American Civil Liberties Union of Massachusetts has decided to defend a group that advocates legalization of sex between men and boys in a $200 million federal lawsuit brought by the family of a murdered boy. […] Mr. Roberts and other A.C.L.U. officials said Nambla [North American Man/Boy Love Association] did not advocate the rape and murder of children. It advocates changing the law to make sex between men and boys legal, and political advocacy, Mr. Roberts said, is protected speech. (x)

On revenge porn:

2014– “A new Arizona law making ‘revenge porn’ illegal is so broad it criminalizes booksellers, artists, news photographers and even historians and is therefore unconstitutional, the American Civil Liberties Union of Arizona said in a federal lawsuit filed Tuesday. The civil rights group said the law can make any person who distributes or displays a nude image without explicit permission guilty of a felony. The group says that violates the First Amendment.” (x) Said law, Arizona House Bill 2515, stated “It is unlawful to intentionally disclose, display, distribute, publish, advertise or offer a photograph, videotape, film or digital recording of another person in a state of nudity or engaged in a sexual act if the person knows or should have known that the depicted person has not consented to the disclosure.” (x)

On laws that would allow recourse for rape porn victims:

1988– The ACLU sues Bellingham, Washington for passing Andrea Dworkin and Catharine Mackinnon’s Antipornography Civil Rights Ordinance that defined pornography as a civil rights violation against women, and allows women who had been harmed by pornography to sue the producers and distributors in civil court for damages. (x) As Dworkin described it, “Under this law, it is sex discrimination to coerce, intimidate, or fraudulently induce anyone into pornography; it is sex discrimination to force pornography on a person in any place of employment, education, home, or any public place; it is sex discrimination to assault, physi­cally attack, or injure any person in a way that is directly caused by a specific piece of pornography—the pornog­raphers share responsibility for the assault; in the Bel­lingham version, it is also sex discrimination to defame any person through the unauthorized use in pornography of their name, image, and/or recognizable personal likeness; and it is sex discrimination to produce, sell, exhibit, or distribute pornography.” (page xxxii) Additonally, Nadine Strossen, president of the ACLU from 1991-2008, wrote against Mackinnon and Dworkin extensively in her 1995 book “Defending Pornography” (excerpt here) and in 2006 wrote that “These [Dworkin-Mackinnon Antipornography Ordinance] laws are so vague and sweeping that they endanger all expression with any sexual content, including expression that is especially valuable to women, sexual- orientation minorities, and advocates of their rights.” (page 57)

[ms-hells-bells]

as of 2021, their current statement on their stance towards child pornography on their own website

[enchantingcheesecakepersona]

I wonder if they’re Michael Jackson fans 🫥

[liberate-women-now]

This one kills me:

The ACLU of Delaware wrote: “The ACLU does not support pornography or child porn. However, we do oppose virtually all forms of censorship.

The words ‘however’ or ‘but’ should never be uttered after a sentence like that and the fact they though they had to include it as a preface to everything else is an indirect admission.

And I looked it up just to make sure its a real quote from them and yes: ACLU supports CSAM

[radfem-twitter]

[hello-mem-deactivated20200511]

How did they know which babies to smother? How did anyone know who was capable of birthing babies in the first place???

[radfemarchive-deactivated202304]

They magically always knew whose's genital to mutilate

[taramaclaywasaterf]

They’ve always known who to rape. Who to forcibly impregnate. Which fetuses to abort en-masse. Who to burn at the stake. Who to put into menstrual huts. Where to check to see if the hymen is still intact, just to make sure they’re still “pure.” They’ve always known who gets to be written as gods and heroes saviors and providers, and who is written to serve them, deemed sinful, subservient, the downfall of humanity. Who to force to cover themselves. Who to keep from education. Men of every race and religion, across all time periods, have always known who to oppress. Saying otherwise is denying the suffering of centuries of women.

[servin-terf-haha]

Hey, how do you deal with tras being awful in your comments ? I just posted something very entry level about respecting women’s linguistics, not even mentioning them directly. And here they are, calling me a bigot and telling me that I should die.

It’s my first time handling these kinds of issues

there's every chance, sadly, that they're a part of this new wave of spam bots. If that isn't the case, however, I personally try to get them to explain themselves more than forcing them to face facts they won't respect. "What is a woman?" Watch them struggle to define it and then offer a simple one (adult human female) and an explanation as to why simplicity and consistency matters. "How do you explain transness?" Watch them use stereotypes, fetishes, and blatantly misogyny to try to explain how a man can "feel like" a woman and point out the inaccuracies. If they're willing to have the convo, they're probably going to hear you out a bit but most of them still won't be converted by any means. And that's fine! Another thing is to know when to quit, for your sake more than theirs. I can lecture at a Cultist all day but if all they hear when I point out misogyny, violence against women, and a genuine denial for trans identity is 'transmisogyny," "you're a TERF," and similar bullshit it's going in one ear and out the other, at best. Sometimes it's best to just leave them on a lingering question that will hopefully help them and then block. A cultist, much like an addict, has to realize there's an issue AND seek a solution. You can't cure them for them.

Oh, and of course, realize that they don't fucking matter. Some anonymous loser wishing death on you bc they can't fathom respecting women and want you to stoop to their level is scum. Not worth the effort beyond an attempt at a debate or a good laugh.

[yinradical]

I don't relate to other humans. It's hard to explain. Cisspecies people wouldn't understand. Maybe I was born in the wrong body. Should I take animal hormones and wear feathers to feel more like a bird?

[its-terf-or-nothin]

I hate to break it to you but unfortunately there are people that genuinely believe this right now so the joke is going to fly over TRAs heads.

[capricorn-season]

[antiradqueervriska]

a reminder to all transdisabled!

- you are not disabled.

- disability is a serious thing that affects many people's lives.

- disability is not something that you can roleplay or pretend to be for fun.

- get a hobby and stop making fun of disabled people's real experiences.