I am HIS pet dragon

NSFW +18. Female 42 happily married. Exploring my submissive side with my husband and Master and Owner. Looking for others living a D/s lifestyle to build a community to interact with and help grow a deeper bond with my partner. I have a Domme blog under dragonmistressandqueen I have a have a NSFW book (mostly smut/erotica), music, erotic art, and misc. blog under dragonvixensbookshelf I have a SFW blog under dragonavaris

[dragonpetvixen]

Cold chains feel very soothing after a good chest flogging.

[gfdandrr]

Source: @2lwed4me  

[dragonpetvixen]

This can go one of two ways:

A nice warm cuddle while reading or

A concentration game where I am not allowed to stop reading as he tries (always successfully) to distract me.

[masterferv]

When your freshly flogged plaything gets a reward for taking her licks in stride, like a good girl.

[dragonpetvixen]

Lookit!! Master tried out his new toys from Bound Con and I got a dragon!

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[dragonpetvixen]

It is a fun goal.

[alternative-pinup]

Alternative Pinup

[dragonpetvixen]

I would like to find bottoms like these in every color. My bum needs frills!

[her-witching-hour-deactivated20]

[dragonpetvixen]

Bring it in BoundCon! Let’s see what you got.

[masterferv]

These are a few of my favorite things.

[dragonpetvixen]

Your favorite things make me look gooooood.

[primalpreysuggestions]

Show me the darkest side of you. You don’t have to come into the light, no- just let me take your hand. Let me follow you into the shadows. Eclipse me with your embrace, and hold nothing back.

[dragonpetvixen]

@masterferv

..... and I’ll show you the darkest side of me.

[dragonpetvixen]

Not for eatins

me: *innocently walking down the hall, minding my own business*

Him: *stops me to nibble on my arms*

me: Uhm, no where is it documented that you can just randomly bite me.

Him: *pushes me over the couch, lifts up my shirt and proceeds to label me*

[deniedpoppy]

“Yes.”

I hate it when he says yes.

“Can I cum?”

“Yes.”

…well that’s disappointing.

I don’t want him to say yes anymore. I feel punished. It makes me want to cry. Please stop saying yes. I don’t want to cum anymore. Please forgive me. Please deny me again.

I wrote a whole page full of things I want him to do to me. 

None of them included saying yes.

Please don’t say yes anymore.

Please deny me again.

[dragonpetvixen]

This is me.

I have taken to denying myself. Breathing through the need with a mantra something like, “objects don’t cum, fucktoys are only sleeves for His pleasure, I’m just a rutting post and nothing else”

But when I do beg to cum, I secretly hope He will say no.

[tgweaver]

Animation test

[dragonpetvixen]

This sums up our weekend.

We found a new piece of furniture we like..... besides me that is.

[dragonpetvixen]

Suffer for me

I was in the middle of my lung twists and thinking to myself “gaahh this buuuuurrrrnns! I’m only on 7 and I still have 2 more sets.” My mind then wanders (as I’m coming to understand is typical of some subs). I like it when my Master watches me workout (He was not with me on this occasion). I like the way he leers, I like to hear his positive feedback, and I like how he pushes me, “I think you can do two more.”

Then my mind wanders again to how I like impact play and predicament bondage. Finding my limits and suffering for my Master.

Then (don’t worry, I’ve managed to do a few more reps) I think, why can’t I suffer for me? To be honest I usually just endure by thinking this will all be over soon and in the meantime just breathe. I don’t sink into the feeling of the pain and chase it.

In BDSM, I do like to suffer because it is pleasurable for my Master. The more pleasure I feel, the more pain I can take. But I would like to find the pleasure in the pain in non-sexual situations. I would like to suffer for me and enjoy the journey.

[accidental-muse]

Doms and subs in their 30s, 40s & beyond, call to represent!

Recently I reblogged and commented on an Ask that @theruleset answered in which an Anon worried that she ‘missed her chance’ to explore the kink scene because she might have grown too old.

She’s 25.

The reblogs continued, and those in the community who aren’t right out of their teens (nor looking for a partner who is) weighed in with such great feedback! It felt awesome to go through the replies, and to follow their blogs, and to feel something akin to actual representation and visibility on a website and its kink subculture that is overwhelmingly tilted toward the (sometimes uncomfortably, depending on what’s depicted) very young.  Especially when it comes to the women in it.

Got nothing but love for those younger (but legal, of course) in kink, too, and you all deserve an amazing journey as much as any of us, but this particular post is for 30 and up, soooooo:

Please like and reblog this if you’re a Dominant, submissive, or kinkster in your 30s, 40s or older so we can find and support each other, and most of all, increase our visibility on tumblr. :)

(And if you just want to support this post, please feel free to like and reblog, too!)

[exoticeva]

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[redbottomkitteninheels]

[princesskitcat]

[thesweetertouchofdominance]

47, the longer you do it, the better it gets!

[no-regrets-4-me-deactivated2017]

25 and grown too old to enjoy the scene? Are you fucking kidding me? Grow up, you silly little girl. I’m 51 and trust me, it’s all about what you make it; age has nothing to do with it. 

[accidental-muse]

I seriously continue to adore where this thread touches and leads. :)

[instructor144]

I will always reblog this. 25? Sweet Jesus. From the perspective of 62, I look back at myself at 25 and realize I was an onchoate, half-formed baby Dom, just getting started. Not to put too fine a point on it, I was a mess.

[dragonpetvixen]

[mrharristweed]

[dragonpetvixen]

Flexibility goals

[agentlemansavage]

I do not have a Dominant "side."

I do not have a Dominant “side.”        

I am Dominant. I do not “play;” I lead. We are not having a “session;” we’re living a life. There are no “scenes.” Only moments. Gentleman Savage

[instructor144]

It’s not a “lifestyle,” it’s a life. This isn’t a fucking game.

[dragonpetvixen]

So I’ve been debating reblogging this because I don’t really agree. But that’s ok. I am me, my life and how I live it is up to me. I read and respect the words of those more experienced but I understand that our lives are not the same. I therefore make my choices based on the knowledge that I have gained from others.

I DO have a Dom side..... and a submissive side. I do live D/s as a life but I have chosen to do so. Almost every day I discuss protocols with my Master, refining and evolving what we make as ours. Most recently these discussions have also entailed the part of me that wants to control.

How others live their lives is up to them, safe in the bedroom or in the public dungeon. Whatever gives you peace and happiness, find that.

[that-one-theatre-ghost]

[dragonpetvixen]

Sometimes discovering your path to BDSM is through an innocent interaction.

[keeping-kinksters-safe]

Please reblog if you’re a BDSM/kink blog that does NOT support or allow minors.

Everyone who reblogs will be added to the Safe Space Support List! :)