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"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
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Are there any other tists you recommend?
Mousemerised on YouTube is an up and comer with a lovely Irish accent.
A sanctuary supporting surrender, stillness and sleep. Particularly preferential to purple. Rewarding relaxation through hypnosis and medita
@mistresscalia, @smutgrrl and @dragontize1 are also people worth following (although I feel like if you know me you definitely know them)
Why thank you, Vox. <3
bodies should have crash logs. why the fuck did that just happen.
Oh youre "nonbinary"? Can i put you in a box please. Can i pleaseeeee put you in a box. We have two boxes and i really wanna put you in one. But dont worry. My boxes are very Woke and Nuanced. So its fine to put you in one. Pleaseeeee. Wow... youre such a bitch... not letting me put into one of two nuanced and essential necessary boxes... you obviously go into the box all those evil bitches end up in
I will *happily* get into the evil bitch box. 😈
I'm not experienced enough to speak authoritatively of this, but I feel like if you're doing RACK stuff that's potentially harmful either physically or emotionally, both domme and sub alike should have people in their lives besides each other that they can talk to about it instead of just each other. People whom they can both trust to take it with the nuance and understanding it deserves, and to not treat it like an inherent reason to dissolve the relationship or spread information about it around. Like, if something bad happens, it's probably gonna fuck *both of you* up. and you might not have the capacity to be fully emotionally available to support each other through that right away. and having outside people to go to who you can trust to say "oof, i'm sorry that happened, I know you knew the risks but it still definitely sucks when things go sideways. let's get you healing up a bit so you can discuss it with each other safely and figure out how to move forward." seems kinda important. It feels like an important part of addressing those risks.
I think another often neglected part of RACK is truly internalizing that at some point you *will* be hurt in a way that isn't an intended outcome (as a submissive in a RACK dynamic). As a participant, you need to accept that if you choose to engage with risky play regularly, there will be a moment where you experience The Risks you've consented to. If you get tied up often, you will eventually deal with nerve compression or a circulation problem. If you play with knives, you will get cut in an unintended way at some point. If you do impact play, you will have skin broken or get a sprain or be hit harder than you are prepared for. For whatever kink you engage with under RACK, eventually you will experience The Risks even if your Domme/top/partner does everything right. Internalize that fact!
And most importantly, you should plan for that eventuality before it happens! Part of safely being risk aware is understanding how you bounce back from that position when things go wrong. For some people and some pairs or groups, that might look like "I need support and understanding from an external party." For others it might look like, "I need to work through my feelings verbally with you, specifically." You should have a conversation around what aftercare and support looks like when things go well (a widely accepted fact in most kink I hear about), but also when things go badly! "What does my scene partner need if things Go Wrong?" and "How do we prepare for things to Go Wrong?" are questions you should have already answered before you begin. Even if the answer is "my partner doesn't know specifically what they need, but they have agreed to a framework of communication in the worst case scenario and I will support them in the ways they ask for in the moment."
Being risk aware includes understanding how your play partner(s), in particular (not just an abstract play partner), need to be supported after the fact when The Risk happens.
memory play where the hypnotist also forgets. no one knows anything
An exchange I had a few years ago:
Me: "Oh damn it, I've forgotten that trigger..."
Her: "Can I help?"
Me: "No, you've forgotten it too."
just a little PSA against wearing headphones all the time!
it makes it really difficult for your friends to slip the mind controlling worms into your ears so you can join the hive with them!
So many of you would be begging them to do it, wouldn't you? <3
people are so weird about cnc and I always just want to look them in the eyes and say “you are getting mad at people for playing pretend. you are getting mad at people for saying ‘raaar! I’m gonna getcha!’ you are not a serious person.”
so much ink and tears have been spilled theorizing that rape kink is about trauma and social anxieties and power fantasies and sure maybe. but I think we’re just mammals who like pretend danger in our play just like every other mammal ever. because we have evolved to find that fun. and the only difference between play-wrestling in bed and pulling out the fuzzy handcuffs is commitment to the bit
you can never escape a weird little freak that loves you
this was meant to be romantic but now i’m realizing it reads more like. a threat
One of the big allures of hypnosis for me is bridging the gap between fantasy, perception and reality.
I know I'm not really an alluring Fae who corrupts the wills of others and makes them fall to their knees in adoration of my impossibly beautiful form.
But I do have the ability to make you see me as such. To whisper a glamour charm into your ear until you see the dawning sun glisten from my ginger hair and tremble at the sultry husk of my voice.
I enjoy the powerful sensation of knowing I can correct your inability to view me as you should. All I'm doing is aligning your eyes to the truth of what I am, after all.
I wonder what would happen when I align your reality to perceive you as you are, my dear? What would that soft and malleable little mind of yours choose to see you as once you're Fae-Touched and warped by my words?
...don't you find yourself a little curious to find out...?
such a sweet dynamic // nsfw
the two dolls eagerly speak at one another, talking about anything and everything
their owner watches from the corner. such a sweet dynamic.
She gets up.
the two dolls don't notice.
She approaches.
the dolls are too engaged to hear Her footsteps.
She steps right next to the figures. a hand slowly descends between their faces.
the conversation pauses. the two look up. She snaps her fingers.
and the dolls are gone. limp. none of the energy from before can be found here.
...
the dolls stand, drooling slightly. She pulls the shirt off of one of them, marking the last article of clothing removed.
the work She put into sculpting their minds and bodies was too precious to be hidden away like that, after all.
two, empty-minded things. nude, unknowing. such a sweet dynamic.
She hugs the quiet forms close, and turns them to face one another.
every hole of the dolls is slowly leaking away; another flawless design feature from Her.
She tenderly poses the dolls together in all kinds of positions - cupping one another's breasts, on their knees.
every pose She chooses, She inspects Her delicate art pieces carefully. sometimes, she even takes a photo.
eventually, She places the dolls together into a tight embrace,
She puts their mouths together,
She intertwines their legs,
and She snaps Her fingers.
the two entities look around wildly, blushing and dripping.
they look at one another. when did their bodies get so worked up?
"You two have fun, now!"
they turn to their owner. She hasn't moved an inch.
they turn back to one another. they need this.
such a sweet dynamic.
Sometimes I think about how easy it would be
To take something wild and untamed and change it
Teach it to listen..to follow..to kneel..when I look at it just right..
and then bring them all back to my Owner
lined up.. quiet..good..
a whole herd that learned obedience from me
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"Alpha sub", move over for the bellwether.
I really do feel most like a pervert when one of my partners or subs is just experiencing one of the normal discomforts of life. and the sadistic demon on my shoulder says "and why don't you just wait another few seconds before helping, just to enjoy the expressions it makes?". and the angel on my shoulder is in pretty heavy bondage right now so can't really say anything to mount a defense (don't worry, it gets off to it). Emotional sadism is the best thing ever.
I'd like to craft a control collar.
I'd start with an ordinary pretty collar, and then I'd start attaching triggers to it: you can't take it off on your own, when wearing it you must obey direct orders, and so on.
The cumulative effect would be for the collar to turn you into a subby, owned pet.
And of course, I could force you to wear it. I could hypnotize you and make you put it on, or I could just hold you down, strap it around your pretty neck, and watch all the defiance leave your eyes.
And sure, maybe I'd do that every so often.
But what if instead I just put it on the table next to you. You'd know exactly what it did. You'd know it would take your thoughts away, it would turn you into a horny toy... when you wear that collar, you aren't really a person anymore. I wouldn't force you to put it on. All I would do is tease you, flirt with you a bit. The collar is right there.
And soon enough, you'd be wearing the collar and kneeling expectantly, waiting for an order to serve. Because deep in your soul, you want to be owned.
Hot take: Good social skills and understanding your play partners will make you a far better hypnotist than reading Erickson or imitating Bandler.
...and just about anything will make you less of a jerk than imitating Erickson.
Anyway I think more video game quests should make you uncomfortable and guilty and mislead you and corner you between a rock and a hard place and offer hollow victories. There's nothing more annoying than quest writing that scrambles to assure you that you're niceys and good and nothing you put your hand on can ever have negative consequences. "You cannot save everyone" and I cheer and whoop etc.
Tell me you're an emotional masochist without telling me. 😝
Today's weather:
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I bet you're cute making that face.
