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If you're in LGBT friendly spaces and someone introduces themselves and cautiously says they're fine with any pronouns, it is your duty to notice which pronouns the people around you tend to default to for them and ensure that you refer to them with any and every pronoun under the sun except for that one. You must.
Hot take, but cis people have gender identities. They aren't the gender they identify as because of their genitalia or what their birth certificate says. They're only cis because they identify with a gender and it happens to match their government documentation. Cis men aren't men because they're "obviously" men for having a penis. They're men because they identify as men. It's the self-identification that dictates this, not any other factor, even for cis folks. And we should be framing it this way. A cis man identifies as a man and a cis woman identifies as a woman. There is no automatic or inherent gender.
You are not "born a boy/girl." Infants don't have a gender. You acquire gender when you identify as it. No such thing as "biologically a man/woman."
"I don't identify as anything, I'm a man."
It sure sounds like you identify as a man, bud.
Giving a brownie to cis folks who rb this.
Gonna admit the "this isn't a hot take it's obvious" comments from a dozen or so people are grating on my nerves, so I'm gonna address that.
Just say you've never had an actual conversation with a cis person outside of a very leftist circle lol. Obvious to you. To you, fellow trans person. I wish I got paid every time I had to hear a cis person say they don't have a gender identity or don't "identify" as anything they just "are" a man or a woman.
Sometimes you have to stop and ask yourselves what group of people a post is mainly directed at.
I saw someone on Tumblr once say that they didn't realize they were agender because they just identified as their body and they figured that's what cis meant.
And I think they're right actually. Not for everyone of course! There's people who are very gendered about their cis identity and that's wonderful.
But I think a lot of cis people don't really think of gender as a real thing beyond their anatomy. They don't really think about gender as a mental concept so much as a physical manifestation of life, and build an identity around that, based on the social constructs of their culture. Which tends to primarily be based on mid 20th century western world ideals.
But that's just something I've been turning over in my head for ages.
what would you call it when a person introspects about their gender and concludes that they happen to identify with the gender they were assigned at birth
Cis plus.
remember kids, the moral of "Irish and Italians weren't even considered White yet!" isn't "because in those times people were so ignorant they didn't think the Irish were white". the moral is "because white is an unreal category created to justify slavery and ongoing hoarding of power and wealth". It's not that you know better about Italians. It's that the boundaries of the higher caste have changed.
the thing is that childhood doesn't just end when you turn 18 or when you turn 21. it's going to end dozens of times over. your childhood pet will die. actors you loved in movies you watched as a kid will die. your grandparents will die, and then your parents will die. it's going to end dozens and dozens of times and all you can do is let it. all you can do is stand in the middle of the grocery store and stare at freezers full of microwave pizza because you've suddenly been seized by the memory of what it felt like to have a pizza party on the last day of school before summer break. which is another ending in and of itself
Hey.
This is one of the reasons why you should be kind to older people.
This happens more and more, harder and harder, and dealing with it that often is pretty rough.
Let them tell their stories.
hey wait! i know you! we used to be chained next to each other in the cave! wow, so good to see you, how are ya? man. remember how we used to talk about the shadows on the wall together. gosh that was a long time ago. but hey. sure is one heck of a sun out here, right? it's good to see you.
i wrote this post with happy tears in my eyes sitting in a parking lot after getting coffee for 3 hours with someone i did youth shakespeare with when we were teenagers and hadn't seen in 15 years, in which time we both transitioned, got into nerd shit, found a job that feels good, found people to spend our gay little lives with, and coincidentally moved to the same city. this is exactly how it felt. never ever ever kill yourself
why yes I would actually love to play a convoluted board game at this chill drinking party that wasn’t advertised as a game night. Hey would it be ok if you whip it out after we’re all in four drinks? Yeah, just so none of our attention spans are at 100% and none of us would be cleared to drive a car or obey traffic laws. and would you mind explaining the rules in a very surly manner and appear subtly irate whenever someone’s attention strays from the game? yeah yeah and would it be ok if we played it on an abrasive carpeted floor too? thanks
propaganda a lot of y’all should fall for:
whispering “thanku” to your tea or coffee before the first sip.
telling your friends you love them when they least expect it. especially then.
googling “what kind of flower blooms twice” at 3 a.m. to feel hopeful again
deleting apps every two weeks and calling it a spiritual reset.
naming your plants like they’re ur friends. apologizing when you forget to water them.
believing ur younger self would still think you’re cool. even on your worst days.
using perfume before bed. for no one. for you.
making eye contact with yourself in the mirror when you cry. giving the pain an audience.
taking selfies when you feel awful. proof you existed even when the light wasn’t flattering :-)
a few great films that are free on the internet archive
in decent quality too!
here is the archive collection of these films so you can favorite on there/save if desired.
links below
black girl (1966) dir. ousmane sembene
the battle of algiers (1966) dir. gillo pontecorvo
paris, texas (1984) dir. wim wenders
desert hearts (1985) dir. donna deitch
harold and maude (1973) dir. hal ashby
los olvidados (1952) dir. luis bunuel
walkabout (1971) dir. nicolas roag
rope (1948) dir alfred hitchcock
freaks (1932) dir. tod browning
frankenstein (1931) dir. james whale
sunset boulevard (1950) dir billy wilder
fantastic planet (1973) dir. rené laloux
jeanne dielman (1975) dir. chantal akerman
the color of pomegranates (1969) dir. sergei parajanov
all about eve (1950) dir. joseph l. mankiewicz
gilda (1946) dir. charles vidor
the night of the hunter (1950) dir. charles laughton
the invisible man (1931) dir. james whale
COLLECTION of georges méliès shorts
rebecca (1940) dir. alfred hitchcock
brief encounter (1946) dir. david lean
to be or not to be (1942) dir. ernst lubitsch
a place in the sun (1951) dir george stevens
eyes without a face (1960) dir. georges franju
double indeminity (1944) dir. billy wilder
wild strawberries (1957) dir. ingmar bergman
shame (1968) dir. ingmar bergman
through a glass darkly (1961) dir. ingmar bergman
persona (1961) dir. ingmar bergman
winter light (1963) dir. ingmar bergman
the ascent (1977) dir. larisa shepitko
the devil, probably (1977) dir. robert bresson
cleo from 5 to 7 (1962) dir. agnes varda
alien (1979) dir. ridley scott + its sequels
after hours (1985) dir. martin scorsese
halloween (1978) dir. john carpenter
the watermelon woman (1996) dir. cheryl dune
EDIT: part two here + the letterboxd list
edit: part three here
Scooby doo when he finds gross bugs in his food: ruh roh... raggots!
Shaggy: like, zoinks scoob! I don't think you can reclaim that man!
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no, spotify, i don't want to use ai to "turn my ideas into playlists". i already fucking do that with my brain and hands and i do it for fun. what, should i get ai to pet my cat for me? to play my silly games for me? to spend time with my beautiful wife for me? how about i rend you asunder
audio porn to train your brain <3
everyday while i fuck my holes and continue with my training i listen to these audios on repeat.
they allow me to turn my brain off completelyyyyy and leak any iq i have left out of my holes.
im sharing this so all stupid cunts can train ourselves better and more efficiently.
if you have any audio porn that makes you a better good girl, repost and add your audio link below so we can all fulfill our purpose to serve Men together 🥰✨
~~ misogyny training ~~
• https://soundgasm.net/u/dadandbun/misogyny-audio
• https://soundgasm.net/u/marshmallow-mushroom/M4F-An-experimental-treatment-for-internalized-misogyny
• https://soundgasm.net/u/traditionalgentlemn/Yet-Another-Fuckhole-F4A
• https://soundgasm.net/u/TheForbiddenLetters/Girls-Night-F4A
• https://soundgasm.net/u/TheForbiddenLetters/Women-Are-Stupid-F4A
• https://soundgasm.net/u/TheForbiddenLetters/Misogyny-Hypno-For-Women-F4F
• https://soundgasm.net/u/Reggieplante9/Liberal-misogyny
• https://soundgasm.net/u/dadandbun/misogyny-audio
~~ general slut training ~~
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-Helping-with-your-purpose
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-Gentle-Degrading-my-Good-Dumb-Girl
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-The-Inspection
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/Orgasm-training-with-cock-in-your-mouth
• https://soundgasm.net/u/CGHypnosisOnYT/Good-Girls-Get-Reprogrammed
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-Gentle-Degrading-my-Good-Dumb-Girl
~~ dd/lg ~~
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-Daddys-Little-Humper
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-Pacifier-Cock-2
~~ rape encouragement ~~
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-Practice-Telling-Me-No
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-Tell-Me-No-Practice
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-CNC-fantasy-encouragement
• https://soundgasm.net/u/Reggieplante9/Rapeslut
~~ animal training ~~
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-Sweet-Loving-Degrading-Big-Cow-Girl
• https://soundgasm.net/u/DescribeAndNow/M4F-Animal-Training
Reblogging to remember ❤️💖😊
Just in case you need some additional help…
Ok so this porn clip has just . Changed me. Idk why. But. God. The fact she’s clearly signaling to breathe but he’s so close he just ignores her. The hand between her legs. His sounds. Her sounds. It’s been two days and I can’t stop thinking abt it
I will reblog this every time I see it
"porn brain" is a far right conspiracy theory, misogyny in porn is a result of structural societal misogyny and not the cause of it, the way to help sex workers is decriminalization and worker's rights, banning sexual expression is fascist. i will not be taking questions at the time.
Yea, your girl is a masochist, but have you confirmed the types of pain that she's comfortable with??
Sure, your lover is into petplay, but have you talked about whether you're supposed to yank on that leash??
Absolutely, she's into degradation, but do you know whether that name makes her think of a bad ex??
Mhmm, your girl is into getting choked, but do you know how to grab her without endangering her?? Do you even know if she wants you to stop her blood flow and/or airways???
I see, your darling is into rope, but do you know whether you're tying them up in a position they don't like?? Did you even remember your rounded edge scissors in case of emergency??
Okay, so it's into CNC, do you react with care and compassion if/when it safewords??
Yea, your Dom/me is hot and scary, but have you communicated your needs, and wants, and appreciation for them?? Are you ever making sure they're having fun?? Are you ever even using your safewords, if not why?? You might need to!
Just please, I'm so so tired of hearing people pushed away from/out of kink spaces whether, online or irl, because there are some kinksters out there that cannot practice safely.
These talks are important, but also a wonderful chance to bond, to connect, show caring and learn to boost enjoyment of play.
If you have these talks and are vulnerable together then it grows trust and makes it easier to lose yourselves in play.
you guys need to be normal about people who don't like penetration. people who don't get hard easily. people who finish quickly. people who participate in kink without having sex. people who don't like being touched. people who don't like giving head. people who only like penetration. people who (almost) always squirt. people who take a long time to cum. people who have a hard time getting wet. people who don't talk during sex or anything else that is not part of the way you think people or bodies should behave during sex
