🐊Dream🐊

26, They/She/He, Nonbinary Oriented Demi-Aro/Ace🖤, Chronically ill, My free space

[dreamystarrycloud]

Yo, I'm Dream. I'm 26, AuDHD with a big heaping spoon of other mental illnesses and disabled, and my pronouns are They/She/He. I'm nonbinary and prefer they/them over anything but I will accept the occasional she/he.

I'm also a demi-aroace lesbian and polyam so keep an eye out for posts about that.

I'm chronically ill so prepare for posts about hEDS, POTS, and other undiagnosed shit.

I'm the host of a DID system as well so there's probably gonna be some of those posts too.

Anyways, let's get into the DNI's!

Do Not Interact if:

You're under 16. No offense to you guys, I just don't feel comfy, even 16 is pushing it. I won't talk to you if you're under 18, but you can like and reblog my posts.

You're transphobic, homophobic, aphobic, TERFS, ableist, whatever. If you're a hateful person, go away.

If you're a MAP or you support MAPs, get the fuck out.

If you support Autism $peaks, just get out.

If you're an endo system, please go away. I prefer not to interact with you.

Anyways, enjoy my page.

[soft-lovely]

princess tiana aesthetic

[littlebirdofprey]

this is so funny.

[littlebirdofprey]

the nonbinary icon i did not know i needed

[kaboom--bitch]

Treating your headmates like separate people isn't worsening your condition by default by the way. Treating them with respect isn't making you dissociate more. Final fusion is a fine thing to try and achieve, but people need to understand that functional multiplicity is a thing you can work to achieve in therapy too. Please stop pushing the idea that you need to treat your headmates like a disorder or curse in order to heal. You can be happily multiple if you want that.

[thenightsystem]

just found this. This is how DID feels most of the time

-host

[johnny-depp-is-loved]

Please, spread this for those who might need it right now

U.S. suicide hotline: call or text 988 (available 24 hours)

U.S. trans lifeline: [phone] (when you call, you’ll speak to a trans/nonbinary peer operator. full anonymity and confidentiality)

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) – provides 24/7 confidential support and referrals for individuals and families facing mental health and substance use disorders, including panic attacks and anxiety.

LGBT National Help Center: [phone]

Trevor Project: Call [phone], text START to 678-678, or chat online.

Take care of yourself and each other. Please stay safe ♡

[wolfstarry]

[dorkmisha]

My activity spikes every Wednesday because of this post 

always reblog on a wednesday, that’s the rule.

[i-wasnt-always-a-fallen-angel-d]

On Wednesdays we reblog

[chewdee17]

Always

[grace-for-sale]

[cosicas-cuquis]

[cosicas-cuquis]

[ford-pinto]

[official-lucifers-child]

wed

ness

day

[doves-of-aphrodite]

a reminder that deities you work with don't hate you for not being able to do things, especially not if you're physically or mentally able to!

the gods understand that we're not perfect, that we're just fleshy meat sacks and that some of us aren't able to do things as much, and you shouldn't compare your craft to anyone else's! it's yours after all.

and if you're worried that your offerings aren't good enough, think about it like this. if a little crow came up to you and gave you a stick, you wouldn't think "what a dumb crow, why'd you give me a stick?", would you? no! you'd know that the little crow is doing his best and wanted to give you a gift. to the deities, you're that little crow, and they know you're doing your best <3

[dreamystarrycloud]

*Stares off into the void*

Being married internally to the co-host is amazing but also, it's hard because I want to scream about my love for them to anyone who will listen however

There's a lil hiccup there

People are either SUPER okay with in-sys relationships... Or they're not and there's no way you can casually bring that up in conversation in order to figure out which way that person leans

Sooo.. I'll scream here

They're fucking amazing 😭 and I'm so happy that we've been together for 3 years and we finally got married and the wedding was amazing. So much of the system showed up and it's like our bond just grew that much deeper and 😭😭😭 I love them

[intuspluric-culture-is]

In-system relationship culture is going “Your so amazing” at every single moment with them and still get blown away how amazing your partner even after being with them for years.

.

[23sanguinity]

Any other aro folks really want one or more platonic life partners. Like friends but you live with them forever

[tylerssblurry]

yearning for the touch of a woman rn tbh

[toss-a-coin-to-your-stan-account]

fucking love when I'm on a call with someone and they start to do a little errand or go somewhere else and they say "and you're coming with me" like. absolutely I am let's go on an adventure I've been spirited away

[skipppppy]

“You shouldn’t self-ID as ADHD/autistic, you’re turning a very real mental condition into a trend” Ok then stop saying delulu. Stop speculating on which cluster C personality disorder the criminals you hear about on the news have. Stop saying “schizoposting” and “acoustic” and “is it restarted?” Stop using “psycopath” and “sociopath” as catch-all ways of calling someone a bad person. Stop saying “the intrusive thoughts won” when you bleach your hair and then turn your nose up at people who suffer from very real, very scary urges of physical/sexual violence. Stop saying “I’m so OCD” as a way of calling yourself neat. Stop treating BPD/ASPD/Bipolar as inherently abusive. Stop saying “OP I am living in your walls” without tagging for unreality. Stop diagnosing complete strangers you’ve never met on r/AITA with NPD.

You first. If you don’t want our disabilities to be treated like trends then stop belittling and minimising them. I’ll NEVER judge a person for trying find labels for their symptoms when an apathetic, racist, sexist, ableist healthcare system refuses to. But I will absolutely judge a hypocrite. Which a lot of you are

[vang0bus]

you cant ever let yourself forget what it felt like to be 15. how adults treated you. being treated without a shred of respect because people think youre too young to have thoughts and feelings of your own. the lack of autonomy. you cant ever forget that because if you do you might become the kind of adult who treats kids like theyre not people

[pastelfairyprince]

I will NEVER forget how people treated me when I was around four years old up to seventeen years old. All those years. On top of being black and neurodivergent and quiet and shy.

[kirianthedivorce]

First base is beating the shit out of each other second base is having a civil conversation

[kirianthedivorce]

Third base is dying for each other fourth base is marriage

[omegasmileyface]

realizing that sticking to the "do it bad" "do it scared" mentality implies theres also a "do it bored"

[omegasmileyface]

well. did it bored 👍

[omegasmileyface]

DO IT SCARED. DO IT BAD. DO IT BORED. DO IT HALFWAY. DO IT WRONG. DO IT EMBARRASSED. DO IT UGLY. DO IT LATE. DO IT DIFFERENT. but by god do it <3!!