How to tell if a guy is a Time Waster: stripper edition
This post is inspired by @stripper-witch’s comment on a sugar baby post. The following are things that I have encountered in my years of dancing.
- Right off the bat, they ask you questions like “how long have you been dancing?” “What do your parents/boyfriend think? Do they know?” “What do you make?” They also cut you off if you begin to change the course of the conversation
- they haggle your price for dances to an unacceptable level. Ex: I do $25 dances (3-5min) but our club has break songs between every song (1-2 min) so when a guy ask for a $20 dance then I’ll say 2/$40 and do a regular song and a break song any guy who wants one $20 dance won’t get my time of day unless it’s an awful night. Even then I’d rather not make money from these people because they usually try to grope me.
- they’re in a group (3+) and are facing each other, too close together to get between them, too into their conversation, and are drinking beer at a liquor club or draft beer at a beer club.
- they call you over and hand you a dollar to dance for their friend
- they stare really hard at you until you begin to approach them and then they look away
- they ignore you when you walk up to them. Literally no response to your greeting
- they all point to each other and make no eye contact
- they try too hard to be that sassy person of the group that no one checks
- they put their hands all over you as soon as you sit down or stand near them
- they smack your ass as you walk by
- they make fun of the way you talk when you approach them
- they look at you like you’re crazy/stupid when you approach them
- they have an attitude right off the bat
- they refuse to buy you a drink if the waitress offers and are offended by that
- they ask you to sit down and chat
- they ask you if you “like to party”
- they ask where to get party favors
- they ask during a regular dance to take you home, this usually means they won’t get VIP. They’re looking for something more
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