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Too all my other US based SWers out here

If you have the option to take a break from sex work, this is probably the best time to do so. Even the bluest states are not safe, you need to be prepared for federal legislation to go beyond simply making it a choice (ironic) for what each states abortion laws are.

To all my survival sex workers, if you have the resources please stock up on plan B, and make your clients use protection. Latex allergy? They make latex free condoms. Cant keep it up with a condom? Use a female condom. Plan B is legal to purchase and use in all 50 states as of writing this (6/25), people have been recommending the site heyfavor.com for emergency contraceptives which are free with most insurance plans and at a low cost without.

There is an extremely high chance of sex work being further criminalized in the near future, and many online avenues are already taking steps to deplatfrom and remove sex workers from their sites. We are not safe, but we are not alone. Please use your power to vote, and to protest if you can. We are going to be ok.

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From the Vivienne Westwood Spring 2022 Bridal Collection

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梦想 into space: ju xiao wen for harper’s bazaar cn oct. 2021

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sora choi and aweng chuol at mugler ss22 backstage

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Things I wish I knew in undergrad

Save your syllabi. If you transfer to another school, they might ask for the syllabus for a class to determine if it's equivalent to one of their classes. Also there's a fair chance that you'll wish you could look up a reference used in that class or the prof's details in the future.

Get as active as possible in your program. Join clubs related to your program. Attend lectures and conferences whenever possible. You want to be on a first-name basis with as many profs and students as possible. This is how you can hear about work and volunteer opportunities that aren't publicly shared.

Take classes with the same profs over and over. Having two classes with a prof gives you a very high chance that they will write reference letters for you in the future. You may need more than 2 if the classes have been very large lectures (200+ people) and you don't attend office hours.

Might add on more later.

#school tips #university tips #college tips #study tips #level up

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If you're applying for office jobs and you're lying about being proficient in Excel (which you always should bc nobody knows anything and google is free) a handy video to give you the basics on Excel's functionality is Joel Sposky's You Suck at Excel Video. It's about an hour long and gives you enough background info to know what people are talking about when referring to Excel, and from there you can do your own further research. There are also handy little guides and notes people have taken on the presentation that go over the highlights here and here <3

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Kiko Mizuhara

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RINA SAWAYAMA — photographed by Marcus Cooper for Rolling Stone

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DATING 101 💬

Men are INFO DIGGERS

Stop telling men your deepest (darkest) insecurities

Stop telling men your deepest (darkest) secrets

Stop telling men your sexual history

Stop telling men how you were mistreated by exes

Stop telling men YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS

A lot of them don’t ask about your personal life to genuinely get to know you. They dig for information to use AGAINST YOU. They dig for information to JUDGE YOU. MEN DO NOT NEED TO KNOW EVERY INCH OF YOUR LIFE. KEEP SENSITIVE INFORMATION TO YOURSELF.