[rainsandrainsand]

I like how NPD just makes every problem in life seem like that one meme: "Why doesn't [person] simply do [nigh impossible feat to get out of bad situation]? Are they stupid?"

Also [person] is you half the time.

[npd-culture-is-blog]

Npd culture is trying SO SO SO hard to be even remotely normal about your EP, but it's like every single move they make that isn't about you or isn't overtly positive or even the slightest hint of them ignoring you makes you feel like you're watching someone tie bricks to your legs, seconds away from being pushed into deep water.

There will always be someone they want to spend time with more, i will always be the second choice no matter how many years I stay attached to them, like some kind of tumor. Sometimes, i think about cutting them off. What's the point? Sometimes, i don't believe all the nice things they've done and said in the past. Was it all a lie?

But I can't leave. They're the only one left. I have no one else but them. I will be truly dead if they left me. So I stay, like a malnourished, shivering dog, begging at the foot of the bed, pleading to have my loyalty rewarded, to be let up to sleep curled and content beside them.

Yet I know I won't be. I'll be locked outside the bedroom door, forgotten again until the next time I'm convenient. Until the nice time I have to whine, yelp, and bark overtop my food bowl to remind him to feed me. Rinse and repeat, until my organs fail from lack of nourishment and I'm buried outback, never thought of again.

-🫀 (claiming please)

[the-narcissist-by-blur]

love how pop-psych pple will confidently claim it's impossible for narcissists to get better while actively making it impossible for pwnpd to seek out help or resources by clogging up absolutely all of the research and information available about npd with their "evil narcissist" agendas. lol. you are the reason they can't get better.

[finnrantsnshit]

im so scared to admit that sometimes I actually want crazy amount of attention. like whenever I walk in a room or come online I want people to be like "FINN!!! HI!!! I LOVE YOU!!" I want to be someone's favorite person. I want to be the favorite. sometimes I wish I was a fictional character or celebrity that people loved and would make edits and fanart for. I want to be super loved. im the best.

[ring-a-ding-ding123]

me when the cluster b memes are getting a little too relatable

[nullandvoidstar]

Me when other people make mistakes:

It's fine, I'll give them the benefit of the doubt!

Me when I make a mistake:

I need to kill myself NOW

[liminal-disaster]

I feel like kids would be less "loud/annoying/tantrum prone/whatever the complaint about them is this week" if they weren't forced to live in a world that doesn't treat them like human beings and constantly forced to obey the whims of other people with no consideration for their own thoughts and emotions. And if they weren't actively conscious of this. Blaming kids for occasionally breaking down over their treatment is like blaming women for yelling at their abusive husbands or crying about the sexism inherent in society. It's "the women's disease/hysteria" but directed at children instead of women.

Even if they have genuinely loving families that don't neglect them, which is rare, children are still put under constant abuse from every other aspect of their life. They're living on ultra-mega-hard-mode. Emotions are understandable.

I also completely understand people who can't be around loud children, or who hate it when a kid breaks down crying or screaming in a store or a restaurant. I hate it when a kid breaks down crying or screaming in a restaurant or store. Like, that's not an unreasonable feeling to have when someone is making an uncomfortable amount of noise. I get it. You don't want that kid to be crying or screaming any more than they want to be doing it.

These kids didn't ask to be forced to sit in a fancy restaurant in uncomfortable clothes around people they don't like eating disgusting food for hours. Those kids didn't ask to be hauled around a supermarket looking at things they're not allowed to have. That kid is crying because they're in a situation they don't want to be in, and they probably didn't have any say over how they got there. They've been forced into Situations for probably their entire lives, and sometimes they snap and have breakdowns. Breaking down after the level of constant psychological abuse inherent in modern childhood would be considered normal and understandable for any other age group, but when children do it it's considered irrational and bothersome and annoying. I get that empathy and compassion are hard, we're all suffering, but maybe for once try to have some instead of just writing the suffering of children off as too annoying to deal with.

[heartmagica]

having high cognitive empathy with npd is so funny because its like Yeah i intrinsically understand why you act and feel the way you do because it makes logical sense but . do i gaf? no not really

[anasoda]

[Day 251 of daily Hazbin since S2] Oh no... I'm... :) caught.

[martirex1000]

🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️

[crushed-sugar]

Signs of abuse, neglect, or mental health issues in younger people often get turned into a joke or a stereotype and I think that’s worth talking about.

The depressed teen that hates their parents has been a trope for years. Saying someone has daddy issues or that their behavior is fatherless is an insult. People call kids “ipad babies” and make fun of their short attention span.

It’s dismissive. Dare I say victim blame-y?

[mxmorbidmidnight]

I think a lot of the hatred towards therians and furries comes from ableism. The same goes with how people treat any other “cringe” interests because society will always use disabled people for emotional gratification. Whether that be using us as inspiration porn or mocking us for entertainment.

A lot of therians tend to be neurodivergent, lots of therians are therians because of neurodivergence and trauma. Expressing nonhumanity is a way of coping for so many people. From childhood I’ve always been someone who communicates through animalistic body language and sounds, it’s how I interact with my environment and how I regulate myself. Before I could communicate properly and when I struggle with communication now it’s how I establish boundaries and show love or discomfort.

I’ve always felt this way, being autistic means I think differently, I feel differently, I frame myself and the world in an entirely new lens. When you know this then you know that it is entirely possible for someone to have the mind of a nonhuman entity.

Neurodivergence is not the only reason for nonhumanity, but it is a large part of it for a lot of people. Often times anti therians will have no good reason for hating therians besides “ew it’s weird” or “they’re crazy theres something wrong with them” which is both deeply rooted in ableist views.

When people dismiss therianthropy as “just kids doing things” it reminds me a lot of how the identities of autistic people are seen as insignificant or childish, something that we are expected to grow out of.

This rant is a little disorganised, but I’m thinking of writing a proper explanation and description of this at another time.

[elsa-fogen]

Alastor has 2 hands

because i'm SICK of people asking me to make fucking r****ple comics on tiktok even though i have it written in my fucking BIO that i HATE IT and DON'T ASK ME FOR IT!!!!!! i don't care if a few more people start hating me after this, fuck you then. haters gonna hate, smth

specifically today some dude went through half of my posts on TT and commented on each of them "yo can you do r*ple" (it wasn't censored originally of course 🥴🥴). Downside of being out of tiktok jail: people like this.

Now, Tumblr is much better, but even here ive got comments asking for r**le from time to time. Fuck you.

Shippers who ship it and don't pester others about it, you're chill, keep it up 👍

[felixxdrawsstuff]

Drawings yess,, drawings :33

[fattyaly]

it's been ages

[skittlez-cyb3r-pawziez]

Hey so like, what.

I know this is a joke and it’s old but like. What???

[tozunaki]

I should ingnore brainless people. Just ignore them. Never interract. It's so hard to use social media sometimes 😒 there are a lot of stupid people, and I don't have enough self control to not interract with them.