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[mysweetoddbird]

ppl keep leaving tags on that post about being loud about your aromanticism saying theyre hearing the word amatonormativity for the first time and like its good that ppl learn the word and what it means but its also like. man. idk its just that even other queer ppl are not educated on aromanticism and uphold amatonormativity.

[mintoezz]

Saw the sentence "i want to be free more than i want to be loved" and i think it resonates a lot with most loveless people here.

[girldraki]

[magicfriend1000000000000000]

[imapuppetqueer]

Gotta catch em all

[nicothespy]

im so mad because why have i never gotten the other ones and just the rainbow pride flag

[cutecipher]

basketball players fight over the basketball because they are hypnotized before each game to believe it is their egg

[boccher]

‭

fix the past

build the future

Voting ended onApr 17

[aakkoorraanya]

[starsandscars81]

“Love is love” okay but can we talk about people whose identities don’t focus on feelings for another person? Pretty please???

[mxrphin3]

the alterhuman experience

[robothell]

there was a cloud shaped like bart simpson in 1852 and nobody recognized it

[toskarinfr]

[this-is-alterhuman-joy]

Alterhuman Joy is being in public and imagining yourself looking like your kin-type and feeling much more confident in yourself.

this is alterhuman joy

[aro-culture-is]

aro culture is lactose intolerance :( but why lactose intolerance if ice cream?

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[yaoigaysexaura]

you can't say "stop making everything about men" about a group of marginalised people who have been historically erased and never centered in any conversations that affect them. that is erasure. you are perpetuating the system that leads to these people being trafficked, raped, and killed without ever being remembered as more than a "tragic woman"

[spoon-the-raccoon]

"We need more weird queers!" You can't handle actual queerness. The only queerness you can handle is heteronormative queerness of top and bottom same sex couples, strict binary trans people and Non-binary folks as a third gender. Don't even get me started how you can't handle anything above monogender, monosexual or monogamous. You can't handle arospec and acespec and any mixture of the two, especially aroallos. You can't handle intersex people just existing to be honest. Anything that challenges your shallow worldview of how things work is 'made up' or 'trying to win the oppression Olympics'.

You can't handle real queer people in the real queer world. If you said any of your shitty takes in real queer spaces nobody would trust you.

To you, being queer is just cishet+

[insecuregodcomplex]

[roguemonsterfucker]

Love when the “I’m going to shame disabled people into having better hygiene practices” person shows up on my dash. 🙃

[roguemonsterfucker]

Shaming people into taking better care of themselves doesn’t work. Making fun of them for not doing laundry as often as you think they should is just cruel.

You know one reason people may start falling behind in care tasks? Depression. You know something that can cause or worsen depression? Shame.

[roguemonsterfucker]

Okay so I’m gonna make this the positivity post.

You’re doing fine. It’s okay.

Do what you can when you can and that’s fine.

But also, if there’s someone in your life that can help, please don’t let shame or embarrassment prevent you from seeking that help. If you genuinely can’t keep up with certain tasks, please consider asking a trusted person for assistance.

And don’t listen to anyone disparaging you. They don’t know your life. They aren’t in your shoes. They can’t understand the difficulties you face. And ultimately, your actions don’t effect them.

Do what you are able to do when you are able to do it. Seek help if you are able and need it. You’re doing your best and that’s all that matters.