Egg.

he/she/ey/shi/mirror neos , dms/etc ok. Banner by @ur-fav-has-intersex-wrath

[illusion-of-death]

Revolutionary idea: imagine [character I like] with [disability I have]. More people should get on this!

[allpiesforourown]

Okay this might be an unpopular opinion but while I 100% understand why people say "sickly shen yuan is fanon, not canon" I really think people who interpret shen yuan as disabled/sickly are making a good interpretation and not just making it up. Like the chances of someone healthy dying from pure anger are very low, but for someone who's chronically ill or has heart problems? That's way more likely. A lot of people act like the sick shen yuan headcanon came out of nowhere and I don't really see that

[allpiesforourown]

Did original bingge as a white lotus know about jerking off. Because bingmei was 100% horny for shizun but bingge had no sex ed nor any friends or family to give him the talk or anything. Did he have sex with Qin Wanyue and go what the fuck is happening with my penis

[wyyvoren]

heart demon

[heedlesshoossy]

Hey, fat people deserve to have fun and get their needs met even if they’re the least healthy mf you know. Fat people deserve proper medical care, and carbs, and to wear shorts and so many more things! EVEN IF THEY ARE UNWELL AND ESPECIALLY IF THAT UNWELLNESS IS DUE TO THEIR WEIGHT!!! Fat people deserve the world and more. Not just the healthy fats or attractive fats or small fats or fats that are fat because of medication or disability.

skinny people please reblog this one

Everyone reblog this one

[this-is-anti-islam]

Every time I see someone say that a poc making a character have darker skin is "blackwashing" I sigh

Blackwashing and Whitewashing.. aren't the same thing. The latter is racism and has so much history with the oppression of people of color.

The other is a zionist theory that has nothing to do with fandom. It was originally coined as a way to say that black people supporting Palestine and it's people is bad. It got co-opted during the past few years.

[sweetpea67]

This site never truly got over transmedicalism it’s just that at some point a small group of people decided that using exorsexist slurs and implying that gnc trans people are self-harming was actually a Mandatory Part of Transfeminism actually.

[thisisexorsexism]

pointing at a canon nonbinary character and going "YURI!! YURI!!!! TOXIC YURI!!!!!" when they interact with a woman is nonbinary erasure

this is exorsexism

[thisisexorsexism]

exorsexism and transandrophobia is 'bomb that kills all TMEs' posts

this is exorsexism and transandrophobia

[prettiest-pride-flag]

Round 2, Match 107 — Lesboy vs. Transmasculine

Which pride flag do you prefer?

Lesboy

Transmasculine

Remaining time: 1 day 11 hours

LESBOY Definition: Lesboy (boy lesbian, boysbian, male lesbian, lesguy, lesman, lesbiman, lesbian man, lesdude) is an identity for an individual who in some way identifies as a boy/man that is gay/queer for women (lesbian). It can include: 1) an individual who is cusper/evenic between transgender man and a cisgender butch lesbian, 2) an individual who is cusper/evenic between a (lesbian) transgender woman and gender non-conforming cis man, 3) a cross-aligned lesbian, such as a man-aligned/solarian girl or a woman-aligned/lunarian boy, 4) a multigender individual or an individual who otherwise identifies as male and female simultaneously (girlboy) and feels attraction to women, 6) an individual who is genderfluid and identifies as a lesbian, even when they are male, 7) a centrigender individual experiencing a gender in between fiaspec and miaspec while femaric, 8) a lesbiangender, sapphicgender, lesbiagender, or sapphogender man or masculenby/enboy, 9) anyone else who is in some way a boy/man and feels their attraction to women is gay/queer. The term is useful for pleonotic boys, who aren't always essentially or entirely male. However, the term is also used by lesbian men and male lesbians. Flag creator: @beyond-mogai-pride-flags (2020) Colour meanings: Unknown

TRANSMASCULINE Definition: Transmasculine, or transmasc, is an umbrella term for individuals whose gender is partially or fully masculine, and does not correspond with their birth sex/AGAB, or otherwise conform to conventional notions of sex and gender. This includes trans men, whose gender is masculine in some way. Some transmasc individuals may be athenomasc. Transmasculine individuals can also identify as other, non-masculine genders as well. For example, an androgyne individual may identify as transmasculine, though typically, one's masculine identities are more significant than one's non-masculine identities, or one wants to emphasize their masculine identity. Transmasculine individuals are sometimes called FtM or F2M (female to male); however, this isn't always accurate as not all transmasculine individuals are binary trans men, nor are all transmasc individuals are AFAB. Transmasculine individuals are typically AFAB, though they may also possibly be AXAB, AIAB or UAB. Flag creator: Unknown (2015) Colour meanings: The pink stripes on the outside = how people thought trans men were women when they were born and the blue stripes on the inside = how they were actually men inside.

[vastcoins]

void␥ / voidscar — a term for when one identifies with, as, and/or connects to voids in a rough, damaged, and traumatized way.

for stars

x␥ by @ranqai

tagging: @radiomogai, @symblabel-terms (ask to be added/removed)

[danceundersparklinglights]

i’m going to be really honest with you guys i think the tendency to read the absolute worst possible intentions into every action you don’t agree with is getting too automatic and it’s eating you from the inside out

[arekyve]

thinking abt how after bingqiu get married and shen yuan can just finally relax bcs he has nothing to worry abt regarding his life or binghe's or the fate of the world and he can enjoy domestic bliss. Everyday spent with binghe makes him miss his family more than anything in the world, he looks at binghe and all he can think about is how much his family would've loved him. How much his sister would've adored Binghe and loved baking with him. How much his brothers would've gone crazy over how physically fit binghe is and what his workout routine would be. How fond his mother would've been of binghe especially after she finds out abt his family history, how she would practically become his mother too, looking after him like his own son. Every time SQQ looks at Binghe, shen yuan feels grief bubbling up and tears just stream down his face quietly, it's all finally catching up to him. All the love that has nowhere to go, that was left behind with his body back home. Binghe doesn't know what to do, all he knows is that his beloved has been inconsolable every time his eyes meet binghe's and for the first time in his life, he finds there's absolutely nothing he can do.

[aroacedavestrider]

people will hear you talk about struggling with mental illness and say “you can do anything if you just put your mind to it”. brother what part of the body does the mental illness happen in. what do you think is the problem

[allpiesforourown]

How am I supposed to be normal about Bingqiu when shen yuan protects Binghe from his groomer by holding him tight and hiding him from their eyes so gently and lovingly

[redstonedust]

do you have faith that people can change? I find it very hard to

the self is always in flux innit? we're all changing all the time. doesn't neccescarily mean youre changing to be better, but you're certainly changing.

[serial-unaliver-deactivated2024]

HELPPPPP

[charlesoberonn]

Reminds me of Jason Kander, former Missouri Secretary of State. When he went to the VA hospital to treat his PTSD, he told the nurse that Obama told him he should run for president, and she thought he was delusional.

[charlesoberonn]

Correction: It was worse. She asked him how long he's been hearing voices.

[therapyhorrorstories]

I think I'm gonna make this my go-to story. It's not the worst I've ever heard, which is an asset because people won't believe you if you tell them the actual bad stuff those people do. And it just perfectly sums up the casual arrogance everyone working in mental health seems to have. The way they treat you as inherently Lesser for being in their care.

[therapyhorrorstories]

If they can't even handle basic, easily verified shit like "I'm a lawyer" they are never going to believe you when you tell them that you know how to manage a condition you've been dealing with for decades better than they can or will.

[homoqueerjewhobbit]

And then there's Alexander Morris, who was put in a straitjacket, called racial slurs, and denied treatment for his potentially life-threatening heart condition when he told them he was the lead singer of the band he was lead singer of.

Four Tops singer sues hospital alleging racial discrimination after he says he was placed in a ‘restraining jacket’ | CNN

The lead singer of the Motown group the Four Tops has filed a federal lawsuit against Ascension Macomb Oakland Hospital in Warren, Michigan,

[plum-soup]

There are multiple parts of that article that are Jae droppingly awful but this one really gets me:

They almost let this man die in a straight jacket simply because they were too racist. And then when they realize their "mistake", they tell him that his life is worth a 25$ supermarket gift card. Of course he's suing them for $75,000 as he should but like. Can you imagine how insulted he must've been. The 4 Tops were one of the top Motown bands of all time. You can be at the top of the music scene and still, they'll kill you because you're black. And they'll use fake claims about mental illness and "aggression" to justify it

[genderkoolaid]

& to be clear: none of this is good for anyone. actually delusional people, people who actually hear voices or see things, do not deserve to be treated like this. there is nothing about a person harmlessly believing something fantastical (or which sounds fantastical to you) that requires you to put them in a straightjacket and drug them or deny them necessary drugs. Black mentally ill people do not deserve to be tortured and murdered in a hospital for being Black and mentally ill.

this kind of system is a weapon which can be pointed at anyone. in order to prevent shit like this from happening, we also need to deconstruct how we view mentally ill people, including people who are delusional and hallucinate, and what we view as "reasonable" or "necessary" when it comes to such people.

[doberbutts]

Black people- including famous black people- have been arrested for "breaking and entering" their own homes due to a neighbor witnessing them unlocking their own house door with their own house key and calling the cops. College professors, celebrities, politicians, and everyday people such as my own father.

It's common enough that young black kids are told to keep any identifying information on them at all times just in case someone reports a black kid breaking and entering by walking into the house they've lived at since they were born. Because that has happened.

When you add mental illness and the healthcare industry into the mix, things only get worse from there. To be clear, you don't need to be black or mentally ill to be treated poorly by a doctor or nurse that's decided they know you better than you do. But it sure doesn't make things easier.

And people have died as a result- or have we already forgotten the death of Adriana Smith who went to THE HOSPITAL SHE WORKED AT AS A NURSE reporting severe headaches and was dismissed as exaggerating and imagining the severity, only to be declared brain dead upon arrival less than 24 hours later and artificially kept alive to force her dead body to carry her baby to term- which couldn't even happen and they had to remove him via C-section anyway.

These are related problems. And until we fix the root cause, they will keep happening.

[can-i-make-image-descriptions]

[Image IDs: Image #1: Tumblr reply from thePolterheist reading: lol I read an interview w a lawyer who was briefly in inpatient and he told a nurse he was a lawyer and she put "delusions of grandeur" on his chart

Image #2: Text reading: The lawsuit states Morris was offered a $25 gift card to a supermarket as an apology by the hospital, but he refused the offer. /End IDs]