on my bullshit

guy with too many opinions

[elarisramblings]

This is like an introduction post ig? All you need to know is my name is Elaris, I'm a guy, and I say bullshit

[elarisramblings]

I think shipping culture has taken over fandoms in a bad way because now people would rather fight over which relationship is more "toxic" than just analyzing the individual characters outside of the relationship. Not everyone has to be in a romantic relationship to have a "happy ending," y'know?

And not everyone is meant to BE in a romantic relationship. I think society puts too much pressure on the thought of marriage, I mean it's been fed to us as an ideal from a young age. In reality, so many people are fine on their own, or with friends rather than a romantic partner.

[krissy-face]

In the wake of the TADC finale and Deltarune CH 5 I've noticed something when it comes to queer headcanons, specifically trans headcanons, and how they're treated by fandom.

It feels like we've been conditioned to never expect to see transition represented in media. If a trans character exists, they have to already be referred to as the gender they identify as to be accepted as a canon trans character.

Jax TADC isn't referred to with she / her pronouns until the very end of the show, and despite the very explicit allusions to her gender identity people STILL debated whether she was actually transfem until the creator of the show confirmed it. Because no way, right? It's only a theory, a headcanon until the character holds up a sign that says "I'M TRANSGENDER DESPITE HOW I WAS REFERRED TO THIS ENTIRE TIME"

Transfem Ralsei is getting the same treatment. Right now it's just a theory, but the theory gets brushed off as a headcanon. Or silly. Or impossible. Despite there being a handful of other transgender characters in both Undertale and Deltarune, people cannot accept Transfem Ralsei? Why?

"There's no way Toby would have a character transition in the game"

He's already done this. Actually he did this twice with the same character! Mad Dummy in both games transitions to being an anime girl! In fact, Pink is strong evidence of Transfem Ralsei theory!

"Well it's removing gnc male representation!"

As if Ralsei is the only example of this? We've had Mettaton for a decade! Blue was just introduced too! Ralsei transitioning does not kill the representation for that demographic!

Flowery literally calls Ralsei Princess!!!! While telling them to do what makes them happy!! We have a transfem secret boss!!! They're referred to with they/them towards the end of the chapter!!

The character does not have to say "I'm trans" to the camera for them to BE CANON!

I'm not saying it's 100% I'm just so so tired of seeing this. Of trans theories being shut down. Now more than ever we should be WANTING THIS! WE SHOULD BE CELEBRATING TRANS CHARACTERS! WHY ARE WE REFUSING THEM?

[elarisramblings]

FUCK YOUUUU LOSER ASS BITCH I HOPE YOU DIE KILL YOURSELF KILL YOURSELF RIGHT NOW YOU TONE DEAF MEDIA ILLITERATE PURITAN JACKASS

wow.

Hasn't even been 5 minutes and the funnybunny shippers want me to kms for not liking the ship lmao 😭

[elarisramblings]

I know a lot of people who don't like funnybunny are ragapom stans but for me personally I don't like funnybunny cause it reminds me of my relationship with my ex which was hella toxic so it makes me uncomfortable 😭

(just to be clear, since some people on the internet love making assumptions, I do not care that people ship it, I just do not interact with those posts because why would I intentionally make myself uncomfortable?)

[indouscurse]

you have to consciously unlearn racism and continue to watch for it because it will come out without realizing. because so much of society is structured around it. shrugging and going "i dont care" or "i dont know how else to say it" means you are okay with being racist and hurting other people with how much you dont give a shit about them.

[elarisramblings]

sometimes I wonder if anything I do matters and then I wake up and see my dog just happy that I'm here and alive and just existing with him, and I realize that even if I feel like nothing I do matters, it matters more than anything to him.

I matter more than anything to him.

[elarisramblings]

being ace and using dating apps is god awful cause legit I keep getting paired with gross men who think it's just because no one's been a "good enough" sexual partner. like... no... I not only do not feel sexual attraction, I find it icky... like wdym you're exchanging fluids ew gross

[elarisramblings]

what up my fellow asexuals

reminder that no matter where you fall on the ace spectrum, you're valid and queer enough, and if anyone tries to say otherwise, i will personally steal their liver

[birdplushie]

they should make it illegal to end your story with an epilogue where your main female character is suddenly randomly married and has children when she's never once expressed a desire for this previously

[elarisramblings]

i really liked the among us show, i just wish White had more screentime cause i found them hella funny </3

[elarisramblings]

Fuck gender stereotypes, let men be pretty and women be handsome.

[elarisramblings]

ARFID is genuinely such a pain in the ass like I literally would have scurvy if not for one of my safe foods being lemonade.

[elarisramblings]

What's the in-between of genuinely and lowkey?

Genuinekey?

Lowkenuinely?

Answer here!

Genuinekey?

Lowkenuinely?

Voting ended onJun 23

[softgritspoonie]

When I tell you I'm disabled your response should not be "I'm sorry"

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