ElizatronicWarfare

Elizabeth 30s, She/They Australia PLEASE READ THE FAQ ABOVE BLOG IS OCCASIONALLY NSFW Common Tags: LGBTQ My art Food porn Straya Viddygames Guns When quality control is away getting coffee

[3000s]

my collage: man looking at display of food

[3000s]

they had this in the moma for a while but they had to take it down because people felt too moved by it and would start crying

[depsidase]

[squirrelmop]

[smallerdelusions]

Had to do a double take when I first saw this; I thought the peel was a creature. May I gift you: pineapple dragon?

[yourl0calqueer]

[koobaxion-deactivated20220403]

[costcopizzablog]

August 30, 2025 - Maplewood, MN

[aesungaia]

Everyone's Friend

[borderlinereminders]

The other day, I asked my partner, “What are you doing?”

Simple question, right?

Except… he suddenly got defensive. His tone changed. I could feel tension building, and I had no idea why. So I took a breath and asked, “Wait, what did you hear me say?”

He paused, thought about it, and said, “I thought you meant ‘Why aren’t you doing anything?’ Like you were mad I was being lazy.”

But that wasn’t what I meant at all. I’d genuinely just been curious.

And that moment reminded me how easily things can go sideways when we assume intent. Our brains, especially when we’ve had messy pasts, trauma, or relationship anxiety, tend to fill in the blanks with the worst possible meaning.

But that one question, “What did you hear me say?”, turned what could’ve been an argument into understanding.

It gave both of us a chance to clarify before our brains made up a story that wasn’t true. I was able to explain, and he was able to listen. Understanding what I meant changed his tension entirely.

Sometimes the fight isn’t about what was said. It’s about what was heard.

“What did you hear me say?” can defuse a storm before it starts.

[labelleizzy]

An excellent tool.

[ratfuck]

need me a shortstack hottie that likes to eat bugs

[devakitty]

got one for you right here boss

[ratfuck]

shes so perfect

[chillyfeetsteak]

the moment he decides to binky

[chillyfeetsteak]

[shencomix]

THAT IS NOT "✨💖BABYGIRL💖✨"

THAT IS AN

EXTREMELY

and I want to be clear on this

EXTREMELY TRAUMATIZED

42 YEAR OLD MAN

[45liza109]

Wol 💜

[sarahseeandersen]

[junkyarded]

that post that's like "it would be soooo easy to make money if i wasn't so principled" is not even true. the grifter market is notoriously saturated. remember when communismkills got her heat shut off.

[prokopetz]

Team “not actually oblivious to flirting, just terrified of appearing presumptuous” represent.

[prokopetz]

“Yes, in the balance of consideration this person’s behaviour could certainly be interpreted as flirtatious, but it would be purest arrogance for me to just assume they actually meant what they said. I should gather more evidence. Forever.”

[redandblacktac]

Full Render Commission

[glacierclear]

noi noi noi