ephemeraism

‘Thou mayest’— that gives a choice. It might be the most important word in the world. That says the way is open. That throws it right back on a man. For if ‘Thou mayest’—it is also true that ‘Thou mayest not.”

[the-eternal-moonshine]

Le Petit Prince (gif by the-eternal-moonshine)

[magictransistor]

Hiroshi Yoshida

[mienar]

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[geopsych]

Three years ago today. I love this bit of video. Not sure why.

[dearydeerling-deactivated201904]

Because this looks like a Monet painting or an old watercolour anime background come to life?! I was in utter disbelief until it started moving.

[quotemadness]

I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.

Marilyn Monroe (via quotemadness)

[jueki]

[deactivated-blog]

rip Anthony Bourdain & Kate Spade

Depression isn’t always “looking sad.” It isn’t always napping in the middle of the day, bloodshot eyes from crying, hiding from the world. Sometimes it’s gritting your teeth and pushing through another day with a sliver of hope. Sometimes it’s laughing out loud. Sometimes it’s helping others instead of helping yourself. Sometimes it’s looking incredibly strong.

And sometimes it’s looking successful, but feeling like there’s nothing left so why keep going. Sometimes it’s reaching out but being told you’re being dramatic. Sometimes it’s finally giving up and allowing that urge to take hold.

Love people. Every day. Ask your strong friends if they’re okay. Remind your not-as-strong friends that you’re here for them. Talk about mental health. Take your mourning for the loss of such great minds, hearts, inspirations and use that energy to prevent further tragedy. I’ve walked to the edge twice in my life; I’ve talked two loved ones back from it. I have battled that stigma to those talking about how “they’re going to hell for it.”

Depression IS hell. Even more than that: it’s an illness of the brain. If you sincerely believe that a person, a soul, deserves to suffer further for that, that your God would allow eternal suffering for a sickness with no cure… please consider you’re part of the problem.

Be good to each other. That’s all you should ever do.

[xenxone]

[archiemcphee]

[segweg]

Milosav Druckmüller is, hands down, the greatest eclipse photographer in the world. Fact.

i literally just teared up this is so amazing and gorgeous and surreal wow

[arabwife]

[mediokurrr-deactivated20200405]

Can i get a step by step on how to do this?

[catastrofries]

So far for me it’s been something like:

1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down.

2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up.

3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.

4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.

5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.”

Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.

I hope any of that made sense.

[mediokurrr-deactivated20200405]

This is great advice @catastrofries

[meeres-tiefe]

[pariztexas-deactivated20210721]

Castle in the Sky (1986) dir. Hayao Miyazaki

[pre-party]

[kalesbug]

Trying to find something to motivate myself and I found this little line from Van Gogh

[a-k-edwards]

8/19/2016 – somewhere in switzerland

[allthingseurope]

[a-fleur-du-mal]

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