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IT'S NOT WHAT THEY SAY, IT'S WHAT THEY DO!
MIXED SIGNALS IS INDECSION. INDECISION IS A DECISION!!! [**Mixed Signals ARE NOT ACCEPTABLE!!!]
NEXT TIME SOMEONE MAKES YOU FEEL UNWORTHY, DO THIS...
SHHHHH!!! SECRET RELATIONSHIPS - NO NO NO!!! YOU SHOULD NEVER BE A SECRET!!
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DO NOT BE AFRAID OF LOSING PEOPLE. BE AFRAID OF LOSING YOURSELF!!!
YOU ALONE ARE ENOUGH!!!
I DON'T CARE HOW INDEPENDENT YOU ARE, YOUR MAN SHOULD ALWAYS COME THROUGH! LOL! LOL! MATURITY AT ITS BEST! [- MEN ARE SUPPOSED TO WOO YOU LADIES!!!! YOU SHOULDN'T TRY TO MATCH THEM OR OUTDO THEM IN THE AREA OF PAYING FOR DATES, SUPPORTING THE FAMILY OR PAYING BILLS!!! THAT'S MASCULINE ENERGY!!!!
IF YOU'RE AN AMBITIOUS WOMAN ON YOUR OWN, THAT'S GREAT!!! BUT MEN SHOULDN'T BE EXPECTING YOU TO DO WHAT THEY DO OR MORE!!!
[***THEY SHOULD ALWAYS STRIVE TO OUTDO YOU!!! PERIOD!!! LOL! LOL!]
[-THIS IS A TRICK FROM THE PIT OF HELL TRYING TO GET WOMEN TO ACT LIKE MEN & BE MASCULINE & TAKE ON THE ROLE OF PROVIDER WHICH IS THE HUSBAND'S OR MAN'S JOB!!!]
Women Are Meant To HELP & Flourish Into What They Are Put Here To Become, NOT To Outdo the Husband Or Some Man By Matching His Male Energy To Wear Themselves Out By Taking On TONS Of Responsibility & Acquiring All These Things To Be "ACCEPTED," "WORTHY" Or To Feel "RELEVANT", "IMPORTANT" OR "SPECIAL."
NOPE!!!
Women ALSO Shouldn't Be Getting In Men's Faces Puffing Their Chests Out Bringing Up All Their Education & Accomplishments Making Men Feel Unneeded & Inferior Or Like They're Their Mothers Paying All The Bills. NOPE!!!
Women Don't Have To PROVE Their Worth By Outworking Men To Puff Their Chests Out Like They're Masculine. If They've Accomplished Some Things Or More, THAT'S GREAT!!! Women Should Be Proud Of Their Accomplishments & The Men That They're Dating, Engaged Or Married To Should Be Proud Of Their Accomplishments Also. (Without Feeling Competitive, Inferior, Jealous Or Less Than.)
Women Were Not Meant To Take Over Men's Roles As The Head Of The Household To Lead, PROVIDE & Protect The Family!!!
Women DO HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY To HELP With Love, To Nurture & Take Care Of The Husband, Household & Children As Well As Themselves In The Most Healthy, Loving & Spiritual Way, So That The Family Continues To Thrive & Remain At Peace & There's Cohesion.
- Of Course, Some Women Are More Ambitious Than Some Men, But That DOESN'T NEGATE THE MAN'S RESPONSIBILITY AS THE LEADER, HEAD, STRONGER VESSEL & PROVIDER. He Shouldn't Be Able TO SIT BACK & NOT EXCEL IN WORK, CAREER, BUSINESS, OR LIFE BECAUSE HIS WIFE OR WOMAN GOT THIS!!! NO!!!!
- THE MAN SHOULD GO HARDER, IF HIS WIFE OR WOMAN IS A POWERHOUSE TO MAKE SURE SHE & THE CHILDREN HAVE ALL THEY NEED TO MAINTAIN THEIR LIFESTYLE OR BETTER & OBTAIN SOME OF THEIR WANTS THAT ARE REASONABLE & ATTAINABLE!!!!
(The Husband Or Man May Not Make More Money Than The Wife Or Woman Does, But He SHOULDN'T EXPECT HER TO TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHING!! OR FEEL LIKE IT'S AN OBLIGATION OR EXPECTATION OR REQUIREMENT FOR HER TO BE THE WOMAN IN HIS LIFE TO PAY FOR & TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHING!!) I DON'T THINK SO!!! LOL! LOL! That's A Man Exuding Feminine Energy!!!
Men SHOULD NOT EXPECT THE SAME KIND OF TREATMENT AS WOMEN!!! MEN ARE MEANT TO WOO, WOO, WOO A WOMAN!!! That's With His Time, His Intellect, With Experiences & With His Resources!!!
(Yes, If Men Are At A Certain Level In Life & Progressing & Want To Continue To Live A Certain Way, Yes Men Can & Should Want & Expect Women They Marry Or Date To Have Something Going For Themselves As Well.) There's Nothing Wrong With That!!! That's Not The Problem.
THE PROBLEM IS THIS:
IMMATURE GROWN MALES LOOK TO BE SERVED!!! WHILE GROWN MEN LOOK TO BE OF SERVICE!!!
- But If ANY Man Have Not Care Of His Own, And Especially Of Those Of His House, He Hath Denied The Faith, And Is Worse Than An Infidel. 1 Timothy 5:8
1) THE CONVERSATION IMMATURE GROWN MALES HAVE WITH THEIR FRIENDS OR OTHER LIKE-MINDED IMMATURE GUYS THAT CONVINCE THEM THAT WOMEN SHOULD PAY FOR THEM BECAUSE NEITHER OF THEM UNDERSTAND THEIR PURPOSE OR PLACE IS THE ONE SIMILAR TO THE RECENT POST ("SHE AIN'T ONE OF THEM BEGGING FEMALES...SHE CAN BRING ANOTHER TABLE TO THE TABLE." )
2) THE CONVERSATION THAT IMMATURE, MISGUIDED, ARROGANT GROWN FEMALES HAVE WHEN THEY LEAD WITH THEIR EDUCATION, ACCOMPLISHMENTS & WHAT THEY MAKE OR DO FOR A LIVING!!! IS THE ONE SIMILAR TO THE RECENT POST ("SHE AIN'T ONE OF THEM BEGGING FEMALES...SHE CAN BRING ANOTHER TABLE TO THE TABLE." )
(Which SOME Women Use To Make SOME Men Feel Unneeded & Inferior Because They Don't Know How To Take The Hat Off When They're In A Man's Presence. YOU DON'T HAVE TO DIM YOUR LIGHT WHEN YOU'RE ACCOMPLISHED! JUST KNOW THAT WOMEN SHOULD BE FEMININE & ALLOW MEN TO WOO THEM & LOVE THEM PROPERLY!!!)
- The Right Man Won't Allow You To Dim Your Light. He'll Encourage You & Help You Even More Because That's What He's Built To Do!!!
FOR MEN & WOMEN: (The (2) Scenarios I Posted About The (2) Different Conversations Is Where The Problem Lies.
For Example: 1) Grown Males Telling Other Grown Males That Women Should Go Harder Than Them Or Equal To Them Is What MEN SHOULDN'T EXPECT!!! Nor Should They Expect For Women To Pay For Them, Take Care Of Them & Just Service Them All The Time Without INITIATING & CONSISTENTLY Doing Loving, Kind & Thoughtful Things For Women. They Don't Realize That When They Don't Do This & Have An Expectation Of Women That Exceeds What They've Actually Invested In The Relationship & Invested In Women, That They're Acting Just Like The Women In The Relationship - They're Exuding Female Energy! 2) Grown Females Leading With Education & Accomplishments To Make Themselves Feel Better Because Of Insecurity & Not Sure Who They Are, Which May Lead Them To Bash Good Men & Unable To Rest In Their Femininity To Allow Men To Woo Them Properly & Provide For Them, Even Though They're Able To Do It Themselves, Most Times Is The Other Problem.
It's When Men & Women BOTH Don't Understand Their Own Purpose, Value & Worth & PURPOSE For Each Other That They All Talk Like This - IRRATIONALLY!!! (I COULDN'T BELIEVE HOW MANY WOMEN WERE PUFFING THEIR CHESTS OUT AT BRINGING ANOTHER TABLE TO THE TABLE EXHIBITING MALE ENERGY FOR MEN THAT FELT ENTITLED TO RECEIVE FROM THEM WITHOUT HAVING TO WOO THEM FIRST OR INVEST IN THEM CONSISTENTLY!!! I ALSO COULDN'T BELIEVE HOW MANY MEN BELIEVE THAT WOMEN SHOULD PAY FOR DATES & WOO THEM INSTEAD OF THE OTHER WAY AROUND!! I COULDN'T HAVE MADE THIS STUFF UP!!! I WAS MIND-BOGGLED!!! LOL! LOL!)
***When MEN Understand Who They Are & Their Purpose, They Already Know That They Are Valuable, Needed & Worthy!!! [e.g. Leader, Protector, Provider] - That's What They Operate In Also.
***When WOMEN Understand Who They Are & Their Purpose, They Already Know That They Are Valuable, Needed & Worthy Also!!! [e.g. Helper, Maker Of The Home, Nurturer Of Men (lovingly, NOT motherly) & Nurturer of Children (motherly & lovingly)] & To Take Care Of Themselves. That's What They Operate In Also.
- THIS DOES NOT MEAN WOMEN CANNOT HAVE JOBS, CAREERS, BUSINESSES & RUN THINGS OUTSIDE OF THE HOME!!! WOMEN SHOULD JUST BE ABLE TO LEAVE THE HAT OF "RUNNING THINGS" OUTSIDE OF THEIR RELATIONSHIPS, SO THAT THE MEN OF THE HOME CAN TAKE THEIR RIGHTFUL PLACE (AS THE HEAD, THE LEADER, PROVIDER, PROTECTOR) & NOT BE UNDERMINED OR SEEN AS LESS IMPORTANT, DISRESPECTED, UNNEEDED, UNWORTHY & UNLOVED!!!
THEN, WOMEN WILL BE IN A POSITION TO BE LOVED, WOOED, PROVIDED FOR (Even If She Has Her Own) & CARED FOR PROPERLY!!! [Men Should Also Provide Love & Respect To Women.] **It All Works Hand In Hand!!! Men & Women Should Work TOGETHER In Their Respective Positions & Lives, NOT AGAINST Each Other.