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"You're just trying to harass me with CPS"

Nope. But our kids keep saying things that a mandated reporter is required to report, and 90% of my family falls into that category. Maybe just stop abusing the kids so no one has a reason to report you.

Someday my children are going to end up in tiny wood boxes at the hand of their father, and there is literally nothing I can do except watch

#dv survivor #spilled thoughts #child abuse

Triggers Warning DV

The way someone can make you question your own reality to the point that you start convincing yourself memories are fake before they have started gaslighting you on it is terrifying. What do you mean I had a grown ass man pin me to the bed a year ago and tell me I'm lucky he doesn't beat the shit out of me because he wants to, and yet I still have days where I question if it happened is wild to me. And I still stayed with him for months after that. Being in an abusive marriage is a whole different reality.

#tw abuse #spilled thoughts #dv survivor #tw gaslighting

I always thought that as long as my husband only abused me, it was best for our children if I stayed. I didn't realize how wrong I was until I left and realized he had been abusing my daughter as well. Even though it was right in front of me, I was so numb to the abuse at that point that I didnt even see it.

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Power & Control Wheel

To use to better identify if someone is being abusive towards you

A breakdown here

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liberaljane

it can be hard to leave a toxic environment, but you deserve to be safe.

Digital illustration of a young Asian woman sitting on a staircase in a green tank top and pants. Text reads, 'you deserve to be in an environment that brings out the softness in you -- not he survival in you.'