I SWEAR ON THE HOLY PUSSY

im no status quo calico! 26, they/them

[evvergreen]

tumblr is the website for if you're just someone's weird sister

[asynca]

Write that one-shot. Those 3 chapters will be the best 10 chapters you ever wrote

[lovesongs4robots]

also i think there is a larger issue at play here, which is how white-liberal ideology around the construction of "proper" behavior has done a number on how conflict vs. safety, and safety vs. comfort, are conceptualized in collective spaces, where for example any confrontation or interruption to actually address something potentially unsavory is seen as an escalation, borderline an act of violence the way it disrupts everyone having a good time, and "letting it slide"/moving past something/redirection is seen as a de-escalation and the righteous choice of "not taking the bait" or "being the bigger person" or whatever self-pat on the back. that is not what de-escalation is. conflicts and disagreements aren't inherently dangerous, and trying to prevent the existence of conflicts by entirely ignoring the issue because confronting it is uncomfortable and we do not want to "escalate" is not how safety is achieved.

[afeelgoodblog]

Because sometimes we all just need to see a guy head-bump a beautiful Beluga whale

[13faeinapenguinsuit]

Note: that is not a lumberjack!!! Most likely it is a domesticated marine biologist, possibly a domesticated fisherman, (you can tell because it has been clothed in wool, which stays warm when wet, so it is is clearly well cared for).

While this may be appropriate enrichment for your DOMESTICATED and WELL TRAINED marine biologist or fisherman, please remember that lumberjacks may be tame, but are not domesticated. They are still wild, and they absolutely will freak out if they see you swimming around in their forests.

[vanshira]

did you write this notice for the belugas or

[13faeinapenguinsuit]

Who else would I write it for? It’s not like orcas care about ethical wildlife photography.

[kosmogrl]

oooh I get it it’s always gonna be because of the environment I grew up in

[aceofpans]

it’s because of the curse

[spookyboywhump]

I do really love it when women write graphic and fucked up things. I feel like so often people react to fucked up fiction with “of course a disgusting man would write this 🙄” and it often carries an unspoken (honestly sometimes spoken) message of “a woman’s PURE and DELICATE and FEMININE mind could NEVER think of something this VILE”. Thank you women in fucked up fiction 🫡

[allsadnshit]

When men don't fuck with me I'm like okay well not everyone's for everybody huh

But when I even SUSPECT a woman doesn't fuck with me I'm like what does this mean? Can she sense a darkness within my soul I have only just begun to scratch the surface of?

[deaths-accountant]

it's the assumption that women are welcoming and easy to get along with

[lemonsweet]

Do you remember the episode of Spongebob where he's training gary for the snail race and does a coach persona + calls gary a girl and has an aside where he's like "I called you a lady to demean you 🤓" and right after he says that it cuts to sandy and she somehow telepathically feels that Spongebob just did something misogynistic and us like I feel like I need to kick Spongebobs ass for some reason. And then she appears just at the end of the episode to kick his ass.

[sharksdancing]

Video games are great, they let you try your craziest fantasies. For example, on the sims, you can have a job and a house

[cutecipher]

how it feels to be stressed out almost 100% of the time

[maleksrami]

fuck it. grass on my blog for touching

[urie]

ICE killed another person in maine today, just days after the murder of lorenzo salgado araujo in houston

the maine immigrants rights coalition has released a statement confirming he was a 26 year old columbian man who was authorized to work in the US and had a valid social security number

will update this post with a gofundme link if/when one becomes available

[urie]

his name was joan sebastian guerrero. his 3 yr old daughter was in the backseat of the car in her bluey pajamas. after he was shot, witnesses saw ICE agents pull him from the car and cuff him as he died

[urie]

here is his gofundme. their original goal has been reached in just 16 hours, but i still encourage people to spread and donate if they can

[varnishke]

If you can’t donate to the gofundme for any reason, you may also consider supporting Presente, which supports Latin American and Afro-Latin people in Maine: https://www.presentemaine.org/

Presente! Maine

Presente! Maine

Or the Immigrant Legal Advocacy Project (ILAP): https://ilapmaine.org/

ILAP Maine

ILAP Maine

[strawberry-crocodile]

for real tho it feels exhausting that ive seen this whole "woman should be allowed to abstain from X beauty standard" -> "i perform X beauty standard, am i evil? do you think im evil? please forgive me i came up with a dozen excuses 🥺" since like 2015 (and i know its been going on longer than that) like girl thats not the poiiiiint

[strawberry-crocodile]

look me in the eyes. repeat after me. "i face societal pressure to perform this beauty standard. i should not face that pressure. i conform to this standard. i am rewarded for performing to this standard. i need to respect women who do not perform this standard. this is not about whether or not i am a sinner for wearing makeup."

[greenlabcoat]

when you have a hammer everything looks like a guy you could kill with a hammer

[sawed-on-shotgun]

i am of the sincere belief that if ur on ur computer a lot you should visually customize it to high hell and back not just for funsies but also because it has literally made me less depressed before. its kind of like how rearranging your bedroom is good for your brain, yknow. i do stuff like this every few months

[sawed-on-shotgun]

and if anyone wants to follow suit

LIVE WALLPAPER: wallpaper engine. only thing on here that costs any money (its like 5 bucks on steam). im sure theres free alternatives but this one has a lot of presets and stuff so its less hassle and its what i use. might be a bad idea for lower end pcs tho

CUSTOM TASKBAR: retrobar on github (lots of different options)

CUSTOM CURSOR: theres a lot of places to find these, but rw-designer open cursor library is a good place to start

DISCORD: betterdiscord, im using the clearvision v7 theme with a custom background

EXTENSIONS (these are for firefox, might or might not exist on other browsers):

tabliss for the new tab theme

stylus for tumblr -> specifically the 'tumblr - custom dashboard pallette' theme for colors + bg, and this for the pre-twitterifcation layout

enhancer for youtube for custom youtube colors

the browser theme is just one i found on the firefox theme 'store'

[grocki]

sci fi is all about getting so scared and ripping tubes out of yourself. people miss this

[closet-keys]

"no one lets transmascs talk about their experiences with transphobia" false.

you can complain about transphobia without anyone calling your post transmisogynist with this one easy trick: don't include transmisogyny in your post

if every time you talk about transphobia you face, you always end up:

blaming trans women

expressing a sense of categorical entitlement to sex with trans women

centering your own misogynistic resentment towards women

opposing transfeminism outright

mocking transfeminist theory and terms

denying the existence of transmisogyny

then it's not that no one "lets you" talk about transphobia. it's that when you say transmisogynistic things, other people notice and comment on the transmisogyny.

trust me, there are tons of tme trans people who have no issue with sharing our experiences with transphobia.

you've surrounded yourself in such a misogynist bubble of social life that you've forgotten blatant transmisogynistic tirades aren't going to get you instant support everywhere.

people not falling all over themselves to praise you for obvious misogyny isn't "transandrophobia" / "transmisandry" / "discrimination against transmascs." it's just what life is like outside your boys club echo chamber. get over yourselves.