I only stan groups with real talents.

[fallinflowergirl]

“Don’t preach God’s word if you aren’t honest and your character and beliefs are questionable. If you tolerate cheating and killing, don’t speak holy words when you know you’re not living by them.”

[fallinflowergirl]

You have no say how I should live my life. So stay away and shut up!

[fallinflowergirl]

Nakakapagod marinig mula sa ibang tao yung paulit-ulit na, “Mag-asawa ka na, 30 ka na,”

“Ano ba ’yan, wala ka pa ring boyfriend?”

“Napag-iwanan ka na ni ano, yung anak niya high school na, ka-edad mo lang ’yon,”

o kaya “Ano pang hinihintay mo? Tatandang dalaga ka niyan.”

Na para bang kapag wala kang boyfriend, asawa, o sariling pamilya, katapusan na agad ng buhay mo.

Na para bang sinusukat ang halaga mo bilang babae base sa kung may anak ka na o wala.

Na para bang automatic na malungkot, kulang, at kawawa ang buhay mo kapag single ka.

Hindi ba pwedeng pinili mo lang muna ang sarili mo?

Hindi ba pwedeng mas inuuna mo ang pangarap, career, healing, at personal growth?

Hindi ba pwedeng masaya ka pa lang mag-isa—kumpleto, buo, at payapa—kahit wala ka sa isang relationship?

Hindi naman race ang buhay.

Hindi rin checklist ang pag-ibig na kailangan sundan sa timeline ng ibang tao.

At higit sa lahat, hindi nasusukat ang pagkababae, kasiyahan, o tagumpay sa pagkakaroon ng asawa o anak.

Minsan, ang pinaka-radikal na desisyon ay ang piliin muna ang sarili—

at wala dapat ipaliwanag doon

[fallinflowergirl]

We need to stop pressuring people in their 30s to find a partner and start a family. Thirty is young, and life already comes with enough worries, financial challenges, and instability. Not everyone is ready or willing to take on more responsibility. Some people just want time to heal, to enjoy their freedom, and to build a peaceful life for themselves and that should be respected. #Healingoverhustle #SoftLifeEra

[fallinflowergirl]

May mga lalaki talagang mas chismosa pa sa babae no? HAHAHAHA issue. 🤣

[fallinflowergirl]

You’re no better — in fact, you’re worse.

People without dignity have no right to look down on others.

[fallinflowergirl]

Closure came the moment I realized your need for me was never love—just convenience.”

[fallinflowergirl]

grabe ba talaga ang noise pollution sa pilipinas. Araw araw na lang 🥲🥲

[fallinflowergirl]

Next time alam ko na kung sino ang dapat tulungan at hindi. Kung sinong dapat pagbigyan at hindi. Kung sinong dapat bigyan ng konsiderasyon at hindi. People only need you kapag convenient sa kanila pero kapag di ka nila kailangan? Hindi ka nila kilala. Fly high mga butterfly lapit na din naman yan matapos 🤣

[fallinflowergirl]

[fallinflowergirl]

Ganun ba dapat yon? Kapag nahihiya ka sa isang tao bigla ka na lang di mamamansin? Tapos parang ang labas pa may kasalanan sila sayo?

[fallinflowergirl]

Do you know the importance of time and setting an appointment as an adult?

One that I hate the most is a person who always arrives late. Someone who treats it as if it is not really essential and laughs at it. As an adult, my time is really really important na kapag may ka appointment ako at hindi sila dumating sa tamang oras napakalaking bagay para sakin ang pwedeng mawala. My time to earn, my time to relax, my time to eat, my time to do other things. Kaya when you set an appointment with other people, make sure to arrive early or inform them about you being late so that they can do more things than waste their time staring at the door waiting for you to arrive. Pinoy time sucks you know? Yikes. 

[fallinflowergirl]

Napapagod na po ako minsan na mag provide ng kailangan nila.

[qvotable]

“I can’t exactly describe how I feel, but it’s not quite right. And it leaves me cold.”

— F. Scott Fitzgerald (via bnmxfld)

[fallinflowergirl]

silent cries are the most painful one.

[sunsetquotes]

“And it’s hard to hate someone once you understand them.”

— Lucy Christopher

[fallinflowergirl]

Naiiyak naman ako.