#fixyourselffirst

[fallinflowergirl]

You’re no better — in fact, you’re worse.

People without dignity have no right to look down on others.

[conchshell4pastelfractal]

SPIRAL APEX REACHED! of the Any Whorl Else Around Chicago Tour! It all culminates with Pastel Fractal, Conch Shell, and fDj ȺƉǤ at venue #25 - Ana Leyda Mateo Plaza in the Heart of Chicago neighborhood where the three performers all share the plaza stage for what was supposed to be a video shoot of fDj ȺƉǤ's career-boosting "Behind the Research: origins of fDj ȺƉǤ" documentary (trailer ONLY released here https://youtu.be/mr2eu6qRnI4). The performance begins well with the original fingerstyle guitar of Conch Shell but quickly erupts into a vicious conch horn fight! Thank you, @satanpresley #selftrolling #selfcritique #lookinward #fixyourselffirst #shamanhealsselffirst #skateboardforever #basketballislife #selfimprovement #selfactualization #behindthemusic #behindtheresearch #sobertruth #diymusic #diyperformance #diymultimedia #psychedelicintrospection #burselfinc #iamlovingawareness (at St Ann Elementary School) https://www.instagram.com/p/BxJCTNsHQzw/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1vwugpqwk8de7

[undefeatableministries]

Everyone loves seeking your advice until you tell them they have a god complex. You aren’t trying to save them you’re trying to save yourself. And your help is actually rooted in selfishness , control, and pride. Sometimes help is good but sometimes it carries demonic roots. If we don’t ask why the enemy will even hide behind seemingly good deeds. Everything good ain’t God. Don’t ask if if you don’t wanna know. When He speaks I’m gonna repeat. Love tells you the truth not stroke your ego. Honesty is my specialty. Get to the root! #Youarenotthesavioroftheworld #laydownallfalseburdens #Fixyourselffirst #stoplookingforpeiplecrazierthanyoutohelp #Healthyrelationships #Boundaries #Stability #Selfexamination #Youmightwannafightmebut.... #Whenyouprocessityoulllovemeagain #projectoneeleven #myweaponsarenotofthisworld #undefeatableministries #brazennationmedia #undefeatedbrokenintopurpose #CertLifeCoach #TransformationisINTENTIONAL https://www.instagram.com/p/Bsv3q-EFbMS/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=j9v7c27iqliu

[lakeeya02-blog]

Fixing Someone

You can't fix someone who doesn't want to be fixed. You can't fix someone who doesn't believe they need fixing or adjusting. This creates more work for you to do in your relationship, you’ll find yourself putting most of the effort into your own relationship. Your partner may feel disconnected, or may have given up, or needs space / time to think My advice… let them ! If it is meant to be, they will eventually find their way back to you. In return, they will be more efficient in their relationship, caring, possibly more loving (if THEY choose to stay) REMEMBER : This is not your decision to make, or force, or for you to give them a reason to stay. If you believe deep down that you have almost exhausted yourself giving love, time, attention without much in return, you will need them to put some work in too. Guaranteed you will be fulfilled, IF YOU DO THIS RIGHT !

[into-the-night-sky]

Happiness should not be defined by your relationship. Get yourself some freaking independence thank you.