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1. your suffering can’t end until you stop identifying with it. if your sense of self is tied up in your suffering, anyone or anything that attempts to separate you from it will become the enemy because, whether consciously or subconsciously, you will on some level believe they are trying to take away a part of who you are.

2. read the above again.

namiisreallygay

When your adhd is acting up while you’re trying to read so you have to read the same paragraph 5 times to actually absorb anything

galindatopland

me: learns something absolutely cursed i wish i could unlearn

me, texting a friend: hey guess what i just found out

foodffs

2-Ingredient Baked Cake Donuts with a 1-Ingredient Glaze

Really nice recipes. Every hour.

Show me what you cooked!

#food #recipes

musterniillustrates

having love in your heart will literally save you from the otherwise cataclysmic experience of being a human being

musterniillustrates

i know what i said u pessimistic bastards and i stand by it!!!!

finnglas

I’m going to give you the best piece of Adult Life Is Hard advice I’ve ever learned:

Talk to people when things go to shit.

I don’t just mean get it off your chest, although that’s good. I mean: Something’s wrong with your paycheck/you lost your job/you had unexpected emergency car repairs and now you’re broke so your credit card payment is late. Like, not just 15 days late. We’re talking, shit got crazy and now you’re 90 days late with compounded interest and late fees and the Minimum Payment Due is, like, $390, and you’ve got about $3.90 in your bank account. Call the credit card company.

I know it’s scary. I know you feel like you’re going to get in trouble, like you’re gong to get yelled at or scolded for not having your life together. But the credit card company isn’t your parents; they’re just interested in getting money from you. And you can’t squeeze blood from a stone or money from someone who doesn’t have any. So what you do is you call them. You explain you’re experiencing temporary financial hardships, and you’re currently unable to bring your account up to date, but you don’t want to just let it get worse. Can you maybe talk to someone about a payment plan so you can work something out? Nine times out of ten you’ll be able to negotiate something so that at least it’s not just taking a constant, giant shit on your credit score.

- Can’t pay your power bill? Call the power company.

- Can’t pay your full rent? Talk to your landlord.

- Had to go to the hospital without insurance and have giant medical bills looming in your place? Call the hospital and ask if they have someone who helps people with financial hardships. Many do.

- Got super sick and missed half a semester of class because flu/pneumonia/auto-immune problems/depressive episode? Talk to your professor. If that doesn’t help, talk to your advisor.

You may not be able to fix everything, but you’ll likely be able to make improvements. At the very least, it’s possible that they have a list of people you can contact to help you with things. (Also, don’t be afraid to google things like, “I can’t pay my power bill [state you live in]” because you’d be surprised at what turns up on Google!) But the thing is, people in these positions gain nothing if you fail. There’s no emotional satisfaction for them if your attempts at having your life together completely bite the dust. In fact, they stand to benefit if things work out for you! And chances are, they’ll be completely happy to take $20 a month from you over getting $0 a month from you, your account will be considered current because you’ve talked to them and made an agreement, you won’t get reported to a collections agency, and your credit score won’t completely tank.

Here’s some helpful tips to keep in mind:

1. Be polite. Don’t demand things; request them. Let me tell you about how customer service people hold your life in their hands and how many extra miles they’ll go for someone who is nice to them.

2. Stick to the facts, and keep them minimal unless asked for them. Chances are they’re not really interested in the details. “We had several family emergencies in a row, and now I’m having trouble making the payments” is better than “Well, two months ago my husband wrecked his bike, and then he had a reaction to the muscle relaxer they gave him, and then our dog swallowed a shoestring and we had to take him to the emergency clinic, and just last week MY car broke down, and now my account’s in the negatives and I don’t know how I’m gonna get it back out.” The person you’re talking to is aware shit happens to everyone; they don’t need the details to prove you’re somehow “worthy” of being helped. They may ask you for details at a certain point if they have to fill out any kind of request form, but let them do that.

3. Ask questions. “Is there anything we can do about X?” “Would it be possible to move my payment date to Y day instead so it’s not coming out of the same paycheck as my rent?” The answer may be “no.” That’s not a failure on your part. But a good customer service person may have an alternate solution.

Anyway! I hope that helps! Don’t just assume the answer is “no” before you’ve even begun. There is more help out there than you ever imagined.

misanthropemom

being nice goes far to get people on your side.

1jellybaby

inkflowergarden

Blessings

misgenderisms-deactivated202010

youre nb but you call yourself a bitch (bitch is a FEMALE dog btw) why???

i am on the FLOOR

gendergenius

bitch and bastard are GENDERED terms and thus you must use the neutral: bitchard

zinnia-apologist-deactivated202

misgenderisms-deactivated202010

happy pride month to the stupidest post on this site.

#MY GENDER IS BITCHARD

laurasimonsdaughter

Types of fruit ranked by how much they piss off a vampire

Apple: Symbol or original sin, kinda pretty, especially the red ones. They’re digging it for the aesthetic. Not particularly rage inducing. 0/10

Grapes: Obligatory prop in any luxurious and luscious setting. Fun to make them go “splat”. Kind of annoying they can’t eat them. 2/10

Banana: What are they supposed to do with this? Is this some sort of joke? Get it out of their face. 4/10

Pomegranate: So. Frustrating. They’re so beautiful! And they look like they’re supposed to be filled with blood. This is bullshit. Why can’t they eat this! 8/10

Durian: Smells like delicious, delicious rotting meat and yet cannot be eaten. This is so fucking unfair. Are you doing this on purpose?? This isn’t fun anymore. 9/10

Blood Orange: You’ve got to be fucking kidding. Piss off. 10/10

fandomfishbish

op is. is there something you’re not telling us

laurasimonsdaughter

i don’t appreciate what you’re implying

#im op

checks tumbl again after being gone for almost a year.... damn who r yall

#dark magic attack!#i debated remaking again but nah thats so much effort #esp when idk if ill be super active here i just wanted to pop by and make it funky #how yall doin. anyone remember me. west.

candybloop-deactivated20190728

tumbly el gee bee tees rb with the age you read warrior cats and who was your fave

i was 8 and my fave was hollyleaf

#i was around 12 and i stan brambleclaw to this day

coolthingoftheday

An agate stone that looks like a window to the ocean.

#queued

ahorseofeverycolor

It’s My Little Monday! With…The HQG1 ponies Lovebound & Spellbound! These are valentines themed twin sister ponies, released for that holiday in 2018. They came in 2 varieties, regular matte (right side) and pearlized (left side) Their symbols are paper-cut hearts. If you zoom in on the photo you can see the delicate cutwork of the designs. These are flutter pony mold characters, but without the super fragile wings that would always break off of the earlier toys. These are still available in 2018, if you want to collect them.

#queued