[senatortedcruz]

Hey, don’t cry. More male virgins in their mid 20s than ever before, ok?

[femaleboyfrriend]

how do you all meet politically minded women in their 20s and 30s who are well read, have some productive hobbies, and are not addicted to short form content?

[femaleboyfrriend]

kind of a crazy one

[femaleboyfrriend]

hobbies are a nice thing to use your free time doing

i think so too

[cosmicallytiredd]

hate to break this to you but if you call yourself self aware but you are only aware of your faults and never acknowledge your strengths you are not self aware. you have repackaged your self hatred

[galesdove]

SOMEDAY IM GONNA BE SOMEBODY PEOPLE WANT!!!!!!

[weirdgirlvampire]

again and again and again and again

[scorpionlafemme]

[luncheon-aspic]

Please don't come after me for being smolbeanphobic... I can't help it if I have a competence kink :(

[virgomoon]

you can never go back. this is your one life. you had a bad childhood and that's it. you lost your teen years to mental illness and that's it. you're miserable in your 20s and that's it. you just go forward

[dangerousdykes]

“I’d gotten extremely sick — emergency-room sick — and although we had only been dating a few weeks, she came to sit with me and take me home. The ER drugs put me in a dizzy haze, but all I wanted to do was continue reading the incredible book I’d started that morning. I groggily murmured my wish as I lay in bed. She paused. Quietly, she scooped me up into the crook of her arm, picked up the novel next to me, and started reading. For hours, we lay there: her, stepping out of her comfort zone, and me, listening to the soothing sound of her voice. No one had ever done that for me before. That’s when I knew — I’d found who I was looking for.”

— 30 Lesbians Reveal the Exact Moment They Fell in Love (via thexfiles)

[kitchenalia]

a loving partner does not want to hurt you...please know that you didn't invite abuse or that you have to endure violence to have love. it's absolutely not true.

[hogwomyn]

[lakesbian]

people saying "go to therapy" about any behavior they dislike always inadvertently indicates how therapy/psychiatry in general is more about social control of behaviors perceived as non-normative/undesirable than it is about helping people, but it's extra funny that i just saw someone trotting out the "go to therapy touch grass" line over...people being exhausting in social settings by "using elaborate therapy-speak to communicate dislike of something/something [innocuous] instead of just saying 'yeah it wasn't for me.'" like, you want THAT person to go to therapy? those types of people? those are the ones you want to go to therapy? you think that will produce the result you want? those people going to therapy?

[pillarsalt]

"The male Left abandoned abortion rights for genuinely awful reasons: the boys were not getting laid; there was bitterness and anger against feminists for ending a movement (by withdrawing from it) that was both power and sex for the men; there was also the familiar callous indifference of the sexual exploiter--if he couldn't screw her she wasn't real.

The hope of the male Left is that the loss of abortion rights will drive women back into the ranks--even fear of losing might do that; and the male Left has done what it can to assure the loss. The Left has created a vacuum that the Right has expanded to fill--this the Left did by abandoning a just cause, by its decade of quietism, by its decade of sulking. But the Left has not just been an absence; it has been a presence, outraged at women's controlling their own bodies, outraged at women's organizing against sexual exploitation, which by definition means women also organizing against the sexual values of the Left. When feminist women have lost legal abortion altogether, leftist men expect them back--begging for help, properly chastened, ready to make a deal, ready to spread their legs again. On the Left, women will have abortion on male terms, as part of sexual liberation, or women will not have abortion except at risk of death."

- Andrea Dworkin, Right-Wing Women (1983)

[im-not-an-object-ok]

1983

[starryweever-blog]

Gays: if you’re not gay then you’re not gay

People in hetero relationships but who wear silly clothing: How DARE You Disrespect me! I exist!

[innerchildabortionclinic]

I hope i'm your favorite losing dog to bet on

[femaleboyfrriend]

im kind of a bisexual extremist...i think having a wider spectrum of what bisexuality means is good. i don't want to see one more woman identifying as a lesbian while being attracted to men bc she thinks it makes her attraction to women be taken more seriously. you could have only liked one man ever and still be bi. if you've ever wanted to have sex with a man or had a crush on a man, you are not a lesbian. bi women can love and want and desire women as much as a lesbian can. you literally never have to be equally or similarly attracted to men and women to be bi. i love you, put down the orange and pink and forget everything in that stupid masterdoc