so i went to a cishet womanās bach party this weekend. i love my friend dearly, and i had a ton of fun doing the little culty things that all bach parties do, but damn
being around all those women made me think the thoughts of my teenage years āoh god iām doing girl wrongā but iām not a girl! iām not a woman! i donāt need to be doing any of that gender performance to feel comfortable in my body!
even to this day i am having to push down those thoughts and remind myself i donāt need to be doing the things they do to be women in order to be accepted. gahhhhh
i did shave my legs tho, so
went to another cishet friends bach and it was great. itās simply not that deep and i had a wonderful time without centering myself in my thoughts the whole time















