Faction Paradox Poser

I can't believe I came back to this hell site. Finn DiSeicla. He/They. Gay as Fuck. Total Queer. Just here, Forever.

[pterribledinosaurdrawings]

how it feels to message a friend who's having Problems that you can't do anything to help with.

[cousin-quartz-of-house-paradox]

davie's my favourite when he's being edgy

[cousin-quartz-of-house-paradox]

i suppose it's because it counteracts his sweetie persona so much. like that's not your lovable little twink, that is a grownass man who has been through shit and will not hesitate in taking you down with him. yknow.

[lovelyangryheart]

[notpedropascal]

FRANÇOIS ARNAUD BY JUMBO TSUI FOR L'OFFICIEL HOMMES CHINA

[dr-paint]

CAUSE I'M A PUNKROCKER YES I AM!

[finndiseicla]

why do they drive the same car?

[anthonysperkins]

"So, is Mo short for Mohammed?" "It is. Is Kal short for… Wait, what is Kal short for?" "Kal-El." "Khalil??" "[chuckles] No. Kal-El." "Your full name is Kal-El? Like Superman?!" "Yes." "Like Superman's Kryptonian name given to him by his biological parents, Jor-El and Lara????" "Oh, Superman fan?" "Yeah! Huge!!" "Do you have a favorite?" "Superman? Oh, Christopher Reeve, no contest." "Agreed."

Haaz Sleiman and Michael Cassidy as Mo and Kal in Breaking Fast (2020) dir. Mike Mosallam

[anthonysperkins]

"So, is Mo short for Mohammed?" "It is. Is Kal short for… Wait, what is Kal short for?" "Kal-El." "Khalil??" "[chuckles] No. Kal-El." "Your full name is Kal-El? Like Superman?!" "Yes." "Like Superman's Kryptonian name given to him by his biological parents, Jor-El and Lara????" "Oh, Superman fan?" "Yeah! Huge!!" "Do you have a favorite?" "Superman? Oh, Christopher Reeve, no contest." "Agreed."

Haaz Sleiman and Michael Cassidy as Mo and Kal in Breaking Fast (2020) dir. Mike Mosallam

[anthonysperkins]

"So, is Mo short for Mohammed?" "It is. Is Kal short for… Wait, what is Kal short for?" "Kal-El." "Khalil??" "[chuckles] No. Kal-El." "Your full name is Kal-El? Like Superman?!" "Yes." "Like Superman's Kryptonian name given to him by his biological parents, Jor-El and Lara????" "Oh, Superman fan?" "Yeah! Huge!!" "Do you have a favorite?" "Superman? Oh, Christopher Reeve, no contest." "Agreed."

Haaz Sleiman and Michael Cassidy as Mo and Kal in Breaking Fast (2020) dir. Mike Mosallam

[anthonysperkins]

"So, is Mo short for Mohammed?" "It is. Is Kal short for… Wait, what is Kal short for?" "Kal-El." "Khalil??" "[chuckles] No. Kal-El." "Your full name is Kal-El? Like Superman?!" "Yes." "Like Superman's Kryptonian name given to him by his biological parents, Jor-El and Lara????" "Oh, Superman fan?" "Yeah! Huge!!" "Do you have a favorite?" "Superman? Oh, Christopher Reeve, no contest." "Agreed."

Haaz Sleiman and Michael Cassidy as Mo and Kal in Breaking Fast (2020) dir. Mike Mosallam

[anthonysperkins]

"So, is Mo short for Mohammed?" "It is. Is Kal short for… Wait, what is Kal short for?" "Kal-El." "Khalil??" "[chuckles] No. Kal-El." "Your full name is Kal-El? Like Superman?!" "Yes." "Like Superman's Kryptonian name given to him by his biological parents, Jor-El and Lara????" "Oh, Superman fan?" "Yeah! Huge!!" "Do you have a favorite?" "Superman? Oh, Christopher Reeve, no contest." "Agreed."

Haaz Sleiman and Michael Cassidy as Mo and Kal in Breaking Fast (2020) dir. Mike Mosallam

[notpedropascal]

FRANÇOIS ARNAUD BY JUMBO TSUI FOR L'OFFICIEL HOMMES CHINA

[malibuklaus]

[infectiouspiss]

"i think therefore i am" yeah well i jerk therefore i cum #bitch

[orbitingrook]

[k1ttyy-br41nss]

happy pride

[quadrilioquy]

[canichangemyblogname]

This June, I need Gen Z queers to understand that some people are closeted.

[canichangemyblogname]

I am saying this as a Gen Z queer, before y’all get your guns out to fucking shoot me.

But I need y’all to understand that if someone doesn’t give you their government name in a queer space, it’s not because they’re “mysterious,” and you do not have permission to take it upon yourself to figure out their “real identity” and go digging for them online like a private investigator. First, that’s creepy and a violation of privacy and reasonable boundaries. Second, some of us keep our private and professional lives very separate because we need to keep food on the fucking table and a roof over our heads, and our private life could jeopardize that.

[canichangemyblogname]

“Why won’t you tell me about your parents?” “Why can’t I know your real name?” “Where do you work?”

1.) Not all our parents would bake us a fucking cake when we come out. Some of us are closeted. Surely you understand this? You also do not need to know my parent’s names or occupations; we are both adults. I do not need nor want to mix you and my private life with my parents and my public life.

2.) Trans people do not owe you their dead name or government name

3.) I’m not telling you for the sake of job security. I am a government fucking caseworker working amidst a fucking lavender panic!

“There’s no way you’re a different person outside this; you’re still you at your core. What harm is there—”

No, I am a completely different person. A different person with a different personality and different interests and a different name and presentation. I am a completely different person because I keep this life and my public life private to avoid fracturing 90% of my interpersonal relationships and 100% of my professional ones.

“You’re not out? But you’re so confident.”

See— that’s part of the issue. Y’all assume someone is in the closet because they hate themselves or lack self-identity. Some of us know exactly who we are, but need to prioritize financial stability or else our entire life gets exponentially harder immediately.

[canichangemyblogname]

You meet queer people over the age of 40 and one of the first/earliest questions is “who knows?”

I need y’all to start bringing that energy. Because it’s not always safe for someone to be out and not everyone is safe to be out around.

There is a misnomer that “the closet” inherently means “doesn’t know they’re queer” and not “isn’t out widely and publicly.” “Outness” is often a patchwork.

[the-scottish-costume-guy]

Even if someone who isnt out does share any life details with you, you keep those to yourself. You tread carefully and assume others dont know until told otherwise. And sometimes you lie and help keep that closet door shut. It is ok to feel super weird about it if someone comes out to you as trans but tells you to only use their preferred name and pronouns privately just the two of you. It's fine to feel uncomfortable when people ask you if a gay person has an opposite gendered partner. It is so valid to feel weird and bad deadnaming someone even though they requested it. It stops being valid if you do anything other than they asked. Feel your feelings, and keep them to yourself - someone else's identity isn't about you.