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finding out your oomfs live in the same state as you is really Scary because then going outside starts to feel like this

rockabillywife

The water fountain when you’re thirsty af is definitely a top 5 place to publicly debase yourself

i have a question when you guys are reading like ship pairings or whatever how does it sound in your head. like “person A x person B.” bc I usually think the x is like times lol but I wonder if ppl say the letter ex or like and or smth else

#fanfic #shipping

demonprincex

truly mystified by what people perceive to be blonde hair. if that shit is not light and very yellow how is it not fucking brown hair. I know a lot of people who were blonde as children continue to identify as such as they get older because of like white supremacy making being blonde feel more desirable than the alternative or something but this is crazy

flailingup

this is so fascinating to me bc actually i have always felt that the desire to define “blond” as extremely narrow and only applying to people with bright whitish yellow hair was a hand-me-down of white supremacy. like, why does blonde get to be some ideal color that ppl strive so hard for and then brunette is like a massive group that basically anybody else will fall into. also ppl with a really narrow definition of blond will often say a bunchh of ppl with dark hair have “black” hair even if it is really quite brown. idk ig to me it’s about the hue of the hair not the shade. like if your hair is kind of yellowish, even a very dark yellow, to me that would be blond. and if it’s brown, even a light brown, that would be brunette. but then I am one of these people who was blonde as a child but now says I’m brunette bc that seems to be what ppl think so mb I’m biased

#also as a side note #in communities where there are less white people #the definition of blond tends to be broader #like people with lighter hair of any hue will often (not always depends on the individual and community etc etc) be perceived as blond #not necessarily directly applicable to my point but interesting food for thought

intactics-deactivated20250505

the well ok of it all

thepoisonroom

love is insane you feel like you’re always subtly asking “do you still love me even though i’m flawed” and the answer just keeps being yes

less is such an insane song off this album. like she eulogizes a relationship that you don’t want to end but just has to go anyway so well. she captures the complete heartbreak of knowing not only that something has to end but that it’s better that it does and also how that doesn’t make it fucking suck any less. god it kills me

#olivia rodrigo #you seem pretty sad for a girl so in love

batrachised

love the phrase "but I digress." yes I temporarily got lost in the moors I wander in my mind but don't worry I'm self-aware about it

03josten

i mean this from the bottom of my heart: no one is impressed by your loud ass car. actually we talked about it and we all want you dead.

#i live on a main road #and they like to drive by allll night in their loud ass cars and bikes #and i honestly kinda hate them #i j wanna sleep with my windows open #pls buy a functional muffler

ficauthor

Psych is such a weird show bc in a lot of ways it's constantly asking, "can you forgive your father? even tho he could never forgive you, can you forgive him?" and the thing he could never forgive you for was not meeting his exact very specific expectations. And the answer keeps being yes you can, because not doing so is worse. You tried and it hurt more. You tried and it made you more miserable. You forgive him because he's all you have most of the time, and its somehow less complicated than whatever you have going on with your mom. You can forgive him but you can't forget, and then one day he realizes that he was wrong and there was nothing he should have taken as a slight about you, but you both just never acknowledge this paradigm shift in your relationship bc it'd be more awkward then fighting again for the millionth time. So things get better but you never say why, you never acknowledge it unless forced and somehow you forgive him more than your mom who you were never even half as mad at.

But also it's about breaking and entering into sea world and making a janitor think you killed your best friend so you can escape, it's about gaslighting your coworkers into thinking you are the dumbest man alive, it's about only closing a mystery when it's as funnt as possible and making sure everyone else around you is as baffled as possible. It's about childhood and nostalgia and growing up in the most chaotic way you can. It's about people being killed with a t-rex skull, it's about slapstick and committing to the bit and being the silliest messiest bisexual on tv in 2006-2014.

It's about a son and his father and forgiveness and somehow also they are in a circus tent trying to find out why a corpse was launched from a cannon. And also there's an extended musical episode that makes it onto my personal Spotify year after year

captain-price-returns

eating in mexico as a Brit or central/northern European has gotta be like hearing music for the first time

honestly I am not sure if I should be trusted to live alone. i need a real adult. like who is supposed to make sure I eat or tell me when I’m hungry or remind me to drink water. or check if I need to pee before I leave the house. am I a dog