call me kali!/she-her/ 2000/ cisblacklesbian/ 18+!! /zero organization. few original posts. can I pls have a header and pp back ;( [No!! no Minors!!! fuck dude. no terf types either. I don't have a DNI but pls 18+ and Age In BIO!! i don't wanna block yall
Hello, gays! Saving for next month. I'm still paying 1 installment monthly (from old cards debts). I'll spend what is saved in July on mother's eyes (after 2 surgeries she'll need a third). I need to continue my anemia treatment. My back pain has become worse and more often. We both have chronic health issues and living on benefits means bills keep happening cause emergencies keep happening. We weren't prepared for her issues right now, as most of us disabled and financially struggling people aren't.
Today we paid rent, food and utensils, thanks to benefits + help, and we might need it again. Please, if you can support us in any way, any dono is appreciated.
Like said, I know lots of us struggle, and if you can't or prefer not to help, I totally get it... Thank you so much regardless, and special thanks to people who reach out with kindness. More info under the cut.
My mother is 77 years old, she struggles with things "normal" for her age... high blood pressure, cholesterol, trigliceridi, anxiety, sleeping issues, hernia on her back, skin allergies and continuos eye problems. I have a bunch of chronic shit/pain... from dermatitis to a bad knee and foot to depression, and need vitamins supplements. If you follow me you know this. That being said, between both of us we take more than 10 different medications a day.
In 2024 my mother made her first surgery (cataracts) in both eyes, then in 2025 her second laser procedure in both eyes. She currently cannot see with clarity, even wearing glasses.
Our benefits + whatever I make doing odd jobs for relatives makes us around $700, where $300 alone goes to rent, and we can't pay everything with only $400.
We live in Brasil, my currency is BRL (every USD means 5 BRL, every ⏠means 6 BRL). I pay taxes over every donation (for currency conversion).
It has come to my attention that people sometimes have bad things to say about this, of people struggling and seeking help, as if people who "e-beg" do it for fun, or as if it doesn't cause us anxiety when we know something important to us depends on the kindness of someone that might not come. Yes, I have seen some posts directed at me even though they were "venting" posts. Your lack of sympathy/empathy or whatever else is your problem and says more about you than about me.
To anyone who has helped me in any way (donating, sharing, starting a conversation) thank you so much for all of it. Bless you all.
How come most lesbian spaces that go out of their way to include every binary trans man also violently & vehemently oppose trans women lesbians in those same lesbian spaces? đ¤đ¤đ¤đ¤đ¤
The segregationist discrimination of afab-only policies have been all but standard among queer and lesbian spaces for just as long as âtrans men have always been accepted into lesbianism.â I havenât hear a peep from ANY of those trans men about how trans women deserve and have a right to lesbianism just as much as any cis woman and MORE than any binary man.
Trans men lesbians throughout history have turned a blind eye and walked right past afab-only bullshit that gatekept their lesbian trans sisters each and every time.
And then they turn around to tell trans women to learn queer history as if we havenât been the victims of it the entire time!!!
Appealing to conservative tradition is not the look you think it is.
happy pride đ im a Black nonbinary Haitian-Senegalese lesbian artist in recovery for some p severe trauma, goal is soup for meds, grateful for any help <3 c4$h4pp v3nm0 p4yp4l k0fi
please donate if u can đđŤśđ˝ dysphoria, inflammation, heat, migraines, stomach issues, dental problems⌠the list goes on. just trying to survive to get the help i need <3
There is no actual, tangible reason why we allow people to starve, to be homeless, to suffer and die needlessly. Food is plentiful. Empty homes are plentiful. Medicine is plentiful. Itâs hidden away behind constructs and we pretend those constructs mean something. There is an empty home and a homeless family, give them it. There is a sick child and common medicine to treat it, give it to them. There is a starving person and so much food wasted by corporations or hidden behind a dollar sign, feed them.
yall would rather believe apps like wayfair r trafficking children and women through dresser listings instead of paying attention to sex tourism or capitalism incentivizing the wealthy to exploit women in lower social classes, i get conspiracy can be âfunâ but i promise u most of the sexual abuse and trafficking happening in the world is directly from ppl with power buying their way out of consequences and not people selling overly priced bed frames, saying this as a trafficking victim u look stupid as fuck parroting that stuff
"it's just growing pains" -> "you're too young for that to hurt that bad" -> "you just need to get in better shape" -> "welcome to being old, everyone is in pain"
also I don't think parents "these days" are uniquely terrible, I just think neglect is showing up in new ways as technology progresses. today's ipad kid would've been wandering around in a ditch alone all day and night before. parents not wanting to have to deal with children is not a new phenomenon.
You really start to understand that the âangry black womanâ and âmean lesbianâ stereotype only exists to shame us for the fact we get reasonably upset about people wanting to horrifically abuse us indiscriminately. Letâs get meaner !
You shouldnât have to be trans to get any sex characteristic-related surgery. Itâs not a limited resource. Plenty of cis men get implants and cis women get breast reductions. From Colby Gordon today and Leslie Feinberg in Transgender Warriors (1996).
i can't stop thinking about her tying me up really gently so i can't move... kissing my neck while she presses the vibrator right on my clit watching my eyebrows furrow just slightly while i let out a short whine
"i know baby, just take it for me" She speaks so gently, right into my ear.
all i can do is become a complete mess for her... whimpering, shaking, begging her to take it off. but even after i cum she doesn't pull away, just keeps it there while she tells me how pretty and sweet i am for her.
Black woman invents or popularises a phrase -> it enters the vernacular and circulates widely amongst Black and nonblack people -> people removed from the phrase's initial context read it too literally, do not interpret it with sensitivity, assume that the ideas expressed when people use it are shallow / "over"-sexualised / problematic in some way or another that mirrors their feelings about Black people as a whole -> there is a backlash where a supposedly more 'thoughtful,' 'subversive,' etc. alternative to the initial phrase is offered, implying that the initial phrase contained none of that complexity within it -> rinse & repeat
