Please don't leave this in the tags, this is actually DIRECTLY parallel to what I'm angry about.
I just want people to interrogate their beliefs a little. What does someone mean when they say a character doesn't "look trans" enough? In many cases, it may just be valid criticism. Much like the examples you've given here, people who are not trans women do in fact struggle a lot with drawing trans women of more than one "look" very often. Too often, you could even say!
However, in many conversations, I see criticism of art depicting trans women by trans women get accused of making the girl "too clocky" or "not clocky enough" and people give the instructions to draw the incredibly specific portrayal of trans womanhood I described earlier in this thread. "Her boobs are too big" or "This just looks like a cis woman with a penis" (so do lots of people in real life...)
Sometimes, it feels like people don't want to see art depicting trans women at all, at least not if it has the audacity to cover the incredibly diverse range of shapes, sizes, and shades they can actually be.
What I was vaguing in the original post, though? I'm a comics artist. The leading lady in my next series is going to be a fat, biracial trans woman. She looks like trans women I know. Several of them have told me they felt seen for the first time when I first revealed her design.
I have also repeatedly been told I should make her boobs smaller, her face more masculine, her stomach flatter, her entire body smaller, etc. by people who DON'T LIKE ART OR EVEN PLAN TO READ THE COMIC!!! The trans woman in question is also dating this "platonic ideal" image of white trans womanhood that everyone keeps instructing me to go off and draw: small titties, "strong" features, big nose, all of that. That character also consistently gets more positive reception! THAT character is constantly held up as positive trans representation!! I can't help but notice!!!
All character designs are composed of a string of decisions. I do think that these decisions need to be made carefully and deliberately (and to be criticized when they aren't,) but I think some of these conversations, as I started this post by saying, go in a very strange direction...