The Gender Alchemist

pfp by @dearlydarkart genderfluid/bi/neurodivergent fuckup Interested in Arcane, TTRPGs, Gravity Falls, The Owl House, Crows, etc. I develop and design video games

[pigswithwings]

"male socialized" this, "female socialized" that. I WASNT SOCIALIZED!!!!! #straydog

[explicitlyrics]

many on here need to be learning this lesson

[i-am-a-fish]

ok, today is September 9. I have a challenge for anybody who's interested:

pick a project, (it can be literally anything), or start up a brand new project.

make a mental note/comment what project you are going to work on, and how much progress you've made so far.

try to get as much done on that project as you can before September 17.

you have 8 days to see how much you can get done. none of the projects need to be finished by the seventeenth, you'll just need to work on them! I wish the best of luck to anyone who wants to try this!

[pukicho]

I AM TRANSFERRING FLAVOR DIRECTLY INTO YOUR TASTEBUDS. DO NOT BE AFRAID.

LEMON

BLOOD

LEMON

BLOOD

LEMON

BLOOD

VINEGAR

LEMON

BLOOD

[soloh]

I hate when I say things like "oh I want an ipod classic but with bluetooth so I can use wireless headphones" and some peanut comes in and replies with "so a smartphone with spotify?" No. I want a 160GB+ rectangular monstrosity where I can download every version of every song I want to it and it does nothing except play music and I don't need a data connection and don't have to pay a subscription to not have ads and don't have popups suggesting terrible AI playlists all over the menus.

Gimme the clicky wheel and song titles like "My Chemical Romance- The Black Parade- Blood (Bonus Track)- secret track- album rip- high quality"

[foone]

Tangara is an open source iPod clone, which includes bluetooth:

Tangara

The music player you wish you had in the early 2000s

[piranya]

[penrosesun]

I can’t believe I need to say this, but “I can reclaim x slur” does not mean “I can use that slur against others as a slur, specifically in order to denigrate them due to their marginalized identity.”

You can reclaim fag, sure. You can’t go around calling gay people you hate “degenerate fags,” and then hide behind “but I can reclaim it!” when people rightly call you out. You can reclaim retard, or cripple. But you can’t expect people to nod and agree and coddle you when you call people with developmental disabilities “fucking retards” and make fun of all the “whiny cripples” who need mobility aids, or braille, or closed captioning, or other accessibility accommodations.

You fundamentally can’t reclaim a slur in order to harm others – that’s not reclaiming the slur, that’s just using it.

Slur reclamation is not and was never a super special license to use slurs against others (provided that you yourself are sufficiently oppressed). It was never about that.

Some of y’all just want permission to be the bullies, and it shows.

[sailor-crusader-deactivated2025]

Yall are making slurs and being racist to a group of people that doesn't even exist yet (robots). Unbelievable how frothing at the mouth you are to have an acceptable target, no wonder there's no much prejudice in this world if you people are like this!

[satellites-halo]

i know the group people are being hypothetically racist to doesn't technically exist (sentient robots), but I'm literally a cyborg (relying on medical devices to do bodily functions for me) and the amount of violent anti-cyborg ableism in these videos is astounding. Shit like "humans and machines were never meant to be mixed", making fun of tts voices often used in screen readers and AAC devices, phrases like "optics aren't eyes" and insisting that robotic versions of human things are inherently inferior and inhuman, these are all real forms of ableism used against real people every day and yet people online are still shouting these out as if we don't live in a world where disabled people sometimes need mechanical bodies. Cyborgs already exist! We're here and we're being affected by this shit!!

[strapbunny]

that super hot femme with weird interests can change your life btw

[c0unttheways]

hot take enby & intersex people dont deserve to be misgendered in the process of looking for hrt resources because you guys wanna make e and t the "girl" and "boy" hormones and only think about perisex peoples transitions

[exorsexism]

fun little reminder that nonbinary people are trans! this means that a binary trans person realizing theyre nonbinary isn't detransitioning, and a nonbinary person realizing theyre binary trans isn't becoming 'really trans'. being nonbinary isn't a fucking placeholder for a binary gender and if you think so you can go fuck yourself

[pansexualkiba]

incredible things happening on twitter

[identitty-dickruption]

hello disabled person who is dithering about whether or not to ask for a certain accommodation because you could "technically survive without it". that is the devil talking. you are allowed to demand more than "technically surviving". the world is a shitty ableist place, but if you have the chance to have your needs met in any tiny way you are allowed to take it. and yes, it's still a need even if you can kind of almost technically mostly survive without it

[redladydeath]

"aro/ace people can still be in relationships/have sex!!!" yeah and lesbians can have sex with men without it invalidating their identity, but if you go up to every lesbian you meet and start screaming about how "lesbians can be in relationships with cis men too!!!" you're gonna end up with a lot of pissed off lesbians because you're highkey replicating the same "you don't have to go against the norms of allocishet society! you can just be Normal™!" messaging they've been bombarded with ever since they started using that label, just dressed up in progressive language.

[lunawolf237-is-gay]

We as a society need to draw these two tearing into their food like feral animals more

[sadhoc]

the thing about caring about ableism and fighting for disability rights, is that you can't center it about just your disabilities. i'm not d/Deaf. i still care whether an event has sign interpreters. i don't have photosensitive epilepsy. i still think that strobing lights are 99% of the time totally unnecessary and serve as a needless barrier to photosensitive people. i can transfer to a toilet mostly independently. i still think that public accessible bathrooms should have lifts and adult changing tables in them. you can't stop your disability activism where it stops benefitting you. that's not activism. that's selfishness

[isuggestforcefem]

I often think about lies, and our relationship with them. It’s interesting, I think, as someone who claims to hate the act of lying, to wish to never lie.

It’s interesting, to think about how much I lie. How much we all lie, I assume. Not just in the big, scary ways, but in the more mundane ways, too.

How I bend the truth, the things I say to mean things more acceptable. Ommited sentences, half-truths. How I weave a tapestry of inferences, unstated implications, all to fool people, make them think i am who I am not.

It’s not just something i feel like doing, of course. It’s a need, a defense mechanism. Feigning interest to hide need, mimicing attraction to create relation.

It’s all in one direction, towards a unique goal. All to mean, but not say, love me, love me, get close to me, don’t leave me. I can’t let you leave me

It’s all the little, useful lies and mistruths of being around people.

[river-grunfeld]

You pretend to be female because it's easier than admiting the truth to yourself that as a male you should be allowed to act/dress femininly. Your entire life rn is a life, I'd start there.

[isuggestforcefem]

She the fuck up terf? I was never a man lol. And if i had been then what? Who gives a flying shitfuck

[river-grunfeld]

You'll notice I didn't say man, I said male. I don't believe in gender or gender roles.

I'd say the women you're hurting care a whole lot.

[isuggestforcefem]

I’m biologically female tho

[genderpotionwitch]

My two cents;

One, the original post had absolutely nothing to do with anything trans, and you (ex-tgirl) turning op's post into that and then arguing you don't believe in gender roles or gender whilst using the language of "women" (a gendered term, unlike female) is contradictory to yourself. Along with that, "girl" is a gendered term, which is also in your blog name.

My other cent; as for the original post, I understand that. The web of half-truths and ommitted sentences so people will like you and stay and not leave you and continue to love you. I hope you'll find someone who loves you for who you are.

Have a good day, op <3 /p

[smeagles]

british ppl are so funny man

[bymcr]

am i missing something… or is this like…. a problem….

[nealashitposts]

the english are weak