gender starter pack

exploring gender in middle age. AFAB, questioning, probably non-binary, androphilic

[your-bigender-big-brother]

If you can find a safe place to keep it, try creating a “gender journal”. Use it to write a list of gender labels you like, practice pronouns you want to try for yourself, or track moments of euphoria and dyphoria. Anything related to your gender experience can be written down and kept all in one place. If you’re ever questioning, you can go back and read what you’ve written. You can also write down any new discoveries you’ve had. Decorate the cover, doodle in it, write some of your favorite gender-related quotes. It may help.

- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚

[ryanthetrans-man]

How To Wash Your Binder!

Hey everyone, just wanted to make this is show y’all how I wash my binder and as a reminder to wash your binder!

So first off, I like to wash my binders every third day (unless it was really hot that day or if I spilled something on it, then I wash it that day)

So first I fill the sink up with warm water and put my binders in the water. Then I like to let them just soak in the water for a few minutes!

So next I use a Landry cleaner and softener

I keep them in small tubs cause I don’t need the whole bottle.

Now I leave them to soak for a couple minutes

Now I’m using dove body wash to make it smell nice and feel a lot softer

Now I let that soak for a moment

After I scrub them I drain the warm water

And then rinse them off with cold water

If any of your water turns a weird color do not worry! It’s not because it dirty, it’s just the dye!

Then I squeeze them out the best I can by hand and then I leave them to hang like this for the night!

Hope this was helpful!?

[4ins-deactivated20200426]

Every once and a while you get a glimpse of the person you could be. Grab that. Hold on to that. Work for it. Nothing is out of reach.

[newtlord]

Forever grateful to have earned the skin I’m in

(2years 10months on t)

[genderstarterpack]

Those masculine hands/wrists are very attractive.

They've prompted me to wonder if it's something I want myself. And trying to imagine more masculine versions of my own, it seems my left wrist wants it but my right doesn't *headdesk* That's taking bigender a bit far.

(I don't know if I'm bigender. It's one of the non-binary identities that might work for me)

[newtlord]

I used to frown and cover my face when someone brought out the camera, but I’m breaking the habit! 📸

[puckgoodfaggot]

a sleep-deprived sirius black for halloween today 🐺✨🐾✌🏻(he/him)

[newtlord]

Big hair don’t care 🤙 I hope everyone’s having an awesome day!!

(3 years on t)

[rendezvous-d]

back to my roots

[newtlord]

If I could show my past self one picture, I think it’d be this one.

(2years 10months on t)

[puckgoodfaggot]

this week’s outfits were p good even if the lighting in my room isn’t ✌🏻 (he/him)

[simon-is-one-confused-boi]

Questions to ask instead of “Am I trans?”

Because, tbh the question itself is so hard to answer, mostly because of the way it is phrased. Same with “Am I a boy, girl, or non-binary?” Here I present you some other questions to navigate your gender questioning journey:

Do I like to be reffered to/seen as/treated as a boy/girl/non-binary?

Do I dislike being treated in other ways?

What are my feelings relating my gender assigned at birth?

What are my feelings regarding the gender I think I may be?

Is there a certain gender you lean towards more than others? (For example, it never crossed my head that i may be unaligned non-binary. I would think i was a demigirl, then bigender, then demiboy, leaning away from girlhood and closer to boyhood with time, but I never thought I could be something other than a guy)

One of the moments when I feel the most euphoria is when I see femenine guys. Masculine guys are too far away from me to relate. Does it feel better to see a guy who acts like you, a girl who acts like you, or a non-binary person who acts like you?

How do you feel when you see yourself in clothes of the gender you think you may be?

Do you not want to change your clothes back to the ones socially fitting to the gender you were assigned at birth? Do you tell yourself “just five more minutes” or something like that?

When you see yourself in the mirror with clothes of the gender you think you may be, does that look like you, or a stranger?

Does it look “strange” just because you’re not used to it, or is it so uncomfortable you want to take the clothes off?

Are you scared of this “”“”“trans phase”“”“” being over? Are you scared of going back to identifying as your gender assigned at birth?

What is the main reason why you think you may be trans? Is it related to gender roles? (Ex: liking more the clothes of the opposite gender)

What is the main reason why you think you may not be trans? Is it related to gender roles? (Ex: liking more the clothes of your sex)

Do you think you want to be certain gender because of the “Aesthetic”? (This could be either about the gender you think you may be or the gender you were assigned at birth)

Can you explain why you “want” to be certain gender? Is there a logical reason?

Would you rather get rid of your questioning by having you mind change to fit your body, or have your body change to fit your mind?

If a magic being came to you right now and offered to give you the body that socially fits the gender you think you may be, knowing that you wont regret it, what would you say?

Based on the evidence, what do you think is more likely? That you are cis or that you’re trans?

[scoobycore]

9 days on testosterone

I have like the start of an actual T dick that gets hard and stuff 👀

Way more sensitive dicc

Hips are slightly less rounded, more square

Skin feels more rough like my pores are bigger

My face is starting to square off a bit more

[pinkwhiteandblue]

My first packer.

[bby-tobi]

Diy dick

[dysphoriathoughts]

DIY sock packer.

To pack, once you have the packer, just place in underwear as you would with a regular packer. Will need some adjustment to get into place and get a natural look.

[genderstarterpack]

Drag King Soft Packer pattern by Andie Nordgren

Note: Updated pattern link should now work

Drag King Soft Packer

by Andie Nordgren

[hustlerose]

if you think about it more than a little bit, you will realize that pronouns, especially among lgbt people, are just another aspect of presentation. and we all know the golden rule of presentation. say it with me. there’s no wrong way to be the gender you are.

now stop policing lesbians and gay men for making you uncomfortable with their gender nonconformity.