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[gremlingirlsmell]

like, it's insane we now need to go around and warn girls to NOT read the cognitohazard spiral-causing anxiety-inducing ableism article, because SOME ""transfeminists"" decided to say its "actually fine" and side with that transmisogynistic ableist piece of shit article now.

do not read the article titled "dump your puppygirl", if you're in a bad mental state, are mentally ill, like anxiety, depression, fear of abandonment, prone to spiraling etc.

it is laser precision written to trigger your anxieties and dysphoria and make you feel as bad and guilty as possible for being mentally ill/disabled, and that's not an understatement. it's as if it was handcrafted to harm every disabled/mentally ill transfem who reads it, it has already harmed multiple already. please do not harm yourself by reaading it trying to satisfy your curiosity.

[existennialmemes]

"Testosterone is the evil, poisonous hormone that just makes people violent and angry!!"

Meanwhile, Testosterone:

I'm begging everyone to understand that there is nothing inherently "bad" about any of our natural hormones. We need all of them, and different people require different ratios between them, but none of our hormones are actually "bad."

[ancomestrogen]

Black trans women are not just a statistic btw. They’re real people with real lives and families btw.

Black trans women aren’t monolithic; there are black trans women who are super badass and high femme but there are also black trans women who are butch, who are punk, who are a nerdy girl who hasn’t gone outside in weeks just like how white trans women are.

Ever wonder why trans memes only ever feature white girls? And rarely feature black girls? I certainly know a few black trans women who would love memes for them. It doesn’t need to be about the black experience to be for black trans women. You can have your little puppygirl memes with a black girl, they don’t need to be consigned to memes about natural hair or locs or racism or rap music.

Black people exist beyond the confines of anti-racist talking points. Black trans women exist beyond the confines of transfeminist talking points. If you don’t personally know any black trans women, analyze why that might be; are you making your presence a safe and comfortable place to rest for black trans women that you KNOW face tons of hardship? Or do you not care about actually giving them a safe harbor in your company and instead only care to use them as a cudgel in arguments.

Anyways sorry for my rant I wake up in the morning and think about trans people and sometimes I get worked up thinking about this stuff and so I yap into my little computer box about it before I go to work so I can get it out of my system

[skibidingus]

realllllllllllly hate the popular liberal thing of like. "how can anyone be transphobic when trans women are this GORGEOUS" like. idk i feel like i see this sentiment often in certain spaces and it gives me a bad vibe because it feels so focused on appearance and prettiness as The Reason Someone Deserves To Live. which is actually just straight up misogyny.

[storyweavingspider]

“In order for white people and other people in privileged social locations to truly be invested in liberation work, they must be willing to not only see themselves, but also see the people they harm. They must be willing to set aside their intentions and see their impact. They must? In some sense, be willing to die: to experience death of the ego.”

- Grieving While Black by Breeshia Wade

[maidslime]

Saw a post that said "if you call yourself a misandrist then I know you're weird about trans women who don't pass" and like. Those are women. Like if someone is a piece of shit to non passing trans women that's transphobia. Not some made up oppression for the men. Trans women are women. Stop trying to claim otherwise.

[maidslime]

By saying trans women who don't pass are affected by misandry you have become the one being "weird" about trans women who don't pass

[humblecabbagemerchant]

did we never stop to consider that the post was asserting that self-identifying misandrists would not see non-passing trans women as women?

also, regarding your second point: trans women who don't pass, well, don't pass and thus are unfortunately seen as men. Therefore, they would be affected by misandry.

[maidslime]

Damn, after 3k+ notes, you're the first person that's ever suggested this. How are you sooooo smart?!

It doesn't matter what you perceive non-passing trans women as, they're still women.

[genderwheel]

Yet I am a trans man who faces misogyny because of people who don't see me as a man! Funny how you can be affected by something if someone views you as belonging to that group, whether you actually do or not.

And yes, if you call yourself a misandrist you are not only unsafe for trans women, you're unsafe for ANY trans person. Yes this includes trans men. Yes this still applies if you're also trans.

Masculinity is not the enemy. Your trans brothers are not the enemy.

[sluglover666]

Hot take, but even if you ARE punching up (instead of punching sideways at a group that is in the same boat as you), there's a limit to what you can say without sounding like a violent facist but woke this time.

Making fun of a group of people that are privileged over you is one thing, but wishing non-cartoonish violence and death on them ("they should fall off a cliff" vs. "they should be wiped out"), wishing sexual violence on them, dehumanising them, claiming that they're less capable of creating art or living meaningful lives, saying that their relationships are inherently shallow and fake - these things are fucked up. I understand venting and saying extreme things when in pain, but when you find yourself regularly posting about wanting certain people tortured and killed, you need to examine that.

When the only thing stopping you from completely dehumanising someone is your own judgement regarding their privilege level relative to yours, you are not a safe person to be around.

[canonkiller]

I just think everyone should take a moment to consider the question "what is your visual shorthand for cruelty?" and then follow it up with a critical "and who taught you that?"

specific examples include but are not limited to

why is an evil timeline character design disabled? (why do the heroes go through equally punishing battles and never lose an arm, a leg, an eye?)

why are the futuristic scifi terrorists uniformly darker skinned? (why are the heroes so much lighter?)

why is the greedy boss fat? (why are the heroes skinny?)

why is the criminal mastermind heavily scarred? (why is the brooding, traumatized hero unscathed?)

why is the predatory creep a bearded person in a dress and makeup? (why are none of the heroes trans women?)

who taught you that this is how things are?

how long do you plan on repeating it?

[wet-paiint]

i actually don’t give a fuck that transvestigation laws “will end up impacting cis women too” it should be enough that they impact trans women. you should care about that on its own actually.

[genderoutlaws]

A group of trans women protesting outside Scottish parliament to condemn the UK Supreme Court’s bioessentialist ruling on sex, and the response of the Scottish government. All are wearing black pants, black tape across their mouths or a black KN95, and their right arms are painted red as "a mark of solidarity with anti-fascist feminists across Europe." | May 17th, 2025

“This ruling, and the subsequent EHRC guidance aims to segregate trans people from safe spaces that they have for used for decades without issue. We are demanding that the Scottish government stand up for its trans citizens by fighting this ruling and appealing to the European Court of Human Rights.”

One of the demonstrators, Sugar, described the protests as "a public act of grief, resistance and solidarity to highlight the hypocrisy of the ruling. If the Supreme Court can see these woman legally as men, then they’ll have zero issue with them going tops off.”

[kojiutfdryst]

One of the first victims of Epstein to speak out was a Latina transgender girl, Ava Cordero. She was sixteen when she was lured to Epstein’s apartment under the guise of helping her career in modeling. Ava Cordero was mocked, belittled, and denied by the media, her transness somehow overshadowing her status as a victim of assault. The media (Dareh Gregorian and Lucy Carne of the New York Post) specifically somehow spun it as Epstein being a victim of the case and treated her claims as an attempt to defame Epstein. Mind you, the journalists, Epstein’s lawyer (Gerald Lefcourt), and Epstein himself, were able to get away with this specifically because she was a transgender girl.

Trans woman was one of the first to publicly accuse Epstein – she was mocked for it

One of the first people to publicly accuse Jeffrey Epstein of abuse was a trans woman, Ava Cordero – she was mocked for it.

[tboy-trash]

like if a post said "it's bad gooseworkx//tadc's cast did this and that, which is worthy of criticism and it makes me enjoy the show less" then that'd be perfectly fine and good even but why is every "reasonable criticism" of works by trans women always "why is NOBODY talking about this 🫤🫤🫤 is it not OKAY to criticize a trans woman (something nobody ever does wait no don't search for "[semi notorious trans woman's name] critical")?? honestly it's kind of icky that people are monetarily supporting [thing well-known for being enjoyed by many trans women] 🙄"

[genderwheel]

I'm so tired of the "birthday boy" shit. Just call us whiny bitches at this point, since that's clearly what you want to say.

[translovedaily]

“You should have known everyone would hate you if you became a man” is victim blaming and transphobia.

“If you don’t like being treated like a traitor or a predator, you shouldn't have transitioned” is victim blaming and transphobia.

“If you can’t handle the bigotry that comes with being transgender, you must not be a real man” is victim blaming and transphobia.

"I've decided that I have it worse than you and that the pain you feel isn't real or important, so just suck it up and get over yourself" is victim blaming and transphobia.

Bigotry against trans men is just as real and just as wrong as bigotry against any other marginalized person. Being a man doesn't mean that you won't ever be hurt when people refuse to treat you with basic human decency. It doesn't mean that you'll never need help and support. It definitely doesn't mean that you deserve other people's hatred.

Trans men deserve to be respected and supported just like any other person does.

[fvckw4d]

Tma/tme is a categorization system of "either youre oppressed for being a trans woman or you're her oppressor" with no shades of gray at all and people looked at this and went "yeah this is a great way to categorize all genders and sexes of people. This is so based. No way on earth this could possibly go wrong."

[nightyknightowo]

Transandrophobes not understanding that trans men experience misogyny is so fucking annoying, especially because it ALSO reveals they come from first world countries where the treatment of trans people is generally better than third world countries. I can't be openly trans for fuck's sake, I am literally seen as a mentally deranged woman who needs correcting, OF COURSE I know what misogyny is like you dolts

[gillyeowalters]

A while ago I had a very exhausting conversation with someone under one of my posts that perfectly summed up, why the TMA/TME binary is harmful. The person self-identified as TME and they have deleted their comments, probably because they realised that leaving evidence of being a bigot is not a smart idea, so I will have to paraphrase.

It started with the comment "lets not pretend like cis men are discriminated against", in the assumption that I was a trans man. I know that they assumed this because when I told them that it was "brave" to post this under the post of a cis intersex man, they became very upset and asked why I, as a cis man, was posting about the experiences of trans men.

I proceeded to tell them that I am talking about these experiences, because I have had the same or very similar experiences due to being intersex.

At that point they decided to tell me, that I was not actually cis then, but trans, and that I just didn't understand my own identity.

I had told them multiple times at that point, that I originally had been AMAB, and only reassigned AFAB to enable my IGM. This user was pretty much saying: trans means transitioning away from your AGAB, you have trans man experiences, so you are a trans man, so the doctors were actually right to reassign you AFAB. They were at this point agreeing with my abusers just because my experiences did not match their expectation of what experiences a cis man can have.

And that is the danger of TME/TMA and why it will never have any validity in my eyes. You are assuming the amount and type of oppression a person experiences based on their AGAB. And if that doesn't match up in your eyes, you assume that a) they are lying or b) that they are to stupid to understand their own identity.

They also half way implied that I no longer identified as trans because I was transphobic and not because I learned about circumstances of my birth and lifelong medical treatment that had been maliciously hidden from me.

The person later gave in and apologized, but then immediately invalidated that, by replying to another intersex user who came to my defense that "we don't get to tell them that TMA/TME is intersexist". A perisex trans person telling two intersex people what they are allowed to call intersexist. That is the state this stupid binary has left the trans community on tumblr. In the end users of this binary believe to have the authority over others experiences and identity. And that is fucking despicable.