ha ha

vi, cringe lord 27/he/him gnc transguy/party city mentally (ch)ill . jojo mode activate.

[killy-deactivated20241228]

it is genuinely funny when tumblr users suggest combining types of fashion that they think are totally disparate and it’s something goths have been doing for decades

[killy-deactivated20241228]

This goes deeper than you’d think…a lot of the time when tumblr throws together an outfit out of like a Victorian blouse and a corset and strappy pants and boots. Or something. That’s just what goths might wear to the club, black really isn’t the only color on the goth palette…even that wizard outfit post with the robe and the thigh-high boots is something you could wear to a goth club without looking out of place

[cuntess-carmilla]

All those posts from a couple of years ago joking about “teehee goth cowboys uwu” like Fields of the Nephilim didn’t make that one of THE standard looks for masc goths since the mid 80s.

Pirates? We’ve done it. Combined with our ethnic dress? We’ve done it. Candy colors? Done it. Anything historical? Overdone at this point. 1920s? Also seen it. Hippie? Done. Rockabilly? Sick of it. Fantasy inspired? Extremely done. Futuristic? Extremely done too.

Circus? DOES THE 00s DARK CABARET AESTHETIC MEAN NOTHING TO YOU?

80s? THAT’S HOW IT STARTED.

[strawbebbynya]

I need some Uber money for an appointment tomorrow n bus money for my first day of work Wednesday. I got a bunch of payments taken out from taking rides and it left me in the red, so I only have 22$ left, some of which I have to use to get home from the post office in a bit. I'm disabled and can't walk without incredible pain, so anything helps

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[strawbebbynya]

All I need is some bus money n possibly lunch money for Wednesday ❤

[strawbebbynya]

Shit I forgot I had an appointment tomorrow that I can only reach by Uber. Anything helps

[bakwaaas]

You gotta understand that some people never really grow. They never learn their lesson. They never recognise their mistakes, they never acknowledge their faults, they never admit they were in the wrong. You will never receive an apology from them, and you will never see their behaviour change.

[lilybee]

if you’re in the notes saying “this is wrong and cruel because everyone is capable of growth” you’re not understanding the post.

yes, everyone is CAPABLE of growth and change. everyone has the RIGHT to growth and change. but no, not everyone will CHOOSE growth and change. some people are not interested in and cannot be made interested in self-improvement or self-reflection. some people will go their entire lives refusing to admit they might be wrong or examine their own behaviors. some people will never, ever accept responsibility for the effects they have on people and the world around them. humans are varied; some are just always gonna be like this.

it is VITAL to understand this if you’re the kind of person who tends to pour energy into helping others, especially if there are already people knowingly hurting you who consistently show absolutely no interest in changing that behavior. you can’t forcibly make them want to change who they are. you aren’t going to find a way to convince them to suddenly care that their behavior is hurting someone.

the motivation to change and grow comes from within. others may inspire us, but WE have to decide we want to be better and work towards that. until they decide that for themselves, nobody else can do it for them. and they might never. people are mortal. we are a finite series of choices. it is entirely possible to make mostly selfish ones.

everyone CAN grow, but not everyone will. not everyone wants to, and nobody can force the desire to grow as a person on someone else.

[firyfox]

Uncle Iroh is a really smart , wise man , and he’s always so helpful to Zuko , but he really did him dirty with that hair style on his date

Like this is one of the few things that Iroh did wrong adjsktv what the hecc Iroh

[theotheristhedoctor]

You mean that haircut so painfully, obviously awful that any self-respecting date would immidiately ruffle it, thus guarunteeing Zuko the first bit of friendly touch from someone other than his uncle for more than three years? Or the haircut so bad that it will imidiately trigger mocking jokes and help break the tension that Zuko is so prone to?

[washed-in-moonlight]

Iroh wins again.

[silver-tongues-blog]

pai sho is a game about planning and taking into account the opponents potential moves.

[gildedmaggot]

Hi everyone, I am BROKE. and rent is due, and all my savings were ripped out of my account by Hurricane Ida (I live in New Orleans, my power was out for 9 days and I lost all the food in my fridge as well as having to spend hundreds of dollars in emergency supplies). I havent even been able to pay any rent for October yet and I’m nervous.

I have a serving job but due to the hurricane my hiring process was pushed back 2 weeks, so I just started and have not been paid yet. My cat food order was a week late so I had to spend 30$ on more cat food. I haven’t been this financially unstable in several years and it’s extremely triggering to me, i wake up at night thinking I’m back on the street or still with my abusive ex. shit’s rough out here.

*end sad story*

Messaging here is a little spotty sometimes, PLEASE contact me on either instagram @gildedmaggot​ or through my email, [email protected], with the subject line “Commission”. If you just want to donate to me to help out a mixed autistic trans person, my venmo is @vi-gibbons

if you cant commission or donate at all please share as far as you can :,) tysm y’all

[gildedmaggot]

Hi everyone, I am BROKE. and rent is due, and all my savings were ripped out of my account by Hurricane Ida (I live in New Orleans, my power was out for 9 days and I lost all the food in my fridge as well as having to spend hundreds of dollars in emergency supplies). I havent even been able to pay any rent for October yet and I’m nervous.

I have a serving job but due to the hurricane my hiring process was pushed back 2 weeks, so I just started and have not been paid yet. My cat food order was a week late so I had to spend 30$ on more cat food. I haven’t been this financially unstable in several years and it’s extremely triggering to me, i wake up at night thinking I’m back on the street or still with my abusive ex. shit’s rough out here.

*end sad story*

Messaging here is a little spotty sometimes, PLEASE contact me on either instagram @gildedmaggot​ or through my email, [email protected], with the subject line “Commission”. If you just want to donate to me to help out a mixed autistic trans person, my venmo is @vi-gibbons

if you cant commission or donate at all please share as far as you can :,) tysm y’all

[utopians]

nothing like stepping outside while the seasons are changing and suddenly feeling a change in the weather that knocks you back in time by several years

[utopians]

sorry professor I'm going to have to miss class today bc when I walked outside in the morning it was cold and sunny in a very specific way and suddenly I was struck with a nostalgia for years past so vivid and potent that I had to sit down

[scifi-guy]

"x ship is normalizing incest-"

Buddy

If game of thrones hasn't normalized incest by now (pulling over 10 million views in the 7th season alone) then a small fandom ship most certainly won't

[lentilswitheverything]

Spn ran for fifteen fucking seasons, it ran for over a decade, and wincest was consistently one of the two or three most popular ships. And it had no measurable impact on real world abuse. Maybe you think fandom is uniquely dangerous (why, idk, but this tumblr after all) but a pretty good rule of fandom is that if Spn couldn't do it, fucking no one else is going to manage it.

[silentstep]

(link to tweet)

[c0rpseductor]

every time someone’s like “so MEN think they can be SEXIST? what if we EMASCULATED THEM? haha! not so Manly getting pegged or wearing a skirt or being a homosexual or whatever now are you?? girl power!” i want to hit them over the head with like. any book. using misogyny as a weapon against men does not solve misogyny use your fucking brainnnn

[c0rpseductor]

like oh so your snappy response to the idea of women being treated as lesser is to imply that being like a woman is humiliating? Did you secure the likes? Did you get the engagement?

[ewyy]

pls love yourself and stop pre-ordering aaa games

[mrphish21]

this is a joke but people in the notes are missing the point, so id like to try to explain something… I’m in the games industry, i know a lot of people who worked/work in triple a company positions.

preordering a game does *not* say “i trust this dev and they deserve my money to use to make the game that much better”

what it says is “hey boardroom, i will throw money at anything with this logo, even before i know what the game is like”

that boardroom sees that trend. they see theyve made their money back within 2 months of the game being announced… so the next time a lead comes to them and says “we would like to make this game, heres a budget and a timeline” the execs say “well last time we gave you 100 bucks and a full month, but your fans dont really /care/ what game you make, as long as it has our brand. so heres 75 bucks and 3 weeks. make it marketable”

this means more “pre-order exclusives” like cosmetics or different art, filler stuff that a side team can pump out in hours. every store, every platform will have their own version.

pre-orders do nothing but incentivise the shitty money-sponge practices we all hate in games. the point of a pre-order used to be to ensure you got your physical copy, but with most games being digital license anyway, that worry is unrealistic.

However when you wait for reviews, what you show that boardroom is “what we put out actually matters. if we make a shit game, we get shit sales. when we only give a team 2 weeks and a fiver we get shit reviews.”

so… love yourself, stop pre-ordering triple a games.

[ewyy]

It definitely wasn’t a joke and this is a very good addition to my post, thank you!! You explained really well what I didn’t feel like doing with my one sentence post 🙏

[knifemoomin]

Stoop kid may have to leave his stoop

Hi, I'm Gabe, I'm an autistic trans guy with agoraphobia who may have to leave his house pretty soon due to unforeseen circumstances that make my situation very uncomfortable. I have been trying to get a job but it's been a hard and frankly scary process with few results so far, but after recent events I don't think I can afford to stay here and having a bit of a cash cushion would help me through this process a lot.

My brother has let me use his PayPal for this, please don't leave a message if you choose to donate:

[knifemoomin]

7/31

Stoop kid has left the stoop

I thought I had a few more days but I had to leave this morning, luckily I have a place to stay but we don't have much in the way of food, there's no internet and no washing machine, what we have is canned food, broken windows and moldy walls.

Please share this post, any bit of help genuinely goes a long way

[knifemoomin]

8/3/2021

I've been here for less than a week and I already spent all the money I had on groceries, toiletries and gas for the kitchen since this place was empty. I've barely slept from the stress and issues keep appearing every day.

[knifemoomin]

8/10/2021

You knew it was coming, I knew it too, here is my wishlist so I can get this place looking less like a crack house

Echa un vistazo a mi lista en Amazon

[knifemoomin]

8/15/2021

Rains have started basically the moment I set up my stuff and I've been struggling to keep my bed and clothes as dry as possible, please share and consider donating any amount if you can

[knifemoomin]

8/25/2021

I bought some groceries and household items with some of the money sent! I'm really thankful for all the help I've gotten.

I still have a couple goals to meet and am still unemployed so please keep rebloging

[andthwip-deactivated20220219]

Aragorn + healthy masculinity (insp.)

[gxrlfxg]

canon/oc shipping unlocked the other 90% of my brain and while y'all were out there telling ppl it was bad i was learning telekinesis

[guerrillatech]

https://twitter.com/postcultrev/status/1428584131835748359

[deirdreskye]

Guys who wear leather dog masks in public are single-handedly responsible for saving the LGBT community from turning into an army of Petes Buttigieg

[strawbebbynya]

Ok fuck um. I'm in some seriously dire straights rn. I only have enough ones to get me to and from work a few times, but I can't avoid riding at least one non transfer bus each time. I only get paid every two weeks, the contract is only a 4 week thing, and I've got less than 20$ in my bank account n less than 40$ credit on my card. I'm also developing agoraphobia and can't deal well in crowds. I really need this job, but my shitty mother never wanted me to drive, so I don't have a car.

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Kofi in my description

Please help me, I'm legit desperate

[strawbebbynya]

So Google and I fucked up and I'm on the wrong bus far away from home. I need 80$ to get home. I only have 61$

[strawbebbynya]

Btw it's 2 hours by bus to get home. I was supposed to be halfway home by now

[strawbebbynya]

I'm omw home but money is still needed idk when I get paid to help pay this off

[strawbebbynya]

Lyft freaked out and sent the driver to the city with the name of my street instead of my street, which was in the exact opposite direction of where I started. My jaw is clenched so hard it almost hurts n I've been fighting the urge to cry. I haven't gotten any donations either

[autismsam]

in all seriousness. if u are a content creator and u want to make money. do not put your money in the hands of tumblr. like not just bc it will ruin the site but because i genuinely do not trust them to handle ur money. literally just open commissions or use patreon/ko-fi

[allthisfornothing]

this is a website that lets you click a tag you see on your dash all the time and takes you to a “there’s nothing here” error page