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mostly a loa/manifestation blog! <3 phaera // leo // infj

[cowboy-barbiana]

gulp... i'm noticing anti-loa shifters are rising in the community🧘 just saw "i need shifting advices but no loa and manifests pls bcs i don't think its real" aksnwksmd and it made me rise my eyebrows because in my head those things cannot be separated from each other

(anyways hi i just wanna yap)

hey pookie 😊😊

so yeah this has definitely been on the rise and lowk its a result of the MASSSSSSSSSIVVEEEEEEEEEE decline in the community. i mean if the queens dont keep it afloat i fear this place is going to the PITS. like we are LITERALLLLYYY LOSING the ancient texts

there is no shifting without loa. loa is literally just believing in yourself 💀shifters have lost the plot

[gildedmorrow]

came across this post and i would like to say— yes loa might be summed up into just believing in yourself, but it’s hard for some people to gaslight themselves into believing what they want is the current reality.

if you’re not familiar with manifesting like that, then telling yourself you’re holding 100 bucks in your hand when you can clearly see and feel that your hand is empty will just add to frustration and cognitive dissonance (as an example)

there’s also been a vast amount of shifters who didn’t believe they’d ever shift, weren’t feeling positive, didn’t even think shifting was real, etc, and still shifted. loa and shifting go hand in hand yes, but you don’t need to get into the mental-diet mode of loa just to be able to shift. you don’t have to get yourself to believe you’ve already shifted or that you’re a master shifter unless it makes you feel closer

tbh, even after being so involved in loa, the only times i’ve made comfortable progress with shifting were when i said ‘fuck it’ and even felt like i was waiting for it to happen eventually, and i just attempted for the sake of seeing what happens.

no hate to the person in the ask or original poster!! just wanted to comment this because i’ve noticed this discourse on shifttok, too.

[gildedmorrow]

don’t aim for perfection, there’s no such thing

so— i’ve been on a loa journey and shifting journey for a few years now. and i started this blog for fun, and because i thought that my ‘aha!’ moments might help other people, and that felt like a good idea.

but my earlier posts haven’t been transparent to the way manifesting looks like for me, and how it can look like for many people. i’m making this post because as we grow, we have different needs and mindsets, and i have moved on from a toxic positivity side of manifesting to a much gentler one.

so the first thing i’d like to make clear is this:

there is no such thing as the perfect routine, perfect mindset, perfect journey. when you look at other bloggers and see only their highs and successes, it’s easy to think that you’re not allowed to have moments of doubt or worry or fear.

you’re human. i’m human. every creator on this app, big or not, is human— and that means our states are allowed to change and fluctuate.

my past posts were genuine and truthful, but please do know that i only posted during moments where i was feeling in harmony with loa. i have had days or weeks where reality felt too overwhelming for me to influence, and even now as i write this, i feel a disconnect with how i used to manifest things before.

but that doesn’t mean that my reality isn’t mine to live through and change.

that doesn’t mean my self concept suddenly needs to be put under a microscope and a 100-step program.

i know that everything will align for me again, even if it doesn’t seem like that right now.

and in my opinion, that’s really all you need. build a trust with yourself, that you’re allowed to succeed without being a version of you that has to be at 100% every waking second.

i love you guys 🫂 give yourself grace.

[11-asher-11]

PLEASE DO NOT INTERACT WITH THIS GUY!!

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Hii guys, I usually don't type to get into fights or drama. But there is a big ass limit to some ppl in the shifting community and ofc i am talking abt a shiftoker.

This shiftoker is called "Aperion", i end up in one of his video some weeks ago and at first he looked fine.

I got a bit into his video and since the first i got it how he claimed to be the only "safe shifter" bcs he actually "helps", but what i saw is just big ego and childhood behaviors.

For first he claims to be here to save us from shiftok misinformation but he is still far behind from shiftblr, he probably doesn't even know it's existence.

He claims things like that the only way to shift is subconscious, and that we are limited by it basically? but at the same time claiming everyone has their way.

he says he knows and "studied" shifting, and that he knows the "rules" of it but then never actually explain those only way to shift? he just posted abt 1 method.

But this is just a really really small part of the danger he is.

Since the first post I read, I noticed how:

1. He repeats stuffs, like a robot (we will find out why)

2. He thinks so high of himself and never doubt himself.

3. He is incoerent in his speeches.

Now those aren't so big things, he is just another weird shifttoker who think he is the messiah of shifting but it gets so much worse.

I was actually curious about how did he study shifting since he claimed to do so? I thought "Maybe he is a scientist and actually looked it that way in shifting?" (even if I think we are still really far away from proving it scientifically) so I joined his discord group and I made a friend asking him how he claimed to study shifting.

I leave y'all to it:

I admit I was angry ^^', and I took it personally too but I was done with the guy (since he also criticized me for saying to a guy of the group, who recently wrote to me for advice abt ocd and shifting, that he risked psychosis).

He also blocked me as soon as I stared question him, our discussion lasted 4 messages, bcs he doesn't wanna even dare to question himself or his big ass ego.

But I am not the only one who he answered badly, in his account there is a whole video of him complaining of ppl who dared to disagree with him and he is extremely immature and rude (and insulting).

But not only this prove he just found HIS way and tried to claim is the only way but he also uses Ai.

Yeah all is posts are half made by Ai and this has been proved by putting them on an Ai checker by other shifters on tumblr (credit: @mostfantasticfreak )

Coming back to his discord, the whole rules abt the group are weird.

Most of it are abt not criticizing him, abt not questioning it and abt just follow it as a cult-like. He really seems like a cult leader at some point.

He is also really hypocritical because he claims to "put much effort into his video" the same videos made by AI. And probably all his sources are.

I thought at some point he might even be our known Peter Cawcall, coming back with more ego and more angry, after all they have similarities and it wouldn't be so strange he is more angry after being basically banned from the community and build up more ego as protection, not even daring to question himself. Also, they both dislike the multiverse theory and use big ass words and overcomplication for it.

He also claim it is scientifically proved but if it will we would know in a bigger way that just tiktok or silly tumblr blogs don't y'all think?? Also he always claimed "i explained in other video" but those explain just some random ass rules, with not proofs or sources from where he took them.

He also claim shifting to not be spiritual and to be dangerous to claim it is spiritual, while i agree spiritual can create psycosis and be bad for some ppl it doesn't mean ppl cannot believe it is, I also prefer thinking abt shifting for just what it is with not much "spirituality".

He claims it to be abt consciousness, that is science not spiritual and he is right abt it. BUT we do not move consciousness we become aware of another reality and so our consciousness is another one (because in all realities we are conscious) because it's another whole ass brain (consciousness is tied to it while awareness is more a spiritual thing) and a whole ass different reality.

Also, spirituality can be psychological and psychological so yeah he doesn't go deeper than what he is convinced.

What he doesn't get and piss me off a little is that as ours are theories also his are. He didn't proved anything at all, those studies are abt things out of shifting, philosophy is not science or proofs and the book he read are just personal experiences as much as the ones u read on tumblr.

While I agree that if u go deeper in his account u find some good things the way he does it is terrible and he does much more bad stuff than good. He could start to really be a danger to younger shifters, making them follow him in a similar cult-like way and potentially making it dangerous.

So pls guy, don't make him famous, don't give him credit, don't fight with him, and do not interact. Just let him disappear and hopefully get what he did wrong just like we did with Peter Cawcall (without bullying ofc).

I don't wanna spread hate or bullying, I don't want ppl to go after him because at this point I might even think he is either a troll account or a young person so pls do not interact with him at all or make him famous.

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Y'all have a nice day! 🫶🏻

[gildedmorrow]

yikessss

i rarely repost things that aren’t motivation and such, but this is an exception. seen this guy on tt and thought he was putting way too many new limiting beliefs out there. there’s no singular key to shifting in any reality, let alone one way to study it and do it right.

[gildedmorrow]

it’s okay, relax.

there’s so much conflicting information on this app— so many limiting beliefs, so many rules, so many people saying the rules don’t matter, so many people saying to regulate your nervous system or do shadow work or fix self concept, but the truth is, it’s okay.

none of this is concrete. the law and shifting are ENTIRELY personal. and i promise you, absolutely promise you, that you have an eternity to experience the things you love. you will be okay <3

deep breath, relax. what’s going to feel good for you? what makes you feel like you can trust yourself? is it a method, is it no method? is it speaking in future tense, in past tense? is it forgetting your desire after affirming once? it can be anything, anything at all, as long as it feels right to you.

no one can tell you what your body, mind, and heart are most comfortable with. that’s a question only you can answer. what others can tell you are the possible paths you can take— everyone is showing up on this app and speaking their truth. but here’s the thing: one truth does not overrule another. they’re all true. the only thing is… you have to choose what you resonate with. that’s it, that’s the law. and if you don’t like the options you see— make up something on your own! freestyle your mindset, it’s okay!! as long as it makes you feel content.

and while we’re on the topic of feelings, here’s another little thing to remember— it is impossible to feel one emotion forever, okay? some days, you will be sad, or happy, or in awe, or angry. you’re human, and it’s okay, it’s your nature. why demonize your own body? that’s something i don’t understand in this community. different emotions ≠ wavering. personally, i don’t think wavering makes a difference as long as you come back to what you want. but, i digress.

it’s okay. you’re doing everything right, just pay attention to yourself, your needs, your body, your health. all of it. do this for you, no one else. love yourself, hold yourself in gentleness and take it one step at a time— you have an eternity ahead of you ❤️

[visanni]

You are not a victim. You are God.

You can rewrite the bad things and create the good. You can create love, safety, happiness. And you can know that you are worth all those things, that you only deserve the very best. There isn’t even need for revenge on the people who wronged you when you can simply make it as if they never existed at all- though for certain things perhaps revenge is sweeter.

Realize your power and wield it. There is no greater love than which you allow yourself.

[patheticpoems]

there is nothing to fight against, nothing to convince of your reality or to manipulate into morphing. there is no tussle, there is no struggle.

[salemlunaa]

𓇼 DON’T WORRY, YOUR SUCCESS IS INEVITABLE 𓇼

There’s nothing you can do to stop the fact that you’re going to live your dream life.

˚˖𓍢ִִ໋🌊🦈˚˖𓍢ִ✧˚.

If you’re down in the dumps about still being where you don’t want to be, Remember it’s already done. Take yourself to the wish fulfilled and stay there.

My favourite analogy is The Train Between Two Cities. I saw this a while ago {whether it was pinterest or reddit, i have no clue} and it really opened my eyes. I’ll pick two cities like i did in a post a while ago. Let’s say you’re on a train to Milan from Paris. Once you get on that train you know being in Milan is inevitable, you’re basically already there. No matter what, you can read on the train, talk to other passengers, eat to your heart’s content, no matter what, you’re going to end up in Milan.

You are on the train. No matter what the 3d shows you, it’s inevitable, you will end up in your dream life. This analogy has really helped me to remain in the sabbath state aka the state of the wish fulfilled when it comes to any new desires I may have. They are no longer desires they are just mine, they’re yours.

This analogy can be applied to vacations too, once you get on the plane to Greece, you’re practically already in Greece. You don’t doubt for a second no matter what that the next time you step off the plane you’ll be in Greece, in fact, you’re not even thinking about the how, you just know that the pilot is taking you where you paid to be. You sit there without thinking, your just there, eating, talking to whoever, reading a book, staring at your new aeroplane crush, you don’t care about the how or why you’re just enjoying the ride because you know that trip in Greece is yours.

There’s already apart of your mind soaking up the mediterranean sun, with a colourful drub in your had. That’s why you’re so excited. There is a part of your consciousness already living the life you want, there is a part of you there. Take whatever method you’re using on a pedestal, whether it be inducing the void state, waking up with everything with SATS, or whatever, it’s shouldn’t matter to you so much because you know it’s yours already.

Once you take it off a pedestal it will be 100% easier for you. Especially pure consciousness, it’s just a measly meditation when you aren’t obsessing over it, and you’ll realise that. It’s not the ticket to your dream life when you’re already there. Why would you crave a ticket to a place you’re already at?

The train will stop at Milan NO MATTER WHAT. The plane will land in Greece NO MATTER WHAT. Your desired life is yours NO MATTER WHAT.

It’s inevitable, just place your awareness there.

YOU’RE LIVING THE DREAM ALREADY, RELAX

[thecosmicangel]

It's simple, stick to the basics forget about all terms or "rules"

-you are the god of your reality so you get to decide what thoughts to give power/attention ,which in turn becomes your reality. Imagine your thoughts are seeds and everytime you give it attention you are watering it so they can grow. So decide what seeds you want to plant and continue to water them.

- Emotions do not and will not manifest or interfere.

-repeat the new story to yourself, don't contradict it. Focus on the end. Maintain tunnel vision on the end.

-stop complaining about circumstances, 3d, you are giving it attention/awareness to continue to be a thing. Ignore what the 3d is showing you if it's unwanted, knowing it can be changed at any moment. If you are seeing nothing, trust that it's happening & persist.

-ignore & redirect your thoughts when opposing or intrusive thoughts appear.

-trust that its done. Remind your self that you have it already.

-accepting & deciding on something is simply repeating the story to yourself & thinking as if.

-you can literally not feel nothing at all, or feel anxious, not believe it, have intrusive thoughts but still continue to persist in your new story by repetition and redirecting your focus on your new story and it will manifest it has no choice but to do so.

-xoxo, the cosmic angel ⭐️🪽

[gildedmorrow]

if you’re fed up and manifesting feels like shit:

live in your head.

bbys, i promise, live in your head. think of your desired reality, your 4D, just let it absolutely fill up your brain. while you’re doing homework, think of you sitting in your desired reality feeling triumphant because all your desires manifested.

when you’re doing dishes, think of you in your desired reality sitting with your SP and grinning because finally, everything manifested.

you don’t have to do anything, just let your imagination be your validation. don’t think of it as a technique, don’t worry if you’re doing it right or wrong, don’t think of ANYTHING other than right now what it’s like in your 4D. that’s it.

i’ll never not preach robotic affs, so if you want to add an affirmation to repeat every time you imagine, by all means go for it. but for this, i just want you to STOP worrying about TECHNIQUES, and just ENJOY your desires. because it all manifested, you have it all, so let it fill up your mind.

[gildedmorrow]

Just persist.

that’s all you gotta do. just persist. just keep affirming. just keep spamming your thoughts with your desires. that’s all you have to do love, i promise. you don’t have to feel great, you don’t have to believe it, just pop on a song that you can vibe to and affirm affirm affirm.

if you’ve been affirming but your doubts and old story come back up, that’s your subconscious bringing up your old thinking because your new affirmations are unfamiliar— they’re quite literally coming up to be purged. so all you have to do is persist in the new story, whether you believe in what you’re saying or not.

[eliisiconic]

If yall are searching for blushydior's post of "how i manifested my dream life with extremely hard circumstances" well someone copied it in a Google Doc but i don't remember who was it but anyways here it is.

How i manifested my dream life with extremely hard circumstances + how you can too ♡ | Written by Blushydior/Bambi

[gildedmorrow]

is the 10 minute method good for A+P? (I'm doing around 10 - 20 minutes of affirming)

yes! any method is good as long as it helps you saturate your mind. do whatever feels most comfortable to you, just as long as you don’t give up with it. keep persisting no matter what the 3D shows you <3

[pinkpigtailsprincess]

Sucess Story!! 🎀⭐️

｡⋆୨୧: HEY BABES GUESS WHAT?! I HAVE A SUCESS STORY 4 U!! 🤭 SO I MANIFESTED MY PINTEREST ACCOUNT BACK AND FOR A LITTLE BACKSTORY!! … i think like a couple days ago my pinterest had gotten unfairly deactivated and i started tweaking tf out bc i literally have EVERYTHING on my pinterest so then i sent pinterest like 13 appeal emails just cussing them out and like i soon realized i wasn’t gonna get a reply but then i remembered that im literally a master manifester and i started repeating “im so glad my pinterest is reactivated” & “my pinterest is reactivated” for i think like 4 days im not sure and then today i was working on my post and i went to pinterest like muscle memory right and BITCH MY PINTEREST WAS BACK UO AND RUNNING LIKE UGH!!! IM SUCH A MASTER MANIFESTER ALSO I DIDNT GET A REPLY BACK FROM ANY OF APPEALS and MIND YOU i affirm sad,mad,hungry,tired,irritated,bored,drowsy,exhausted,with intrusive thoughts ALL THAT LIKE IF I CAN DO IT SO CAN YOU THIS IS LITERALLY YOUR SIGN KEEP REPEATING! KEEP AFFIRMING! MANIFESTING IS SO SO EASY

- xoxo, ai’ya!! 🎀

[gildedmorrow]

all 👏 you 👏 need 👏 is 👏 repetition! 👏

see? just affirm, repeat, persist. even if your emotions feel like the opposite, even if you doubt or waver, just keep persisting!

[shradsmanifestt]

Do this if you're fed up with manifesting and are ready for the last resort.

I want you to affirm

Affirm your fucking ass off.

I want you to affirm and persist no matter what.

Affirm and persist.

Yes, I am talking about robotic affirmations. Just affirm and affirm what you want no matter what. Because like I said you are fed up and you have tried everything so you just need it no matter what.

So just affirm your new story. Affirm 10k or 100k it doesn't matter. Do not check the 3d. Do not ask where it is because at this moment what you're affirming for is yours.

When you feel like doubting just imagine this statement: Just affirm and not question it.

And do exactly that affirm and not question it. Don't check the 3d for confirmation, don't check the time. Just affirm and affirm.

If you're really fed up with manifestation I am hoping that you won't feel like questioning this technique as well

I'll tell you now that this isn't a technique, you aren't affirming from lack. Just for once stop questioning and start doing.

Give me your results. Now don't come after me saying I've been affirming for this many days and it's still not there because then you're not doing what I'm asking you to do. Don't second guess, don't question and don't give up. Affirm, affirm, affirm.

Take this as a last resort if you are fed up and just want it somehow and you will get what you want. This is a promise.

[gildedmorrow]

what's wavering and how to stop it?

wavering is when you think against your manifestation. for example, let’s say i’m manifesting healthy hair and i affirm for 10 minutes ‘my hair is super healthy,’ but then the moment i stop affirming i look in the mirror and go ‘ugh my hair is so thin’

that’s wavering. it means i’m thinking an opposing thought and accepting it as the truth, but when you’re manifesting you decide that either you have your manifestation or you don’t.

you kill wavering by using repetition and flipping your opposing thought. the moment you think against your desires, just start robotically affirming that you already have what you want. the moment you have an opposing thought, you can tell yourself, ‘oh wait, that’s not true, because actually my hair is super healthy!’ (<- example.) you don’t have to believe it, just keep repeating and persisting until eventually it becomes a belief in your mind.

[gildedmorrow]

So I’m currently manifesting my dream nose and I’ve been robotically affirming everyday and acting as if I already have my desired (so I basically continue to repeat to myself that I already have my desired nose and be happy because of that). Last night I dreamed that I had my dream nose and today after I woke up from my nap I was like “I am the version of myself who has her dream nose”. Am I doing it correctly? Is it a sign my manifestation is coming? Sorry if there are mistakes English isn’t my first language

YES!! absolutely! first of all, no matter what: you’re always doing everything right. if you’re persisting, you’re doing it right.

dreaming about it means your subconscious is being saturated with your desire, which is perfect! all that’s left to do is continue to persist <3 and it might also help even more if you flip your thought from “my manifestation is coming” to “my manifestation is already here.”

i’m proud of you love, keep going!

[gildedmorrow]

istfg babes

daily reminder that there is no such thing as ‘affirming from lack.’

your brain learns from repitition. the more you repeat a thought, the more it solidifies within your subconscious and becomes an assumption. your emotions or doubts don’t matter as long as you’re at least affirming the new story.