girl ease my mind

athnie. 25. she/they. ✨polyamory ✨autism ✨wlw i relate deeply to lieutenant commander data homeyhearth is my cottagecore sideblog

[soracities]

no offence but your acidic cynicism, your edgy ‘brutal honesty’, your “god is dead” “people aint shit” “the world is a nasty nasty place so deal with it, sweetie” enlightened nihilism is not enlightenment. it’s cowardice.

[thegoodvybe]

“ooooohhh” i say as i still dont understand

[marisatomay]

someone: it’s okay! you tried your best!!

me, with no idea of what my best even looks like anymore:

[eobarrdq3rwe4tr-deactivated2020]

can we stop acting like nonbinary ppl aren’t trans. we’re fucking trans. we don’t identify as the gender we were assigned at birth (100% man or 100% woman) therefore we’re trans. stop calling us “noncis and nontrans” what the fuck even is that

[musashi]

People saying ‘trans and non-binary’ just reminds me of the same fuckers who used to put an asterisk after trans like… Shut thef fuck up

[borrowedfeathers]

And if you’re a nonbinary person who prefers not to call themself trans — nobody’s gonna force you otherwise, but remember you don’t speak for anyone but yourself.

[centtury]

[autistic--rory-blog]

dont infantalize autistics

some of us might like “childish” things

but if youre talking to an autistic adult then treat them like an adult

[sighapathy]

u cant trust people who step on flowers

[gollyamory]

[dunsparce]

The duality of man

[seleneeris]

[brofligate]

I can’t believe this guy mansplained mansplaining.

[veronica-rich]

Correctile dysfunction

[aphony-cree]

According to Merriam-Webster an ultracrepidarian “offers advice on matters they perhaps should leave alone” and that makes this even funnier to me

[honoriaw]

Premature articulation

[gollyamory]

[image text: the word you are looking for is "ultracrepidarian." ultracrepidarian: adjective; expressing opinions on matters outside the scope of one's knowledge or expertise. the verb "to mansplain" is a sexist epithet. end text.]

[autistic--rory-blog]

“i can do that” doesnt mean “I can always do that”

“i cant do that” doesnt always mean “I will never be able to do that”

[autistic--rory-blog]

autistic children

become

autistic teens

become

autistic adults

children are not the only people who can be autistic

[homobf]

why does michael cera always get the girl why cant i get the girl its my turn michael

[cozylittlebee]

every time a fat girl wears a shirt that shows her belly an angel gets their wings reblog if you agree

[katsolutely]

here’s a few reminders to my autistic friends:

you get to choose how you want to be addressed.

your opinion matters most when it comes to your experience in life.

sometimes, you have to say no. and that’s a-okay.

don’t let people who don’t know you push you around.

stand up for what you believe in. even if you think no one will listen.

it’s okay to not be okay. but it’s also okay to be okay. the absence of pain or anxiety doesn’t make you a bad person. just like having pain or anxiety doesn’t mean you deserve it. life ebbs and flows, and sometimes you just have to ride the tide until the tsunami is over.

you know what you need more than what others think you need. say that again.

take some time for yourself today. indulge in a treat. buy something related to your special interest. stim-dance. watch autistic people on YouTube.

you may be just one person, but you can make a difference. especially in how the world sees autism.

use those flappy hands of yours and change the world!

i believe in you.

love,

kat

[andrewbelami]

[journeymanfool]

[nightfae13]

Someone: that's a made up word

An intellectual: all words are made up

Me, an aspiring linguist: all words are made up and so let's talk for the next 40 minutes about the process that made this new word and also just how cool it is that we can and do make up words as needed, please.