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Moth. Letters from a hurt lover.

[goodnaturedfella]

In past relationships, I wanted to rush. I wanted to feel validated. I wanted to finally feel the love that everyone was talking about.

But now, I get it. I get the patience. I get the taking the time to truly get to know someone. I think it’s worth getting to know someone on a personal level, as a friend, as a companion, as someone who just genuinely cares and longs for connection.

I don’t like being alone, but I need to be. I want to be. I want to focus on my needs, stick to my intentions and find myself in a new light.

I’m a deep thinker, always have been. But my mind has opened in brand new ways from each new experience and I’m thankful for every minute of it.

[goodnaturedfella]

1 year on T, vs 5 years on T, vs almost 9 years on T. You could say that a lot has changed.

[goodnaturedfella]

What is the most loving thing a person can do for you?

Empathize

[goodnaturedfella]

This generation isn’t broken, it’s just backwards.

Loving too hard isn’t a weakness.

Caring too much isn’t a flaw.

Missing parts of people or things that no longer exist is valid.

Committing and wanting to be your best for someone or those around you isn’t being a simp.

Recognizing yourself and being confident enough to know that you’re great and that you deserve respect and people who love and care about you is not being a narcissist.

[honeypleasejustkillme]

i’m undiagnosing myself, im happy

[dikotur]

[oneheadtoanother]

new booty shorts meme idea

[kitdadington-deactivated2015060]

Stars on the street

[cute-evil-cookie]

Fusili on the grass

[depsidase]

[escuerzoresucitado]

[goodnaturedfella]

I’d rather eat a whole bag of stale black licorice than fall in and out of love again

[goodnaturedfella]

Nothing is more attractive to me than a woman who gets shit done. Like yes queen, build that dresser, fix that car.

Throw a wrench at me, idc.

[goodnaturedfella]

Tip 22%

Hold the door

Express gratitude

Appreciate others

Smile when you make eye contact with strangers

Hug your friends before you leave

Call your mom

Save the voicemails that matter

Tell your people that you love them

[goodnaturedfella]

Something I like about being enby is that even though I don’t particularly fit into any gender category:

I‘ve got that feminine sensitivity and softness but also that masc physical appearance and energy.

So not only will I listen to you and care about your feelings, but I’ll ward off what is unwanted and offer a you sense of safety while around me.

Men really don’t realize how lucky they are. But I try to use that “power” for good.

[goodnaturedfella]

I had to come to terms with the fact that you didn’t love me. Because if you did, you wouldn’t have left me like that.

[goodnaturedfella]

It’s gotta be the hardest thing to feel uncomfortable and sad in your own home.

[goodnaturedfella]

I say this, and will repeat it until I am blue in the face.

Do not

Do NOT willingly date someone who is mentally ill if you aren’t capable of being with someone who is unstable. They might latch onto you and things may seem okay for a while, but they are ✨still✨ that way- it may not seem at first. The ”all good and dandy” doesn’t last. There will be hard times, hell, there will be incredibly difficult times. But don’t sign up for it if you don’t want every part of them. All or nothing.