Good Sex Problems

[cottoncandyheartxo]

"Part of your world" - Adult store edition.

[goodsexproblems-blog]

So excited to see Vixskin AND the Vibratex Mystic Wand on this giveaway. Two things off my wishlist. Fingers crossed!

[goodsexproblems-blog]

Guy on FetLife: *on the subject of what gave him the impression I would be interested in having sex with him* "Absolutely nothing... i just assume anything and everything that i want to"

Guys like this piss me off more than anything.

[goodsexproblems-blog]

Stupid tumblr is making me want to find a Dominant partner so badly today. Isn't there someone out there who wants me to serve and fulfill their every need and desire?

[prostheticknowledge]

Dildo Generator

Online 3D experiment by Ikaros Kappler which is described as a “Extrusion/Revolution Generator” ….

Created with three.js, you can alter the bezier curves and angle of the form, and is designed with 3D printing in mind (models can be exported and saved, as well as calculated weight in silicone).

Try it out for yourself (if you wish) here

[johnnystompanado-deactivated201]

the time is now

[susaine-mcswiney-deactivated201]

hell yeah

[defibrinationsyndrome]

ah yes, the ol rolling pin dilda

[spiffymuffin]

[caterjunes]

it’s called the purple ramjet

[jolys]

which end do you start with? the answer is yours to decide

[grillmasterxbbq]

shove a vase up your ass

[lord-kitschener]

not even jesus could save yall motherfuckers’ souls

[fan-troll]

i call it the matterhorn

[poultrymancy]

cackling just continues to get louder as I scroll through

[darklightescape]

i think this is the first time an internet community has discovered something customizable and adamantly refused to make penises

[goodsexproblems-blog]

Sitting on the couch eating popcorn while my boyfriend absent-mindedly jerks off while we watch Top Gear. My relationship is weird, yet really awesome.

[goodsexproblems-blog]

Nothing makes me happier than providing dinner (whether it be cooking or just picking up take out) for my partner while they just relax and enjoy their evening. Even better if I can follow it up with a back rub.

[goodsexproblems-blog]

It frustrates me that some sex toys that are claimed to be absolute staples of any sex toy collection are only ever offered at "luxury" (like basically anything over $50 for a minimum wage-working college student like me) prices, and I just have to go without.

One day, when I'm making more money for myself, you better believe I'm going to have all of these staples and more, no matter what the cost. Especially sex positioning pillows and stain-proof blankets.

[goodsexproblems-blog]

I never feel like I have enough sex toys, no matter how many I've bought nor how recently my last purchase was.

[goodsexproblems-blog]

It's hard when you're wanting to doodle in a public place, but all you can think of to draw is way too sexual to risk anyone else seeing.

[goodsexproblems-blog]

Being left speechless for a full 2-5 minutes after a really intense orgasm. <3

[betterthanabortion]

"My body, my choice" only makes sense when someone else’s life isn’t at stake.

[fandomsandfeminism]

Fun fact: If my younger sister was in a car accident and desperately needed a blood transfusion to live, and I was the only person on Earth who could donate blood to save her, and even though donating blood is a relatively easy, safe, and quick procedure no one can force me to give blood. Yes, even to save the life of a fully grown person, it would be ILLEGAL to FORCE me to donate blood if I didn’t want to.

See, we have this concept called “bodily autonomy.” It’s this….cultural notion that a person’s control over their own body is above all important and must not be infringed upon. 

Like, we can’t even take LIFE SAVING organs from CORPSES unless the person whose corpse it is gave consent before their death. Even corpses get bodily autonomy. 

To tell people that they MUST sacrifice their bodily autonomy for 9 months against their will in an incredibly expensive, invasive, difficult process to save what YOU view as another human life (a debatable claim in the early stages of pregnancy when the VAST majority of abortions are performed) is desperately unethical. You can’t even ask people to sacrifice bodily autonomy to give up organs they aren’t using anymore after they have died. 

You’re asking people who can become pregnant to accept less bodily autonomy than we grant to dead bodies. 

[albinwonderland]

reblogging for commentary 

[generalmaluga]

But, assuming the mother wasn’t raped, the choice to HAVE a baby and risk sacrificing their “bodily autonomy” is a choice that the mother made. YOu don’t have to have sex with someone. Cases of rape aside, it isn’t ethical to say abortion is justified. The unborn baby has rights, too. 

[fandomsandfeminism]

First point: Bodily autonomy can be preserved, even if another life is dependent on it. See again the example about the blood donation. 

And here’s another point: When you say that “rape is the exception” you betray something FUNDAMENTALLY BROKEN about your own argument.

Because a fetus produced from sexual assault is biologically NO DIFFERENT than a fetus produced from consensual sex. No difference at all.

If one is alive, so is the other. If one is a person, so is the other. If one has a soul, then so does the other. If one is a little blessing that happened for a reason and must be protected, then so is the other. 

When you say that “Rape is the exception” what you betray is this: It isn’t about a life. This isn’t about the little soul sitting inside some person’s womb, because if it was you wouldn’t care about HOW it got there, only that it is a little life that needs protecting.

When you say “rape is the exception” what you say is this: You are treating pregnancy as a punishment. You are PUNISHING people who have had CONSENSUAL SEX but don’t want to go through a pregnancy. People who DARED to have consensual sex without the goal of procreation in mind, and this is their “consequence.” 

And that is gross. 

[thekaraokeninja]

^ THIS. This is this this THIS THIS THIS. THIS!!!!!

[updatepls-deactivated20180722]

This is probably the strongest and well worded/supported argument for abortion that I have ever read.

[goodsexproblems-blog]

After an incredibly amazing first date with a guy on Thursday, I've spent basically every moment since just pining over him. Now he tells me that he doesn't want anything serious. Which isn't a problem at all, but just makes me wonder why this keeps happening to me. Cause the last guy I dated said the same thing really, where even though we had this amazing and intense connection, he didn't want anything serious.

Why is it that the people that show the most promise for me end up not even wanting to give it a try?

[goodsexproblems-blog]

My Current Situation

Current number of romantic/serious partners: 1 

Current number of sexual/FWB situations: 2

Current number of D/s relationships: 0

Feel free to ask for any more information that you think I should add to this.

[goodsexproblems-blog]

Basically What This Is...

So, I have a lot of really unusual sexual experiences (in my opinion), and am really interested in sex and body positivity, so I thought it might be interesting to blog about some of these experiences.

I'm a bisexual, polyamorous, submissive sex geek and college student just trying to navigate my way through this crazy thing I call my life, making sure to take the time to laugh at myself for the situations I end up in along the way.

Obviously I'm not expecting to get a lot of attention right away, but if anyone does happen to see this and want to ask me any questions about anything, like what it's like to be poly or submissive or anything like that, feel free. I'm gonna try and get some content up here soon, and really hope this ends up being as fun as I think it could be.