Gothicafish

In my gothy Vampire Phase (lifetime) she/her/they 22 femm lesbain 💙

[gothicafish]

FUCK ICE and FUCK the GOVERNMENT

[hollowistheworld]

I really can and will blame the 9-5 for everything. "We're in a loneliness epidemic" well, we have to spend a third of our day interacting with people in a professional way that makes forming real friendships difficult and then we're peopled out by the time we're done. "People are eating more and more unhealthily" people have to spend more than a third of their day doing work related tasks and they don't want to spend their tiny amount of free time making food. "People aren't involved in their local communities" after spending more than a third of their day doing work related things people are tired and also all those community events take place during normal working hours. "People need to get more hobbies" after spending more than a third of their day working, people are TIRED and don't want to do anything that takes yet more energy. "Literacy is dying" to maintain your critical thinking skills you need to read/watch things that make you think and after spending more than a third of your day doing work related stuff you are TIRED and don't want to expend even more brainnpower. "People need to get outside more" People. Are. TIRED. Because they have to spend all of their time working or preparing for work or recovering from work or doing all the chores they couldn't stay on top of because of work. I can blame fucking anything on having to work, it is truly the root of all fucking evil.

[slightly-gay-pogohammer]

hey gang i got popsicles pick one as pass the box to someone else

mint

lemon

orange

strawberry

cola

pineapple

dark cherry

anise

Voting ended onJul 14

"i cant believe you dont have this or that flavor" listen they had these ones okay

[tartrazeen]

I don't really know what anise is, so I'd try it 👀

[willgrahamscock]

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[gothicafish]

I wish something deeply gay would happen to me

[nudityandnerdery]

[christinaroseandrews]

This guy knows what he’s talking about. He’s one of the lead writers for Leverage and if you ever watch the series on DVD, do yourself a favor and listen to him talk about how the scripts got written. Some of the advice he has is stuff I use all the time: 1. Don’t introduce an important plot person or thing after the first half of the story. 2. Always tie up loose ends. 3. Introduce important things in the middle of unimportant things. 4. If you have to infodump, find an emotion to tie it to and it will seem less like infodump and more like a motive rant. Seriously this guy knows how to write.

[dragon-hoard]

if you are going to need some kind of sedative for 4th of july fireworks for your pets NOW IS THE TIME TO SCHEDULE THOSE APPOINTMENTS TO ASK FOR THEM

NOT WHEN ITS 2 DAYS AWAY

[alex51324]

I feel like to really get this circulating as it should, we need it superimposed over the picture of the turkey going in the fridge. (I can't do it I'm on my phone.)

[amaditalks]

[figtreeandvine]

With the 250th anniversary it's likely to be especially bad this year!

[maeril]

Hi everyone! This is an illustrated guide I made as part of my co-admining work at The Middle Eastern Feminist on Facebook! It will be published there shortly.  The technique that is displayed here is a genuine one used in psychology - I forgot the name and couldn’t find it again so if you know about it, feel free to tell me! Some could say: “Yes but you can use that technique for instances of harassment other than Islamophobic attacks!”, and my reply is: Sure! Please do so, it also works for other “types” of harassment of a lone person in a public space!! However I’m focusing on protecting Muslims here, as they have been very specific targets lately, and as a French Middle Eastern woman, I wanted to try and do something to raise awareness on how to help when such things happen before our eyes - that way one cannot say they “didn’t know what to do”!  I’d like to insist on two things: 1) Do not, in any way, interact with the attacker. You must absolutely ignore them and focus entirely on the person being attacked! 2) Please make sure to always respect the wishes of the person you’re helping: whether they want you to leave quickly afterwards, or not! If you’re in a hurry escort them to a place where someone else can take over - call one of their friends, or one of yours, of if they want to, the police. It all depends on how they feel! For my fellow French-speakers: I will translate it in French and post it on my page as soon as I can :) Please don’t hesitate to share this guide as it could push a lot of people to overcome bystander syndrome!! Lots of love and stay safe! PS: I you repost this cartoon of mine on twitter or instagram, please add me in the post so I can see it, with @itsmaeril :)

[cognitiveinequality]

An important reminder today, and every day.

[cucheallaigh]

This is based off of the Non-Complementary technique in psychology - also known as ‘flipping the script’.

It is a legitimate tactic for defusing a situation that could otherwise escalate to become quite nasty.

Kindness as self-defence – the power of ‘non-complementary behaviour’ | Aeon Videos

People instinctively reciprocate anger with anger and kindness with kindness, but what happens when someone breaks this ‘complementary be

[rylandgraces]

[the most low energy you have ever seen me] we’re about to go crazy mode

[dogpuppy]

[agaricspores]

[2ear-tr9p]

Dean Winchester was Castiels forbidden fruit

[orteil42]

given the current climate this pride especially i feel i must mention that i love my trans friends, i stand with trans people in the fight against transphobic legislation and those who would enforce it, and this blog is not a good place for you to be if you do not vibe with that

[anxeious]

june will be soft and sweet

[anxeious]

AND GAY!!!!!!!!!!

[gothicafish]

Ok so im moving soon and my journal is pack (rip) so this is my journal now. Anyways I have to be awake in an hour to get ready to go to the airport. So send my your gay prayers.

[gothicafish]

Is it possible to have a parasocial relationship with one of your own OC's ??? Right now he is real only to me and I am the only one that can write him out of fiction.

[gothicafish]

Omg I just saw what jensen (and misha) said and I think people are less shocked about the take but more so that it was said at all considering the show was carried for years largely by queer following and then to compare (shamelessly) the possibility of a gay relationship to an incestuous one is really fucking crazy.

And i think its also intresting how its almost becoming 'in' again to alienate gay people and to passively reject the idea of being gay so openly among many people with a platform. And this is not just jensen ive seen a lot of celebrities passive aggressive language against LGBT+ communities and ideas and it just boggles my mind that we are allowing these people to be "entitled to their own opinions" while across the US many queer and Trans folks are loosing rights to Healthcare and the freedom to live their lives.

[gothicafish]

Also I am just now realizing how blatantly wrong jensens statement was ? Like cas' "coming out" was not about saying he was gay (Im pretty sure cas says they dont have gender/sexuality like that) if cas' confession was meant to be familial and his one true happiness was living his truth he would have come out to Jack? The person he has most familial connection to ? And would have had the same result with the empty being summond. But it wasnt it was about Dean making cas happy. Allowing cas to understand friendship and romantic connection by being fundamentally changed by human connection with dean specifically. Also you may have noticed that the empty wasnt summoned until cas said I love you.

Also omg dude (in jensens pov) your best friend is coming ojt to you in the most emotional, heart wrenching, poetic, way by also reassuring you that everything you have ever been through and all your flaws have shapped you into the person they love, respect and have learned so much from enough to feel comfortable to share something like this with you in such a way, and you have their confirmation that when this confession is over they are going to die and after everything theyve done for you and are doing for you now, after being your best friend for 12 years you say no last words to them. Not last comforts in their final seconds. They died never knowing you accepted or loved them because you never said it once. And yet they died happy because they got to save their "best friend" one last time. And even then you still didnt try to save them.

[gothicafish]

Ultimately what this boils down to is dean Winchester is fictional theyre all fictional and yet they still couldn't be happy.