We all lead such elaborate lives....

Working on becoming a person of value in my endeavors. He/Him.

[flagellant]

Not gay as in "happy" but queer as in "fuck you, the people I love will eat well". Not gay as in "happy" but queer as in "so long as I can cook for others it'll all end up okay". But queer as in "are you hungry?". Queer as in "Did you eat today?". Queer as in "Here's one of my favorite recipes I've made", queer as in "I cook too big for just myself", queer as in "Come on upstairs with a bowl", queer as in "Are you allergic to anything?", queer as in "It's okay, it's gonna be okay, here, eat this chocolate", queer as in "I love you, I hope we both eat well", queer as in "I love you and therefore I must hate what wants you to starve", queer as in "the metronome of sharing orange slices", queer as in "take this, all of you, and eat of it", queer as in food and love and rage at everything and everyone which would see us miserable and unable to have enough to share with others. Not gay as in "happy", but queer as in "I can't let others go hungry".

[thesapphicunited]

You’re laughing. There are no cheeses for the meeces and you’re laughing.

[haveyouseenthisseries-poll]

Have you seen Out of the Box (1998-2000)?

Yes

Partially

No, but I've heard of it

Never heard of it

Voting ended onDec 26, 2025

[inthetags]

Reblog and put in the tags a movie you plan on rewatching very soon

[20thcenturywomen2016]

I was born in the right generation I love making 1-6 note posts and being annoying on tumblr

[batsandboba]

I haven’t been on tumblr for quite as long as a lot of people but over several years I’ve noticed this interesting gradual sorta,, shift in the general culture? that it went from this mostly depressed, nihilistic outlook where people would regularly joke about hating themselves and being hopeless and depressed, to a wave of vehemence of “STOP hating everything actually the world is Good and you deserve love!!!” type posts, to now, where those aggressive ‘PSAs’ have faded away and instead I regularly see people romanticizing simple things like stars and hot tea and rainy mornings, and waxing poetic about their friends, and just trying to put love out there. and I don’t know exactly what that means (someone who knows more than me could probably say something smart about generational expression and trauma or popular perception of mental health and whatnot), but I do know that it makes my heart very full to see people learn to love the world and themselves by extension, and a whole userbase adopting healthier coping mechanisms, and therefore teaching the younger users to do so as well. I might just be following different people, but I really do think we’ve grown. everyone has grown. five years ago it wasn’t unusual for the next post on my dash to be a scathing commentary on why nothing matters or an anon ripping into someone they barely knew or someone complaining about how pathetic their interests are. now I have mutuals who get excited and spam reblog art of cows and friends I see tagging each other in pictures of frogs and strangers writing paragraphs about how much I matter. it makes me happy. idk. just an observation I wanted to make. I think people are good and everyone’s just trying their best at the end of the day

[batsandboba]

I take it all back everyone on this site is toxic

[rozieramati]

[katsdom]

There is a great deal of truth there. Sometimes special moments happen purely by accident. But most of them happen because you make a plan and create the conditions to let them happen.

[soapydoll]

Did I ever talk abt the time i was at a bdsm club and one of the pups was on all fours and barking and being cute and the dom on scene was like “hi puppy! Do you do any tricks?” And he said “I can beatbox!”

[soapydoll]

I was like. Doubled over incapacitated laughing the entire time. He was really good and a big sweetheart and I felt kinda bad but I couldn’t stop thinking “why the am I getting the beatboxing puppy unskippable cutscene at the bdsm club”

[chocolateswitchyt]

you know what, f**k it *posts the beatboxing puppy clip and dips*

[stargirldotcom]

be careful going for walks this september. the air might smell like recess in second grade and you might get sick to your stomach with melancholia

[arcticdragon]

compilation of some of my favorite vines.. rip in peace. (:

[myfootyrthroat]

Sometimes someone will talk about an acquaintance who is an "undiagnosed narcissist with obvious borderline personality disorder traits" and I'm like... We used to just say "a bitch", and I know all the reasons why that was bad, but I'm not sure this is better.

[puc-puggy]

I hate the discourse surrounding the “male loneliness epidemic” because men’s loneliness is real. statistically, men DO NOT have deep or emotionally fulfilling relationships. BECAUSE OF PATRIARCHY. because patriarchal manhood is emotionally abusive. it’s literally astounding that we’ve ceded this territory to fascists when we need it. we need to be able to say yes. you are lonely. because of your values. because of the emotional expectations of your gender. you can have different values and stop being lonely. you can give up patriarchy and stop feeling so awfully alone.

online right now, it’s really difficult to say this without getting harassed. but I want you to remember this for real life when you’re talking to real people. any man talking about male loneliness is an opportunity for feminist revision. say yes, say you are lonely. and then say that’s how boys are taught to interact with each other and you will stay lonely until boys are allowed and expected to have feelings and be emotional and emotionally present with those they love

[inkyself]

“people on twitter are saying-“ i dont care. I dont care I dont care. that’s why i am on tumblr and not in that joyless blackhole

[sacred-portal]

[ruinedchildhood]

[jadedjoshe]

[seongpinkhwa]

september…….honey……..angel……….please be kind

[damndarrenineedacigarettenow]