To talk about queerness historically, we probably need to start by reexamining present attitudes to bisexuality.
"I've found a friendship between two 19th century men that is incredibly intimate."
The crowd applauds.
"They refer to their letters as 'love letters' and allude to physical encounters with each other. One tells the other that 'my greatest wish is to be with you and embrace you again.'"
The crowd cheers!
"They talk about a promise to live together in Vienna or to run away to Chile or California to be together!"
The crowd cheers again!
Encouraged, I add, "They both eventually marry women."
A hush falls over the room. Then, awkwardly, a voice in the back says "they're not gay then?"
I add, sheepishly, "one of them fathered a son with his wife, who his friend talks about like a stepson."
I'm immediately pelted with tomatoes.











