not the fun kind

harley - radfem - asian - 20

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

For the past few months, my mental health is at my lowest. I've been diagnosed with ADHD but I still feel like I have more than that. I can't tell if I have bpd, bipolar, or pure ocd, since they tend to overlap so it's hard to know what I have. I just know I've been severely depressed and sometimes suicidal, like I've been like this since I was a child but this year it gotten worse. I know my mood and personality is not normal. I'm literally struggling with my own head and life. I feel like no matter what I do things will never get better.

[something-unit]

When people say "porn is necessary to prevent men from raping women in real life," they are implying that:

1. Women in porn act as a lightning rod for deviant sexuality; they take the hit so that women in the real world don't have to.

2. Masturbating to violence is an acceptable practice, as it helps a man refrain from raping women in reality.

3. Women in porn are not the women whom men rape in real life.

4. Pornography, as a phenomenon, is a tool for the mass management of male sexuality.

The most interesting part is the underlying assumption: that masturbation is a way to "process" rage and serves just as an "eco-friendly outlet" for the desire to rape someone.

There is no way that masturbating to pornography reinforces healthy sexuality or one's relationship with their own body. To me, 'healthy sexuality' is defined by both partners being recognized as subjects of action, rather than one (woman) being reduced to a mere object for the other to let off steam against.

[never-tell-me-what-to-do]

"When you're having an argument with a boy about feminism and realize nothing you say will ever get through to them bc they don't feel empathy for something they've never experienced"

reason #10000 why separatism should be a fundamental part of radical feminism

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

I probably have people unfollowing me cuz I've been inactive 😭

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

I'm kinda back

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

Some radfems on twitter (or even here) are so humiliating cuz why are you using misogynistic language to criticize women. Our community is already getting a bad rep as it is, but doing things like this is not something we should be doing to other women even if we disagree with them. We should be better than that!

[garrdenyia]

“In analyzing the sex-class system, feminists are accused of inventing or perpetuating it. Calling attention to it, we are told, insults women by suggesting that they are victims, stupid enough to allow themselves to be victimized. Feminists are accused of being the agents of degradation by postulation that such degradation exists.”

Andrea Dworkin, Right Wing Women

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

I love and miss you all. I wished I was so motivated to post radfem related stuff again :')

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

Every man who has lied to me that they could get with me should get hit by a bus. Please and thank you

[evvergreen]

"sex tourism" is such bullshit. you're not a "sex tourist", you're traveling to other countries so you can rape impoverished, often trafficked, women and children and you should be hanged

[evvergreen]

correct word is "international rapist" and "would be dead if we lived in a just society"

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

lowkey wanna quit my job

[mercilesslabrys]

the feminist urge to burn everything that has that one playboy symbol.

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

I really don't have empathy for Charlie Kirk and his loved ones like idgaf... he's a raging misogynist 🤷‍♀️

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

I've been so open in my feminist class that I'm into radical feminism

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

please don't unfollow me y'all. I've just been busy with work </3

[radlean]

ironic how radical feminism is deemed "white feminism" but liberal feminism is the whitest your feminism can get before it goes into white supremacist territory. only caring about western issues, only advocating for western women... radical feminism aims to liberate women from every nook and cranny of the globe, and mainstream "intersectional" feminism would rather ally itself with men than with women from the global south. sad!

[tearsofmen2]