All men need is an excuse to express their rape fantasies towards women. A moral excuse is the best excuse of course. That way they can be the enlightened hero who fucks and puts the wicked whore in her place, and with that, defeating the evil force she represents altogether.
Here, men are joking and talking about wanting to punish a female FIDESZ politician by raping her anally. Being true warriors of justice.
These lyrics are from a song by a popular FIDESZ critical male artist. It says he's going to fuck a female far right politician's throat.
The song and especially this part became very popular within liberal, leftist, and anti-fidesz circles. I've seen him described as a 'lyrical genius'. Real original and eloquent lyrics. Men's wish to violate (problematic) women is seen as proof of their moral righteousness, as deserving of praise.
This is one of the most famous social critic, political commentator, public figure of Hungary, a real intellectual guy alright, celebrating the TISZA victory against FIDESZ by a post that perfectly demonstrates how sex is viewed by men as a weapon of conquest and domination against women, something you do to a woman to debase her, to take her dignity away completely: TISZA (man) fucks FIDESZ (woman).
Note how it's anal, and note the #porn. Porn has elevated male violence to a new level of socially acceptable. Anal was popularized by porn because it's painful.
Two people I know liked the post, I scratched them out. One is an adult liberal woman. The other is a leftist boy my age, who would surely describe himself as system-critical.
I'm not at all suprised by these male sentiments and the wide support they receive. But it is a sad reminder: it doesn't matter that it's supposed to be a time of unity between Hungarians, a celebration of how the people defeated a corrupt, immoral regime. Men never were and never will be allies of women.
They don't see these posts as being hateful or divisive against half of the people who helped make the change happen (this is important because spreading hatred and dividing the nation is a big criticism towards FIDESZ). How could that even be possible, if to them women were never really part of the group, the allience, the nation, humanity in the first place?
And anyway, they're saying this towards women we don't like, evil women, bad women. Wishing violence on women who are on the 'bad guys' side is always morally justifiable.
What is important for all women to understand, is that you are just as likely to be a subject of this hate, even if you're on the 'good guys' side. Make no mistake, they're expressing their general bloodthirst towards women. Men are foaming at the mouth for any excuse to voice their wish to hurt and dominate women.
Being a woman is excuse enough. Being a bad woman is an even better excuse, and in their eyes, you too can easily become the bad woman for whatever reason. Unfortunately, no one defends women, especially not if they're already seen as deserving of punishment.
We need female solidarity. All women deserve human dignity, yes, even those you hate or dislike, even those who are genuinely evil. Because this rethoric dehumanizes us all, it perpetuates sexual violence against each and every woman and girl, only further strengthening male power.
