୧ ‧₊˚ 🩸🦴 ⋅ Before continuing/BYI : if you share my F/o's respectfully, dni; if you're an anti, non-respectfully, dni. I cannot hold steady conversations, so uh, please don't DM me without asking. Even if you ask, I may be dry, my apologies. This account will have nsfw/nsft content posted/reblogged. This account may post some sahs/bahs. This account may have others posting. I love my block button; I dare you to let me use it. Also, I encourage anons/asks of any sorts... most sorts, just don't be an asshole.
Anti harrassment includes being anti callout posts and docs.
Anti harrassment includes being anti all hate anons.
Anti harrassment includes not ostrisising people from their community.
Anti harrassment also includes the people you don't like, that you disagree with, that you've been personally hurt by.
You shouldn't say you are anti harrassment if you only anti harrassing the people you personally like or only anti harrassment in its most extreme forms (like doxxing).
Harrassment will never solve any of these issues, if anything it's likely to make people double down on bad behaviour because they feel defensive.
Critising bad behaviour needs to be done constructively and personal issues need to solved privately, if that can't be done or has already been attempted and failed, then block and move on.
i just woke up so i'm in a pissy mood, apologies if this comes off as too rude
BUT
the RQC has a MASSIVE problem with how it treats beings it perceives as "abusers." it's so drilled into your minds that recovery is often "forced" that it just feels like you cannot even fucking grasp that HEY, some beings are ACTUALLY FUCKING TRYING!
i am PRO-RECOVERY, meaning as long as a being WANTS to genuinely try to recover from their abusive behavior, then I SUPPORT THEM and will CONTINUE to support them unless they fuck up again.
take Jay/Monika, for example. he says he wants to recover, but he keeps calling everything anybeing says about him "drama" and lashes out at anybeing giving him actual recovery advice. I do not support him anymore because he is not recovering.
now, this part may get me some harassment, but fuck it. let's talk about @radqueerena4. from what i've heard, it was relationship problems and the fact that they were watching beastiality porn. however, iirc I believe they are GENUINELY trying to work on those problems, and they have been clean of watching anything for a month now. THAT looks to me like they are trying their best to stop their "abusive behavior."
i'm sure there are better examples I can use, but i'm not aware of them, so I'm using these examples.
i don't support Jay/Monika because he is not trying. I DO support @radqueerena4 because at least to me, they appear to be trying.
my problem here is, I never see almost ANY other beings in the RQC who seem to be able to even think of the concept of recovery. you all bash and harass somebeing the SECOND they do something, and refuse to listen to anything they might have to say for themself.
which is ESPECIALLY fucked up, considering I HAVE seen it from some beings who CLAIM to be PRO-RECOVERY. really? cut the bullshit. you cannot be "pro-recovery" and then immediately harass, dox, and threaten somebeing for something bad just because you don't like them, if they are trying to recover.
it's close to the same logic the fucking antis use for us. antis will search for any excuse to be hateful towards us, including digging for something shitty one being in the RQC has done just to harass us. if you instantly treat somebeing like shit the MOMENT you hear they did something instead of trying to SUPPORT their RECOVERY (if they're trying), then imo you are PART OF THE PROBLEM.
this is very badly worded and may come across wrong, because again, i'm drowsy and still half-asleep and in a bad mood. but my point is, fucking SUPPORT RECOVERING BEINGS.
please do not harass anybeing as a result of this post, this is simply my own opinion. do not go be a dick to anybeing just because you may have seen them be a dick to an "abuser," just keep my words in mind.
⌖ “ match my freak ” wrong , go far beyond my freak . make me uncomfortable & disgusted in everything — teach me to enjoy it . make me an uncontrollable pervert that nobody else will love but you . sexualize everything , feed into my fears & paranoia — defile me with your love .
I want to be forcefully fucked in my sleep by a man who controls every aspect of my life and who lets me just exist as a puppy by doing everything hard in my life for me.. is that too much to ask for??
Taxes? Dogs dont do that.
Making friends? Playdate with another puppy!
Feeling unfulfilled? Dogs dont worry about that! Puppies feel happiest when they are "fulfilled" by their owners cock
