Youngest Daughter In Training

they gotta put all their eggs in the "male socialization" basket cause some trans women don't even have the body parts they fearmonger about but they still want to control them

like at this point in the like... 10+ years trans women have been a go-to wedge issue, everyone knows how chromosomes don't necessarily determine phenotype, everyone knows bottom surgery exists, everyone knows intersex people exist, everyone knows some people don't even produce gametes at all, everyone knows we don't stop calling cis women women after a hysterectomy or sterilization

the well of bioessentialist arguments is starting to run dry cause everyone knows the facts that disprove them. so they've had to greatly exaggerate how socialization works and how immutable it is cause what the hell else are they gonna do, lol

now excuse me while I go remove every ex-christian who had a traumatic and repressive religious upbringing from my life. gotta purge the christian socialization cause you just know they will never unlearn their superiority complex and their misogyny and transphobia and all! gotta keep myself safe!

wait you grew up in a conversvative household??? 😨 in a red state???? 😨😨😨😨

sorry this space is only for those born as and currently Liberal

Op is aware It's being a bit shitty

There's nothing I hate more than high protocol master/ slave dynamics enforced with heavy discipline and little to no positive reinforcement

I want to beat the dom to death with my bare hands and turn the sub into a spoilt pillow princess

Guy who's sad slavery was abolished before he got a turn x girl who's been taught her whole life she's only valuable if she's useful

"He says I'm not allowed to use a safe word during punishments but he smiled at me for half a second three days ago so I know he really loves me"

Wow yeah neat I can't wait to feel his eyeball pop between my molars as I give you your tenth orgasm in as many minutes

I think the risks of punishment are ridiculously under stated in the kink community

I think many dominants feel the need to justify their own sadistic urges and want to be able to punish people for doing the wrong thing but they can't go off and be vigilantes so they bring that energy to kink without ever considering the psychological damage they're doing to the subs in their care

I think many submissives seek out discipline in hopes of being found worthy or being given worth or they get told this is the way bdsm is done and go along with it without ever considering the effect it's having on their own mental health

As much as I believe you can consent to anything and bdsm is about play I don't believe most couples are practicing informed consent when it comes to discipline and I do believe this type of play should stay in scenes not be the basis of 24/7 dynamics

Part of what I love about tumblr is how now if you want to reblog this very interesting point about discipline and consent you also have to reblog the bit where I talk about eating eyeballs

"Yeah but my master/ slave dynamic is different, I love her and care for her"

*gesturing emphatically with a melon baller in one hand and a strap on in the other* mhmm I totally believe you, I'm just gonna take her out to dinner so we can have a chat girl to girl, and maybe a few drinks after, no you're not invited, don't wait up

The thing is like, I actually do believe it can be done well. If I went out to dinner with her and she gushed about how well he looks after her and how even tho she craves discipline he is slowly unlearn that trauma and so on I'd holster my melon baller and kiss his knuckles in respect

why are you always bitching about cis women having boundaries and not cis men who are the ones who are statistically far more likely to murder you? god forbid women don't spend all their emotional labor on centering you 24/7. go after the transphobic politicians or something, those are the actual fascists who want you dead.

those "boundaries" get us murdered lol. trans women who can't access women's shelters or other forms of housing because of cis women's "boundaries" are left on the streets to be assaulted and murdered

if you want trans women out of women's spaces, and the rationale for those spaces existing is to protect from violence, then you are saying that trans women don't deserve protection from the same violence despite being at an even higher risk of it than you

terfs have gotten crazy good at framing discrimination through the language of consent. systemic discrimination is not "boundaries"

the emotional labor of being asked not to discriminate against one of the most vulnerable groups of women

beardedmrbean

uikangel

reblog the angel again if you don’t mind.

3000s

it was so insane that they even sent this out in 2018 but you know its like staffs current behavior isnt anything new

3000s

they had no evidence then with the blogs they terminated & they have no evidence now either so ig its always been your blog gets deleted for "any reason or none at all" when they dont like you for being black or transfem

treecitysessions

artificialcaracal

transmisogyny is so normalized that even in this joke post about the lesbian spectrum, trans women go completely unmentioned while trans mascs are included. it really is that pervasive and everywhere. I feel like I'm fucking losing it here.

dark-spirit-tamamoland

they're still terming random transfems as i type this i see which does make quite a statement doing this today specifically

puppetstuffing

watched three girls who reblogged its new blog mutual aidpost (made literally 15 minutes ago) already disappear from its notifs. transfems are not included in their pride :/

puppetedlove

puppetvictim

tamamowand

QUITE the statement to be nuking transfems at the current accelerated pace right at the start of pride month like this, isn't it

puppetprincesses

5th blog in 24 hours btw.

tamamoland-with-a-gun

fforsythiaaa

Once when I was in undergrad, someone described something as “problematic” in class and our professor was like, “That’s cool, but ‘problematic’ doesn’t really mean anything. It means that the thing you’re describing has a problem, and in and of itself that’s not bad. Art, especially, should always have problems, or else it’s not interesting and not art, either. It sounds like you’re trying to say that this is bad, but you don’t want to say ‘bad.’ Is that right?”

So from then on whenever one of us called something problematic, he would make us talk it out until we could name the “bad” thing we were hinting at. In this particular class, 7/10 it was some type of oppression, and the remainder was like, “I’m uncomfortable because this is very new/confusing/pushing boundaries that made me feel safe.”

Once we stopped calling things “problematic” and stopping at that, class got way more interesting and... we all had to say, like, “that’s racist” or “that’s misogynistic” or “ew capitalism gross” out loud, which a lot of us had never done in a classroom before. Or we had to be like, “Uhhh... I’m not sure what’s so bad?” and confront our own beliefs and that was maybe even more useful.

Anyway. Whenever I see the word problematic, I can’t help but think of this professor being like, “Good starting point, now let’s get specific.” I think when we have to commit to saying “that’s ___” it requires a lot more careful thought about the truth and impact and complexities of whatever we’re claiming. Sometimes there really is some bullshit afoot, and also sometimes it’s art, and it should be full of problems, because that’s what art is.

in 3 days pjackk will return from the dead to usher in a new era for mankind. #disciple

okay hes actually just really dead #sorry

sorry i meant 3 months #disciple