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cant stop thinking about this this was sooo crazyyyyy
A comic I posted last night for patrons, but I wanted to share here too! This has been the time lately đđ©đđâšïž
But in seriousness, capitalism worms are rough! But try to ignore them and shoo them out! Take care of yourselves and rest, babes đ„łđ
schizophrenia spectrum people who have violent urges are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement
schizophrenia spectrum people who are homeless or experience food insecurity are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement
schizophrenia spectrum people who talk out loud to hallucinations and act erratic in public are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement
schizophrenia spectrum people who cannot work or go to school because of their symptoms are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement
schizophrenia spectrum people who struggle with personal hygiene are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement
schizophrenia spectrum people who donât want to take medication or cannot adhere to a medication regiment are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement
schizophrenia spectrum people who live with their parents as an adult or needs a carer are still deserving of care and compassion without judgement
just because someone on the schizophrenia spectrum is stereotypical or societally ostracized doesnât take away their right to being treated with kindness, compassion, and respect and given autonomy
Medisafe is now on a paid subscription model.
Medisafe has been my medication app for over a decade. Now that they've switched to a paid model, I need an alternative to track my medication.
I wanted something that reminded me to take my meds and tracked it. I wanted to see the history of when I took it. I need this becaise even with an alarm and a pill organizer, I sometimes think I did take my meds when I didn't and only turned off the alarm.
The best alternative I've found is this open source app called MedTimer:
It has an interface similar to Medisafe and it's open source, free, and private. There's no unnecessary news section, either, which is a bonus.
The only thing it lacks compared to Medisafe is the Medfriend feature, where loved ones can sign up to keep you accountable for taking your meds. I've never used it, however.
You can download it on F-Droid or Google Play Store.
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Prochaska & DiClemente - The Cycle of Change (x)
My tip for trying to compartmentalize your emotions or desires is to realize when you're using hyperbolic shorthand for an actually realistic desire. I know realizing even that can be difficult sometimes but let me demonstrate
"I wish I was popular" -> I want to be noticed and engaged with, and I need reassurance and the feeling of connection
"I wanna delete my blog and ghost my friends" -> I want to act out in a visible way that expresses how frustrated I am / I feel overwhelmed with connections and need time to cool off
"I wanna do something reckless/dangerous" -> I feel trapped in obligations and am buckling under stress, I need a sufficient outlet and more freedom to exist in peace
Obviously there may be different kinds of feelings or needs under your particular impulses, these are just some fairly common examples of what you could be feeling. The harder part is trying to figure out what it is that causes this impulse, and even harder might be if you don't have control over the situation, and are unable to have your needs met. It's not always your fault if you're feeling bad, but realizing where it stems from can help you seek out new paths to relieve it. This is something I've learnt working in therapy.
The toddler in your heart has valid needs. But it is a toddler and will scream and cry about it. Learn to sit by until it's done and then ask if it wants a juice box or a hug
I think some of you forgot that autistic people sometimes act strange and say things that are poorly worded and speak with incorrect tone and misunderstand or miss social cues because they are autistic
sorry for being annoying [remembers that practicing gratitude instead of shame is better for my mental health and my relationships] thank you for letting me be annoying with you
I made a post like this a while back, but one of the links was broken, and I have more to include. These are some papers I have come across about the schizophrenia spectrum (more so schizophrenia itself) that I have been reading. They deal more with the inner mechanisms of it and the way reality is perceived and affected. I will add on to this as I find more.
Double bookkeeping in schizophrenia spectrum disorder: an empirical-phenomenological study
Silencing the Self: Schizophrenia as a Self-disturbance
The Evolution of Symbolic Thought: At the Intersection of Schizophrenia Psychopathology, Ethnoarchaeology, and Neuroscience
Perceptual Anomalies in Schizophrenia: Integrating Phenomenology and Cognitive Neuroscience
Values in Persons With Schizophrenia
Involuntary Autobiographical Memories in Schizophrenia: Characteristics and Conditions of Elicitation
Varieties of Self Disorder: A Bio-Pheno-Social Model of Schizophrenia
Would honestly be nice if more people would reblog these. Maybe itâs something to do with who I donât follow, but rarely on tumblr do I encounter anything about this disorder, and I really cannot articulate how difficult it can be to find resources in person.
If itâs okay to add, I saved and collected a bunch of my harvard course materials on psychosis and understanding/treating schizophrenia and have them all in a mediafire link!
*through gritted teeth* when i do something wrong and am politely asked to change my behavior its just a simple request to fix a problem and not an indictment of my character. when i do something wrong and am politely asked to change my behavior its just a simple request to fix a problem and not an indictment of my worth as a human being
Do you ever look at a sparrow and think, "that bird is really wasting her potential?"
No. That thought would clang against the simple dignity we sense in nature, the dignity of a living thing inhabiting a life.
You are that sparrow. You are the branch she rests upon.
You embody that same dignity.
Planning for a flight now consists of planning out how to document the legal violations the airline is inevitably going to commit.
Since I started using a wheelchair, I have had exactly one (1) flight where an airline didnât break the law.
The question isnât âAre airlines breaking the law?â They absolutely are, on almost every flight. The questions are âDoes the wheelchair user know their rights?â (most donât), and âAre they physically and mentally able to document the violations and report them to the DOT?â (most canât).
[ID: @diffusedmuse âOne question if you have a moment: do you confront airlines themselves or go straight to the DOT? For example, they often push me into signing a release of liability in case they wreck my wheelchair, which Iâm fairly sure is illegal but Iâm afraid to say anything and be denied my flight.â]
Under US law, it is definitely illegal for an airline to make you sign a release of liability for transporting your wheelchair. I would definitely advise you not sign any release of liability. The newest statistics show that airlines damage or lose 25 wheelchairs per day. (Source) You canât afford for them to not fix or replace your wheelchair if they damage it.
â§382.35  May carriers require passengers with a disability to sign waivers or releases?
â(b) You must not require passengers with a disability to sign waivers of liability for damage to or loss of wheelchairs or other assistive devices.â
(Source)
I always insist on having my wheelchair in the cabin, but if the flight has less than 100 seats theyâre not required to have space in-cabin, and if you have a power chair itâs not going to fit in the in-cabin wheelchair closet. So I realize some people have to put their chairs in cargo.
Personally Iâd pocket whatever release form they gave me, scan it in when I got home and include it in my DOT complaint. I bet the DOT would be very interested to see what release theyâre trying to get you to sign.
I have on several occasions had airline employees threaten to not let me fly, try to maneuver me into agreeing to take a different flight, or insinuate that if I continue to insist they follow the law they wonât let me fly. This is illegal, and I let them know that I know that it is illegal.
â§382.11  What is the general nondiscrimination requirement of this part?
â(4) You must not take any adverse action against an individual (e.g., refusing to provide transportation) because the individual asserts, on his or her own behalf or through or on behalf of others, rights protected by this part or the Air Carrier Access Act.âÂ
(Source)
So yes, I confront the airline employees myself, although I realize not everyone is able to do so. I always have a copy of the law with me - I have a document where I put together the clauses that I know theyâre going to violate, and I print out a couple copies before I fly. I also have the full ACAA on my phone. Only once has an airline employee ever looked at the law - they generally just flat out refuse to read it - but I have it with me so I can prove I know what the law says. That means that canât say âthatâs not in the law,â they can only say âI donât care what the law says,â and that is not going to show in their favor when they have to justify their actions to the DOT.
I definitely also report the airline to the DOT after I get back from my trip. The DOTâs formal investigation process is to have the airline investigate themselves and report their findings back to the DOT. IME the airline always, every time, lies and claims they didnât break any laws. They generally accidentally admit to breaking a couple laws, but for the majority it ends up being a he says/she says situation.Â
Personally, I want the airline to get fined for every clause of the ACAA they break when I fly, not just the ones they accidentally admit to because they are that ridiculously unfamiliar with the law theyâre required by law to know. (The record so far is fourteen clauses broken on one flight.) So as of my last flight I now record every interaction I have with an airline employee. On that flight, the minute I realized they had found a new and ridiculous way to violate the ACAA, I set my phone to video and put it in a shallow outside pocket in my personal bag with the camera facing out. When I got home, I extracted the audio file from the video, made a transcript, and forwarded both the audio file and the transcript to the DOT along with my complaint. When the airline investigated themselves and lied about what they did, I then forwarded the audio file and transcript to them as well and proved that their employees lied. It was interesting watching them scramble to explain themselves.Â
The DOT takes a year to process complaints, so I havenât heard back from the DOT on that one yet, but Iâm particularly interested to see how this complaint turns out as itâs going to be impossible for them to squirrel out of any of their violations. I have proof.
After that last flight I bought myself an audio recorder (like the kind you use to record lectures in school) which I now have hanging from my personal bag. Some airlines prohibit photography and video in their contract of carriage, but I have yet to find one that prohibits audio recordings. Part of my prep for this trip has been testing that audio recorder to see what the range is and how well it records, so I know where on my bag to hang it to be sure it records everything that happens.
If youâre recording audio, keep that in mind when youâre dealing with airline employees. Ask for names or read out their name badge (âJane Smith, right?â) and describe whatâs happening if itâs not apparent from what they say. (âWait, so youâre telling me I need to sign this release of liability form before youâll transport my wheelchair? You do realize thatâs illegal, right?â)
I have an audio recording of an airline employee on my last flight saying âI donât care what the law says!â and my response which was âI donât think the DOT is going to be very impressed with that.â Iâm pretty sure theyâre not. I canât wait to see the DOTâs response to the airline.
This is absolutely amazing. And itâs great that OP outlines several different levels of protecting yourself against and documenting these illegal actionsâbecause, yeah, not everyone can or wants to go All The Way. But to those who do? We salute you.
Anyway, know your rights when flying, yâall [same source as above, we just wanna highlight it].
resist the urge to self-isolate, girl. people want you around. people don't think you're faulty. you're allowed to be wrong and make mistakes and missteps and people won't reject you for it. don't self-isolate. nobody in your life wants you to self-isolate. don't do it.
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i saw somebody say âwhat if youâre gone and i havenât become anything yetâ and basically that broke me on a random thursday evening