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In my Ronance era (among other things) just a funky lil lesbian, at your service! My DM’s are always open if ya wanna chat! (18+)

[mawofthemagnetar]

What do you mean “chat” is now referring to ChatGPT and not twitch chat? What? What? What the fuck? No?

When I address chat I am speaking to a presumed Greek chorus of real human people shitposting on their lunch break, not a machine that devours lakes to covert electricity into slop.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

feels like a real step back that with all the sexual freedom available to us we moved to Hookup Culture instead of Having Sex With Friends Culture

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

I find it weird, actually, that today it's more common to have sex with casual acquaintances you meet on the Hookup App than to have sex with people you already know and like and have fun with. and how if two friends have sex, there's an assumption there must be underlying romantic feelings. because apparently casual non-romantic sex is fine, but only with people you don't already like and care about?

I feel like the hippies and people who lived through the Free Love movement would be rightfully disappointed at us for these made-up lines we're drawing between Sex/Romance and (gasp!) Friendship. shockingly, it's fine to have casual sex with people you enjoy hanging out with and do not want to date. fun and healthy even!

[hextwo]

Ahhh... i dunno why but this feels like a result of purity culture.

Where 2 concepts clash:

You can have sex outside of marriage

But also sex is bad and you shouldn't do it.

It's not actually okay to have sex and it's shameful to do it and it'll taint your relationships if they know about it.

But also sex isn't bad and be free to do it whenever you want!

That turns into:

You can have sex but it's bad for your relationships.

So it's okay to have sex only if you're either planning to Marry them or Never seeing them again.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

HUH.... Society really fucked us on this one (and not in the fun kinky way ☹️)

[hello-your-majessty]

God!!! She was so perfect for me!!! The universe is cruel and I love too freely!!!

[positivelyqueer]

You've gotta have good biodiversity in your reasons for not killing yourself. Rotate them out like crops when the yield gets low and the soil poor. We're mixing our metaphors. Whatever helps it stick.

You like warm blankets. You like the sound of birdsong. You have a pet that needs taking care of. You have someone to outlive. You have a loved one. You think death would be boring. It's coming for you anyway. Death is patient. When was the last time you had cake? Your favourite musician is going on tour. Or maybe just a halfway decent band at your local bar. You've never seen an elephant. Isn't it amazing that the sky is blue? Aging is a gift not afforded to most. Don't let the bastard grind you down. You can't mend any suffering in the world with your death. You want to see if you can grow herbs on your windowsill. Killing yourself seems like so much effort. What does tiramisu taste like? You're trying to be curious. You're angry and spiteful. What you want more than to die is to rest. This sandwich is so good you don't want to die. Not so long as there are plums to eat and somebody, anybody who gives enough of a damn to haul them to you. A stranger on the internet is holding their hand out and asking.

[draconym]

You haven't finished that book. It's almost strawberry season. There's a chrysalis on the porch that should open soon. There are pastries you've never tried. It's going to be sunny tomorrow. You're going to look very distinguished with gray hair. You have to outlive him. There aren't any easy ways to die. Your package is supposed to arrive on Friday. There are people who will love you that you haven't met yet.

[plastic-pipes]

ronance commission for @maggierosestudio c:

[syzygy-yzygy]

So sick of dog motif what about cat motif.

I love you but we don't love the same. I can't be near you when you want me to be. Your love is smothering and your need to keep me safe is trapping me. I'm my own person but I don't know how to show you that. I lash out and hurt you even though I don't mean to. I need you to move slowly around me or I'll bolt. I love you, even though I don't say it. If you stay still I'll sit next to you, and even though we don't understand each other we can be together like that.

[syzygy-yzygy]

@aspengrown this is the rawest possible addition to this post thank you

[mylordshesacactus]

and also:

cat love as in I am small and scared and all of my instincts and my experience and your vast power say you're a threat but I am choosing to trust in your kindness despite my fear. you could kill me with one hand but I know you won't.

cat love as in I can tell you are upset and I don't understand why so I will sit stiffly beside you and awkwardly provide the only reassurance I know how to give. I am uncomfortable with every single moment of this but it is what you would do for me.

cat love as in I am small and powerless but I will curl up back to back with you and stand guard while you sleep and I will mean it with every fiber of my being.

my cat Nepenthe was a former stray behavior case at risk of euthanasia because she kept mauling potential adopters. on her second week in my apartment--having already attacked me multiple times without provocation, I will add, I wasn't special, she needed genuine help--she slinked out of the bedroom yowling at me. when I went to check on her she kept walking back and forth until I followed her, where she insistently paced between my feet and her hidey-hole in the back of my dresser, increasingly distressed. about three seconds after she gave up and hid, an absolutely torrential rain front hit. she didn't understand yet that we couldn't get wet inside. she'd been trying to warn me.

she didn't know me yet, but she knew I hadn't yelled at her when she hurt me. she knew I hadn't tried to hurt her back. she didn't understand why she was attacking me; those episodes probably scared her more than me. she knew I "shared" food with her, and that I asked before touching her. and she went out of her way to bring me into her safe space, to protect her friend.

cat love as stiff hesitant uncertain acts of service that are devastating in their sincerity, as well.

[naamahdarling]

I'm sorry, I had a response to add on, but now I'm crying over your cat. Oh my god.

[glorioustidalwavedefendor]

cat love as stiff hesitant uncertain acts of service that are devastating in their sincerity, as well.

He had the awkward tenderness of someone who has never been loved and is forced to improvise.

Isabel Allende, from The House of The Spirits

[rottenwhimsy]

x

[candidenigma]

Yes and also, cat love as in:

I am an independant being. I will not be at your beck and call. I will go where I please, take an interest in what I please, play and sleep when I please. But sometimes it will please me to follow you. Sometimes it will please me to take an interest in what you are doing. Sometimes it will please me to play with you and sleep alongside you. My ears will catch your voice like a satellite dish. I will know your every name for me. My eyes will wink to show that I trust you. I will sit close by you with my back turned, each of us in our own world together. I may seem inscrutable to one who is unfamiliar with my ways, but you will know when I am happy and enjoying your affection. When it pleases me to show you affection you will know that too. I will leave my marks on you and take your marks on me so that the world knows we belong together. Our flesh and blood and minds will always be different but we are one tribe.

[yourheartiswise]

I love that in canon Robin is the only one who really listened and cared about Nancy for who she is as a person. She never made Nancy feel bad for her ideas, listens to what she says instead of interrupting her, and encourages the others to do the same. The duffers really fumbled with not making Ronance canon when they both compliment each other perfectly

[hello-your-majessty]

I’m LOCKING IN on my fic tonight and will hopefully finish chapter 6! Fingers crossed omg

[ziggyzoomer]

i mourn this every day

[hello-your-majessty]

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

chapter 4 of the fanfic I’ve been working on is finally live!!

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Chapters: 4/? Fandom: Stranger Things (TV 2016) Rating: Explicit Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Robin Buckley/Nancy Wheeler Characters: Robin Buckley, Nancy Wheeler, Steve Harrington, Eddie Munson, Mike Wheeler, Lucas Sinclair, Dustin Henderson, Will Byers, Maxine "Max" Mayfield, Eleven | Jane Hopper Additional Tags: Useless Lesbian Robin Buckley, Lesbian Disaster Nancy Wheeler, Eventual Smut, background steve/eddie, Robin Buckley Has a Crush on Nancy Wheeler, Robin Buckley is Whipped, No beta we die like Barb, Eddie Munson Lives, Set after Season 4, season 5 never happened, Other Additional Tags to Be Added, My First Fanfic, i don't know how to tag, Slow Burn, Kinda, Nancy Wheeler Has a Crush on Robin Buckley, But Robin doesn’t know it yet, Platonic Soulmates Robin Buckley & Steve Harrington, Top Nancy Wheeler, Bottom Robin Buckley, Except they’re switches your honor Summary:

Nancy Wheeler is driving Robin crazy. In fact, it seems like she is doing it on purpose? But that couldn't be... right?

Or: Nancy and Robin are going to be roommates in Boston. Robin is down bad for Nancy, and Nancy is trying very hard to get Robin to crack (ha)

Set after season 4. (I had the idea for this before S5 ok!)

[hello-your-majessty]

I need to lock in and write more of my Ronance fic, but work is kicking my asssss

But I miss writing and want my girls to be happy so. Soon.

[jayhsketch]

got a thing about you and it won't go away,,

[moreanou]

Ronance fanart of an epic fanfiction in AO3 called Cue the music by Pitkin-

I haven’t felt like reading fanfiction in a rlly long time but after watching the finally I caved. Now I’m totally obsessed and I’ll be drawing stuff for a minute :>

[hello-your-majessty]

The people we meet on vacation Ronance AU???

I think Robin would have to be Poppy and Nancy Alex (even tho I know Nancy wouldn’t want to settle in Hawkins but like… imagine…)

[poisonfilledduck]

Spot the difference

Level: Impossible

[spam-by-me]

Imagining Dustin with his canonically terrible gaydar who thought Steve and Robin were a thing being surprised when Robin came out as a lesbian to everyone.

Dustin: Oh shit THAT’S why you and Steve aren’t dating. Man, first I didn’t notice Will was gay and now Robin. Do you think anybody else in the party is?

Nancy, Robin’s literal girlfriend: Good question.

Steve who is sweating buckets next to him holding Jonathan’s hand under the table: You never know.

Mike still staring at Will’s lips: Only time will tell.

[how-queersome]

I need someone who looks at me like this

So I can look at them like this