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🔞 moss, it/its, 29 lets see how this goes eh?

[homalothecium]

!!NSFW/kink/adult blog, enter at your own risk!!

my name is moss, my main blog is apocraphelion- this one is so I can be deranged w/o risking it. I'm 28, it/its pronouns exclusively, gendered terms okay, familial terms not. I'm a system, autistic, and bipolar w psychosis. I'm bi, nonbinary, polyam, switch, and a bottom.

I'm here for bodies, bondage, blood and gore, threats and cnc, plenty other stuff I'm not gonna try to comprehensively list, and finding whatever weird things I don't yet know I'm into. Mostly going to be subby stuff here, that's my more prominent side, but occasionally may do some top/predator posting.

askbox is open, genuinely feel free to send whatever, I intend to post pics in exchange for threats ;) but also feel free to get in touch elsewise.

media of me tagged houseplant.photos (incl audio and video)

pic below the cut as a treat for reading the whole post 😘

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Op is aware It's being a bit shitty

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There's nothing I hate more than high protocol master/ slave dynamics enforced with heavy discipline and little to no positive reinforcement

I want to beat the dom to death with my bare hands and turn the sub into a spoilt pillow princess

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Guy who's sad slavery was abolished before he got a turn x girl who's been taught her whole life she's only valuable if she's useful

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"He says I'm not allowed to use a safe word during punishments but he smiled at me for half a second three days ago so I know he really loves me"

Wow yeah neat I can't wait to feel his eyeball pop between my molars as I give you your tenth orgasm in as many minutes

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I think the risks of punishment are ridiculously under stated in the kink community

I think many dominants feel the need to justify their own sadistic urges and want to be able to punish people for doing the wrong thing but they can't go off and be vigilantes so they bring that energy to kink without ever considering the psychological damage they're doing to the subs in their care

I think many submissives seek out discipline in hopes of being found worthy or being given worth or they get told this is the way bdsm is done and go along with it without ever considering the effect it's having on their own mental health

As much as I believe you can consent to anything and bdsm is about play I don't believe most couples are practicing informed consent when it comes to discipline and I do believe this type of play should stay in scenes not be the basis of 24/7 dynamics

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Part of what I love about tumblr is how now if you want to reblog this very interesting point about discipline and consent you also have to reblog the bit where I talk about eating eyeballs

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"Yeah but my master/ slave dynamic is different, I love her and care for her"

*gesturing emphatically with a melon baller in one hand and a strap on in the other* mhmm I totally believe you, I'm just gonna take her out to dinner so we can have a chat girl to girl, and maybe a few drinks after, no you're not invited, don't wait up

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The thing is like, I actually do believe it can be done well. If I went out to dinner with her and she gushed about how well he looks after her and how even tho she craves discipline he is slowly unlearn that trauma and so on I'd holster my melon baller and kiss his knuckles in respect

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I fucking hate when a great bdsm post randomly has "punishment" in it

If they're a little raise them better than your parents raised you, if they're a pet be an owner worthy of their loyalty, if they're a slave reward their obedience and forgive their indiscretion, no version of any of dynamic should involve punishment or discipline

Go read Don't Shoot The Dog and learn to be a decent fucking D-type

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Nothing is ever apolitical but especially kink, if you're going to recreate situations real people find themselves in for your own pleasure then you have a moral imperative to analyse and understand those situations and to learn what makes them bad so you can avoid doing real psychological damage. Being constantly scared that your mistakes will be met with punishment fucks up your brain real bad, it's not conditions anyone should he living under no matter the circumstances. If you want the catharsis that punishment can bring that's what scenes are for, play out the archaic school teacher x troublesome student or whatever but make sure your sub knows they aren't actually in trouble and that you're not actually upset with them. And if you think for one single moment that punishment is a remotely useful tool for training then put down the whip and pick up a book you pathetic excuse for a dominant

Specifically pick up Don't Shoot The Dog

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Third rant that ends with me suggesting

Don’t Shoot the Dog! : The New Art of Teaching and Training by Karen Pryor

Which you can download for free here

[PDF] [EPUB] Don't Shoot the Dog! : The New Art of Teaching and Training Download

Download Book "Don't Shoot the Dog! : The New Art of Teaching and Training" by Author "Karen Pryor" in [PDF] [EPUB]. Original Title ISBN # "

[kiddo-kitten]

Being a good sub does mean constantly breaking the scene actually. It means breaking the scene adjusting until you're comfy. It's breaking the scene with a big smile and a "You're being so hot rn". It's breaking the scene with a questioning look as you decide yes maybe the bed would be better for this. It's breaking the scene and saying "hey this position isn't comfy but it's ok for now". It's breaking the scene saying "goddamn it my jaw is giving up".

You have to let reality in or you'll be trapped in yet another trauma

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[chirpguts]

puppy boy leather skirt!! fun outfit for a leather event

they/it/he

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and then the leather got too sweaty lmao

[covid-safer-hotties]

The pandemic isn’t over—and queer people shouldn’t be acting like it is | Xtra Magazine

ANALYSIS: As a community, we talk a good talk about keeping each other safe, so why aren’t we doing it now? 

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Bloopers are movie aftercare and it’s fucked up that we got rid of them

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It's taking lewds n nudes outside szn ♡

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Id hate to waste the nice weather by masturbating indoors ♡

[cuntboybatty]

Violated is such a good word. Like get fucking deep in me. Touch me in places that I’ve never been touched in ways I’ve never experienced. Grope and squeeze and pinch and stroke me while I don’t want it, ignore my boundaries, refuse to recognize me as an equal. Violate me.

[setonix-shibari]

Happy pride! 🏳️‍⚧️

🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

[auxphono]

Needed a clean graphic for a project, and figured while I was vectoring I would put sex and magic back in.

Happy Pride Month

[auxphono]

Reblogging this yearly for anyone who needs a very clean version <3 Happy Pride.

[drosophilamania]

Reblog to put the sex and magic back into pride

[superior-mother]

Seeing a hot girl with genuinely interesting and intense fetishes be constantly pestered by men who see penetrative sex in various situations and manners as the pinnacle of kink will always be such a pity. Like leave that poor girl alone she's destined to be with someone who will fundamentally alter her mind and state of being in ways most men could never dream of...

[questionable-method]

no but im so tired of how self-deprecation is always more accepted than self-advocacy. if i say i can't drive because im autistic i get questioned on how exactly that works and given a million suggestions on how to do it anyway and i look like im trying to be special so it's easier to just say im a loser. yeah i don't drive because im kind of a loser lmao. oh well. and people say lmao back and we move on. at worst they say "oh im sure you'll figure it out haha." but no interrogation!! being a loser is more respectable than being disabled. being a loser is something that doesn't make other people feel uncomfortable about their own biases. so no, no im not disabled. i don't struggle to keep friends and do the laundry and make quick trivial decisions and clean my room and brush my teeth because im autistic. it's because im a loser. it's my fault. it is what it is. at least im funny now. do you think im funny? please think im funny

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