[jigglybellysoftheart]

I ordered an obscure academic book about feedism from my school library and they got a hard copy instead of a pdf, so now I have to look the nice old librarian lady I'm kinda friends with in the eye while I get my fat sex book.....oops lmao

[jigglybellysoftheart]

Few people have asked for the info on this book so here it is! There are some p decent academic articles on it as well! Search Google scholar sometime for "feederism" 😄

"Feederism: eating, weight gain, and sexual pleasure". Charles, Kathy and Palkowski, Michael. Houndmills, Basingstoke, Hampshire : Palgrave Macmillan, 2015.

[jigglybellysoftheart]

Update on this since so many have asked - I highly recommend it!

This book clearly takes the words of actual feedists and fat people into account, and represents the diverse community and forms that feedism can take. It also raises the inherent problems with feedism in a very respectful way that doesn't feel demonizing or like they're saying it needs to stop because of those things. That also isn't the point of the book, which I appreciated - all of the academic texts on feedism that I have read have focused on how feedism is men preying on fat girls, which is untrue in the vast majority of cases, and this book addresses that oversimplification very well. It provides a very balanced account that doesn't feel like they went in with an opinion already formed about feedism being good or bad, they just describe the community around it. It interviews quite a few members of the community, and overall provides quite a positive view of feedism.

I found it super validating to see my opinions on and experience with the feedism community echoed in an academic text, and I thought it was really great to know that there is good, balanced information available in the academic world now about this community, not just oversimplified pieces that demonize us. It's also not written in a complicated, intimidating way. I am a fairly fast reader, but I read the whole thing in a couple hours. I really enjoyed it!

I got this book through interlibrary loan, but it's also available a variety of places online:) info is above

[dateamonster]

look i WISH more horror movies were just the directors thinly disguised fetish. instead we got all these horror movies that are just undisguised reflections of culturally hegemonic values and anxieties. like if we got some weird fetishes up in here it would probably add some variety thats all im saying.

[thaenad]

The Bigger The Better: A Feedist’s Love Letter to Freddie Mercury

by @thaenad / @fatliberation

Growing up shrouded in fatphobia, I used to think I would take my kink to my grave. As a repressed baby queer and undiagnosed autistic, I hid my sexuality from everyone until a vintage photo of my idol, Freddie Mercury, changed everything for me. Unpacking the archival tidbits of a rock legend’s love life gave me the courage to stop hiding and start allowing myself to be seen.

My latest article is so personal, so delightful and was cathartic to write. It’s available to read on ko-fi for $1! Like always, this article will eventually be unlocked for free. I’m shaking things up and posting this one to my kink-focused page, but if you’re a monthly supporter of @fatliberation, send me a message and I’ll waive the $1 fee. Is Freddie Mercury a feedist icon? Send your thoughts my way!! 💘

The Bigger the Better: A Feedist's Love Letter to Freddie Mercury

Thaenad published a supporter-only post on Ko-fi!

[angel-in-your-basement]

Life is too short to have sex you don’t like. Be gross, be weird, don’t do it at all if it’s not for you. Expand your definition of sex. Remove yourself from things that don’t feel good. Find positions and kinks and toys that work for you. Don’t let anyone tell you that sex needs to happen a certain way or happen at all. Orgasms are optional. Involving your genitals is optional. Everything is optional. Do what you like to do and respect what other people do and don’t like to do. Good sex doesn’t make you feel bad about yourself. You deserve to have pleasure in ways that work for you.

[animentality]

[emptyovenboy]

@funnier-as-a-feedist

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

Posts that are funnier as a feedist

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

today my boyfriend of a year and a half opened my ao3 for sillies while updating my pc and saw my one and only favorited tag of weight gain. secret kink reveal party i guess. hes a tummy lover and was super chill abt it and said i was not subtle at all and he knew for a very long time (he gained like 30 lbs of relationship weight and i went a littleeee crazy) so it turned out great but super funny as an overall situation. feedism win!

Omg that's so cuuuute 😭😭 congratulations!! W kink positive boyfriend! Hopefully now you can have some really fun adventures 😏

[teathattast]

[toxicmp3]

if he has abs he doesnt care about you

[toxicmp3]

men with abs aren’t capable of love

[inthech33ze]

no it's quite necessary that i force feed him until his breathing is labored and his shirt has ridden up. that's literally the only way to take care of him and make sure he has enough food haha. this is very normal nurturing behavior what are you talking about

[everybody-loves-to-eat]

[cassettecolonthree]

if i order fries and they come out stacked this high im tongue kissing the chef

[blehhh-nyan]

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

We all are feedists. World Peace achieved. Every person links hands in unison.

WE ARE ALL FEEDISTS

[horizontalnow]

Having a kink that also comes with its own TV trope is awkward. It's like if it were an established thing where shows would have The Sex Episode but the whole thing is incredibly unsexy and disjointed. and unfunny. But you're the only one in the room who even has sex so it's only awkward for you

[mousidy]

if you lose interest in a trans woman when you find out she has a vagina then die

[mousidy]

we're not sex toys we're people 👍

[mousidy]

oh noooo you can't fit her into the "tranny shemale futanari dickgirl" sexual archetype OR the "pure, Natural cis woman crafted by god" sexual archetype? you have to respect her as a person rather than as a sex object? fuuuuck that must be really hard for you I'm sorry

[mousidy]

it's funny that both trans and cis women alike are reduced to our genitals, but with trans women it's especially extreme. transness is thought of as infinitely worse than cisness in every way, so why would you ever desire a trans woman if not to play with her one unique feature? and if she doesn't, or can't, put out, what's the point of her? what value does she even have? she's just a sex toy, you can just throw her out

[horizontalnow]

They will never take being fat & GNC away from me

[beastliness]

more people need to give themselves permission to write and draw pornography

[beastliness]

it is virtuous and necessary that you write, draw, and distribute pornography

[radfemart]

can we start with not conflating "erotic/sexual art or writing" with pornography

[beastliness]

no lmao

[overclassy]