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[horrorwiki]

feralarsonist > horrorwiki

[eroticcannibal]

"Don't give X to your pet" lists should always be divided into "OK they managed to snag a bit? It's fine they'll just have the shits" "uh maybe just give your vet a ring" and "HEAD TO THE VET IMMEDIATELY YOUR PET IS DYING" imo

[enby-life]

“Racists, lgbtqphobes, and exclusionists can get fucked” Another post brought to you by the “let people live their goddamn lives” gang

[aristhought]

dystopian past times

[a-ya-is-why-i-live-forever]

This is literally what happens

[sweetanyways]

fun words :

bastard

scoundrel

charlatan

harlot

rapscallion

hooligan

ruffian

swindler

[princesskuragina]

Cute gender neutral things to call your partner

[cyberglossart]

death the kid

[warmsoftgoro-deactivated2021042]

[madolche-mewfeuille1]

Week of Demise, Day 3: Eye

[Recently I feel like I’m being watched…]

[professorsparklepants]

Kind of annoying how fandom seems to think pair the spares is only annoying if the cishets do it.

[melongumi]

#tired of getting 3/4 of a way through a fic only to have the background characters hook up for literally NO reason #psa from an aro/ace: gratuitous romance is annoying and shoehorned even if it's queer 

[viria]

things unsaid 

[quakerjoe]

[dduane]

THIS.

[princessofthestoners]

no joke, my dyslexic ass thought this said “i can’t eat applesauce!” the first three times it came across my dash…

[xelbleedsglitter]

I read this comment and panicked for a while because I read and read and read and was only getting applesauce and I was just like oh god what am i not getting what’s happening

[catarium]

Seggesting a character might be ace.

[gomigomipomi]

Idols on Twitter.

[omegaverse]

can we stop adding -wave and -core to shit now it’s done. it’s finished

[xtec]

no longer hardcore now I’m just hard

[cult-hopper]

People who don’t understand the difference between punishment and discipline should, like, never have kids

[clown-butch-deactivated20240919]

hey op i dont understand the difference could you please explain?

[cult-hopper]

Yeah ofc!! Sorry for being vague I was just venting and didnt expect reblogs haha

I’m gonna try to explain my point through examples.

Ex 1: toddler screaming and crying in the walmart

Punishment: I’m going to spank you or embarrass you or yell at you! Shut up! I’ll give you something to cry about!

Discipline: stop doing what you’re doing because it isn’t productive and it disturbs others as well as increasing your own upsetnes. I’m going to take you out of the environment that’s upsetting you until you’re calm and we can identify what upset you together so I can explain to you why it’s like that/help you find ways to productively express upsetness as you grow.

Ex 2: your teen is failing, like, all their classes

Punishment: you’re grounded! You’re not allowed to go out with your friends or play games or do anything fun or enjoyable until your work is satisfactory!

Discipline: it’s important to do well in school. You need to communicate with me when you are struggling so I can help you. You also need to learn to manage fun stuff and work as that’s an important life skill in adulthood. I’m going to monitor your work more closely so I can help you find that balance. And if this is a deeper mental or emotional issue, we can seek help for you together.

So basically, discipline is something you teach that requires time, communication, and sternness. Punishment is a single action meant to deliberately cause discomfort in an attempt to implement negative reinforcement. Not good.

[lavendersage]

there is a small ceramic frog where my brain should be