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John J. Smith | insta: @john_jo_smith | Chicago | They/Them | I used to be really active on here as a teen, but then I had sex and went to college (Kent State) | Now I’m back and much more depressed but SIGNIFICANTLY cooler than before | Sometimes I post hot pictures of myself but 98% of the time I’m just funny | originally from missouri/florida/ohio, if that explains anything

[ivecarvedawoodenheart]

like there comes a point where you think something is fundamentally wrong with you. and then it turns out it’s just Friday and you haven’t washed your hair in three days and maybe you’re also just a little lonely and the combination of all three of those things is whittling a hole into your chest every time you breathe. but also the sun’s up. and you’ve survived everything so far, so you’ll survive this too, even if it hurts, even if you have to survive it many times.

[stonelionhearts]

i think nonbinary folks need to be louder and meaner about inclusion. we should refuse every effort to confine us to a "third" gender. we need to speak up about misguided "women & nonbinary" groupings, because nonbinary is not Girl Lite™. in fact we need to take the whole idea of Girl Lite™ and smash it with a hammer and put it in an acid bath. dissolve that garbage. nonbinary is fat, it's femme, it's masc, it's both, it's neither, it's an infinitely diverse category, and the sooner we nuke this basic-ass milquetoast image of "thin young white afab person" (which, lbr, people also wrongly interpret those folks as 'pretty much just girls who want to be special for some reason lol') the freer and better off we will all be

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

People see "nonbinary" and think "okay so how can I fit this in as a sort of variation within the binary?"

[upandoutcomic]

I forgot to post this here. whoopsieeee~

[angelicguy]

[all-chickens-are-trans]

god i'm so tired of everybody's bad faith interpretations of everything. where's the trust. where's the forgiveness. where's the understanding that most things are complex and most people have many layers. and like the black eyed peas once said. where is the love

[catchymemes]

[meteorherd]

adulthood is all about fighting for your life to meet up with your friends at a scheduled time

[meteorherd]

see this person gets it

[ryebreadgf]

[kaijuno]

[sourcreammachine]

look, i’m sorry, but even Catboy Maids are entitled to labour rights

[pansyfemme]

i mean. i could write a whole paper about ‘andrew in drag’ as a song and how important it is to me. but like. i think what really gets me is how i once saw a cover of it done where the guys doing it clearly saw it as like a funny jokey love song. but like. that song is so deeply tragic and romantic to me, its so bittersweet.. but like on the surface. yeah. i guess. it’s a song about a straight dude falling in love with his straight friend while he’s in drag as a joke. and its on one of the magnetic field’s sillier albums. its preceeded by a dance track about abstaining from sex and followed by an upbeat electropop track about shooting your ex’s new girlfriend in the face and burying him in crystal meth. i get it. like the magnetic fields are very good at not taking themseleves seriously. but the like. emotion in andrew in drag, the hurt and the reluctance to do anything about it is so fucking cutting that like. from a trans or gnc perspective its so fucking refreshing to just hear genuine lust towards someone in drag, not a joke, not a performative feeling but a genuine deep lust and reluctance to divorce someone’s self from the performative side of their gender. It’s just. so fucking bittersweet. and like idk how to describe it without feeling a bit silly for taking it so much more seriously than the band that wrote it does. but like. man. does that song make me feel

[memorycycle]

sensitive white boy hears the slow rain and thunder intro to his lofi hiphop track and remembers the girl he used to smoke weed wjth

[lonestatus]

hardened white boy does this and he doesnt remember anything. god. he doesnt remember anything

[heavenhillgirl]

[sexual-wasteland-baby]

dialectic synthesis

[mynowherenothing]

After sex you see me roll over and go to balcony. You think ive gone for smoke due to my melancholic nature but I’ve opened sudoku.com evil level

[sacred-portal]

[wellwhiskey]

he’s just like me fr

[wellwhiskey]

we are the same

[ice-block]

Man made crystals are so cool it’s so sad everyone who likes rocks is out for blood if you post man made crystals. I love you opalite I love you lab created opal I love you bismuth I love you HTA citrine I love you goldstone

[ice-block]

Post “fake” crystals hour