yeah i dont have proof (except angela) i just Know. call it my lesbian spidey senses. disclaimer that those are MY headcanons, you can have your own opinions on those ofc
main characters:
brennan: bi (preference for ugly men... but i digress). she probably started exploring her sexual orientiation in college and came to the conclusion that she's attracted to every gender to varying degrees. she's probably tongue kissed angela a few times pre season 1
booth: cishet ally! āļø he's a bit confused but he's got the spirit, i'll give him that.. bi wife energy start playing whenever he walks into the room
zack: gayboi with a bad case of hero worship for dr brennan. naomi from paleonthology made him realise this isnt really what he'd like to excavate, if you get the gist... ;) (ew)
angela: imo? bi, but it's up to anyone. canon queer and i'm very happy about it
hodgins: bi. putting my foot down on this one- to me, hodgela is bi4bi. one day early into the series angela goes "why is everyone so hot... being bi is so hard" and hodgins is like "yeah, tell me about it" and they have a Oh, You Too? moment
cam: distinguished (ex-disaster) pan. she's all cool and collected now but in middle school she was probably stuttering whenever she saw a pretty girl
sweets: pan. boykisser. i just KNOW. that man is not heterosexual. probably had a few boyfriends in high school too
aubrey: bi? preference for women but in an alternate universe he and sweets are a thing
goodman: token straightie along with booth except i actually like him even tho even tho he took a 2 month sabbatical and never came back
squinterns:
clark: bi. a bit repressed and only realised it after breaking up with nora but as long as he gets there it's fine
daisy: pan. absolute girlkisser. she has the wlw equivalent of whatever zack felt for dr brennan. swaisy is a disaster pan couple.
fisher: pan- and i wont have it any other way. he was 100% checking sweets out when he came over to b&b's in s8, so i like to think when hodgins asks sweets "what is it with you and interns?" in 9x23 he's including fisher
wendell: bi and in a lab au he's dating vincent thank you
vincent: english twink and i think he and wendell should kiss in the lab lost & found
arastoo: straightie but we still love him. pan wife energy since he and cam are married
finn: god, i have No Idea but i have a feeling he doesn't either
wells: aro, and maybe ace too, but fyi even if he wasn't no one would want him
jessica: ... i used to say lesbian but i kinda let the jaubrey of it all get to me... pan vibes perhaps? i'll have to think it over. in another universe she and daisy are a thing too btw
other characters:
caroline julian:... lesbian. no i will not give an explanation for this one. sham marriage and all.
karen delfs: big pansexual energy coming from this random profiler?? i like her
villains: (do not take those seriously, but also...)
pelant: unlabeled. getting strangled by hodgins awoke something in him but he didnt have the time to figure it out between 8x01 and 9x04
taffet: very VERY mean lesbian
epps: heterosexual incel
broadsky: internalised homophobia over booth, clearly
kovac: the man pretended to be married to his sister. i'm not sure i even wanna know
In order: Post-hard launch Dan & Phil (1 & 2), Public Defender Dan + English Teacher Phil (3), Tomodachi Life Dan and Phil (4), Cat!Phil and Bear!Dan (5), Knight Dan and Princess Phil (6), Tortoise Metaphor Dan and Phil (7), Space Explorer Dan and Alien Phil (8), Phyuri (ft. Transfem!Phil)(9), Perphormative Phetus Dan(10), Basically I'm Gay reference (11), Fake IDGAFer Dan (12)
as a regular donor to Gaza Soup Kitchen I get their email updates, and they said today that while they've continued to be able to expand, donations are slowing down as Gaza gets less coverage. If you have a few dollars to spare, I encourage you to send them here to continue the amazing work that Hani and his team are doing.
Okay I hear you, but that's not going to work. As always, when you're thinking of vegan egg substitutes, it's important to think about the purpose of the egg in your recipe.
Eggs are used in this recipe because they smell gross and don't come off easily (due to their tendency to harden/cook in the sun). This is not a situation for applesauce, which will come off in a light rain.
While unconventional, the substitute you're looking for here is sourdough starter. It's goopy, it'll smell atrocious in the hot sun, and it'll harden onto the walls like cement. If you try to get it off with water, you'll end up with a sticky dough.
Just make sure to respectfully ask your target if they have a gluten allergy before doing this - wouldn't want to trade one evil for another.
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"Friend" is an AI wearable device designed to provide "companionship + emotional support"ā i.e replace human friendships. Its literally an AI chatbot that you wear around your neck. "Friend" just paid for the largest ad campaign in NYC subway history
And Every. Single. Poster was vandalised, it literally looks like some of the most beautiful art you have ever seen
Sorry we really went from free the nipple, take back the night, slut walks, and ending gender/sex segregation in sports being fucking milquetoast feminism 101 concepts to fucking girl dinner and "I just worry about fairness if we let trans girls play against cis ones" and "it was right of that woman to call the cops on a black man for existing near here in public during the day time because men are all violent monsters" and "radical feminism isn't transphobic we just need to kill all men including trans ones those oppressive traitors" and I will legit never be able to be normal about it. What the FUCK happened. I'd say I wonder what the feminists of my youth would say about this but I'm one and lemme tell ya I want to throw up. Go fucking read bell hooks or do something else useful please because all of this learned helplessness, gender essentialism, and transphobia dressed up as feminism is actively holding us back.
taste MV but it's really just emma and regina looking for excuses to use weapons and make out š¤« (tragically had to be drawn in a rush but i still love how it turned out!!)
sideblog
do not kill me for technically gatekeeping this because i drew it last december (for my best friend's birthday)... it was right before final season so i just forgot to post it and then never did... anyway
Iām consistently realizing that these people do not see āscaring and isolating their peers who arenāt white out of our spacesā as an actual real issue. they just keep doubling down and calling it ādramaā because they canāt fathom that you can care about more of someone than just their physical immediate safety. like no youāre āI was a nazi once :3ā jokes are not funny. they scare people. they upset people. they drive people away. youāre not āreclaimingā anything you are literally the oppressor in this situation
Now that the shock has worn off and Iāve had time to reflect, I think itās time to actually talk about this. I am also sharing this publicly as I realize suddenly releasing a statement disavowing a former friend and frequent collaborator left many people in the dark. The ādonāt bring her up to me or vice versaā was a very rash decision that came from hurt and panic, and I fear that it allowed for certain parties to further obfuscate certain facts.Ā
I am telling my story not as a moral crusade, but for personal closure and to give context for my own erratic behavior these past four months. In addition, I am posting this publicly as she has also been suggesting former mutual friends who cut her off haveĀ been manipulated by me/ ghostwriting their texts, and Iād like to clear their names from this as well.
TL;DR: Throughout my time living with her she has exaggerated and decontextualized othersā behaviors in order to avoid putting herself in uncomfortable situations. This includes but is not limited to racially motivated actions, manufacturing conversations that never happened, or claiming that something did happen rather than clarifying that she feared it would happen. Ā This had been a pattern of behavior throughout our friendship, but I finally was on the receiving end of it. She accused me of something illegal and dangerous when she wanted to end our friendship, instead of simply saying āI donāt want to be friends anymore.ā In the fallout of these accusations, she has taken to accusing me of manipulating others against her and intentionally misgendering me.
Full story under the cut includes racism, misgendering, and just a lot of petty lying and stuff.
Anyway. @ forvirresky (Sophie Kirkeby, henceforth referred to as Sophie) was my roommate and close friend for nearly five years. As we were both art students with adjacent interests, she quickly became integrated into my social media posts, and eventually my friend groups. Like, weāve vacationed together, slept over at each otherās houses, shared clothes, etc.Ā
For those of you who have known/followed me for awhile, in early 2020 I filed a police report against my father for domestic violence/child abuse, which has spawned a series of other legal battles. When I told stories regarding my home life, family, and just cultural norms of when your family is from the global south, I thought I was sharing a piece of my life with a friend from a different cultural background (white, affluent, from a rural community). I now know that many of these things I shared in confidence were being received with an air of judgement, my experiences were taken as testament to her familyās preconceived notion of how āuncivilized city folk areā, and I was very much treated as a charity case for their white saviorism. Sophie is one of the few people who knows the horrific details of my home life and mental health history, and has used it to disingenuously portray me in a negative light.Ā
One day in March I woke up to find that Iām blocked on Discord. Eventually it became apparent that Iāve been blocked everywhere (even places like Spotify and Letterboxd). At this point Iām panicking and wondering what I did because we had literally been talking like usual 12 hours prior.
I checked my DMs again to see a message from her mom a few hours prior saying āI hope youāre doing wellā . I tell my mom about this, and she takes to Facebook only to find that weāre both blocked by her mom too. After two hours of playing telephone with a mutual friend, I was told āSophie is going no contact due to behavior, there will be a note left on the deskā. I spent the day panicking as Iād been given no insight into what I had done, and did not know what Iād return to at the apartment the following day. This led to a several hours-long anxiety attack that manifested physical symptoms and left me bedridden.Ā
Little did I know this was the precursor to a lot of bullshit!!
Highlights:Ā
When I say āshe blocked me everywhereā, I mean everywhere but her art instagram account. This is because she still wished to benefit from my promotional poster and posts looking for volunteers to help with her thesis film.
After she had enough people for her film, I was kicked off of the project entirely without notice. Ā
I came back to school to find that half of the apartment was cleared out (and some mutual items, like seasonings and the rice cooker, taken :/) , with a two page signed letter left on her side of the room.Ā
I was accused of ānearly throwing a deadly glass bottle at her headā, and vaguely alluded to other instances of āabusive behaviorā but failed to cite exact incidents.Ā
Two paragraphs later she changed the bottle allegation from my ānearlyā throwing one, to my āpretending toā have done so, but still claims she feared for her safety.Ā
I did not throw or nearly throw any bottle at anyone and I have significant physical and emotional trauma from being bludgeoned in the head with a blunt object (also this is a crime). We were on a video call with friends at the time, and I have evidence to back up my claim.Ā
Armchair diagnosed me as āa sociopathā, citing that her best friendās mom is a psychologist.Ā
Neither party is qualified to comment on my psychiatric diagnoses, as Sophie is an animator, and I have my own psychologist and psychiatrist.Ā
In addition to blocking me, she also took the time to only block the other Black people within our friend group/group chat, claiming that they also posed a threat to her due to their allegiance to me.Ā
This is obviously not true, as she was talking to these people as if nothing was wrong in the days before.Ā
In the hours following her blocking me, she contacted a mutual friend and asked for them to record what I was saying/doing during my anxiety episode, so that she could show it to her friends [as a joke].Ā
The friend in question obviously did not do this. Sophie has since denied ever asking for this but we have screenshots of this interaction.
After the fallout from this saga, she attempted to manipulate a mutual friend into being more sympathetic to her actions in this scenario because they were āsubject to the most harshnessā from me, and insisted that if I had talked to them first, I would have manipulated them into blocking her. I have reason to believe other parties were also told variations of this, with details omitted/changed based on what would resonate the most.Ā
In the weeks leading up to this incident, she failed to file any paperwork I asked of her as treasurer for a student organization, then quit without warning on the day she blocked me everywhere. Her replacement was not adequately trained before her departure, and it led to a lot of financial difficulties for the remainder of the school year.Ā
^ Current org treasurer has corroborated my account, but Sophie denies this claim herself.Ā
Since all of this transpired, I have been told by mutual friends that she has been intentionally misgendering me when Iām referenced in conversation.Ā
Basically, I use he/they with close friends but in academic/professional life people she/her me. Do I like it? No. Am I going to fight in this political climate? No. It is hurtful though for someone who knows my preferences to intentionally refer to me as a girl though.Ā
To justify this situation to outside parties, she has taken my words and actions out of context to portray me as a violent and irrational person; implying that I am so unstable and manipulative that she could not have a conversation with me stating that she didnāt want to be friends anymore, or I wouldāve ātold everyone not to speak to her anymore.ā
In reality, many of the anecdotes sheās given of my āirrationalityā were my dealing with the fallout of: my ongoing DV case, recovering from a psychiatric ward stay, the death of my grandfather, an SA, dealing with an administrative harassment/intimidation case, etc.Ā
This letter was not a ālast resortā, but the first option for someone who did not wish to have a difficult conversation or have someone be upset with them and instead went nuclear.Ā
When she was confronted by mutual friends regarding all of this behavior via email, she accused me of ghostwriting their statements.Ā
I did not write the emails. I also never read her responses. Because their relationships with her, while affected by me, ultimately arenāt my business/jurisdiction.
Overall, this situation has created a lot of unnecessary stress in both my academic and personal life. While I will not stoop as low as her to claim that she has āmade me a worse personā, I will not lie that this has caused a great deal of heartbreak seeing as this was someone I considered one of my best friends. I do not let people into my life easily due to my home life (and the many personality flaws it has spawned in me lol), and this has shattered much of the trust Iāve spent these past five years working to build up in therapy.Ā
I hope anyone who was told something fucked up has the opportunity to read this, and please reach out if Iāve harmed you! Iād much rather be judged on things I did do and can control than the words of someone who does not wish me well.Ā
I am admittedly a very messy and negative person, and have much to work on with being a more considerate and aware person. However, the way she has characterized me has been so disturbing and damaging that it has left my entire household in shock, especially considering our own experiences with abuse.Ā
There is so much more to this story that Iād like to share for context, but ultimately would be inappropriate to disclose publicly. Irls and mutuals can reach out though.
And in the case of this being screenshotted and sent to Sophie (because I now know how your cohorts get down)ā
Sophie. You are not a poor country girl who just happens to find herself frequently victimized by her peers.Ā
You are a grown adult whose father works as an engineer for Elon Musk, and makes enough to afford a large house so your mother can be a stay at home mom and clean up all of your messes. Because of this, you have never faced any meaningful consequence to your actions save for junior year, where you failed out of your thesis film despite being given multiple passes and extensions, because you simply didnāt want to take your professorās criticism.Ā
I hope that you grow out of this, work to live with benign discomfort, and learn to grow a spine and handle conflicts in a more mature manner, rather than going nuclear. If not for yourself, then for anyone who has to work with you in the future. I am not going to pretend I wish you well, so stop pretending to be the bigger person in this scenario.Ā
Someone cutting you off after reading that letter you wrote does not mean I manipulated themā it means they came to their own conclusions on the situation. I donāt have to send anyone after you, because you have already shown your character and I have evidence to back up all of my claims. I hope you keep me and my familyās name out of your mouth, and stop using my struggles and trauma as funny conversational anecdotes to compensate for your uncomplex life.
evangelicals being like "god made men to do This and be like This and women to do That and be like That that's just how it is" and it's just a picture of a white man and woman following traditional gender norms makes me so insane like you boring fascist fucks. god made 2 million species of beetles. god made whales, ducks, humans, and 1500 other species capable of same sex behavior. god made fish and amphibians that change sexes. god made more than 30 different intersex variations in human beings. god, in his infinite curiosity. wake up!!! fuck!!
"god wants women to have perfect no-makeup makeup looks and stay at home not talking back and upholding capitalism" god??? that guy who made lizards that shoot blood out of their eyes?? that guy who made salmon do whatever the fuck that is?? are you fucking crazy???
